04/01/2026
There is a kind of ministry that doesn't make it into the highlight reel.
Sitting with someone as they die.
Holding a hand when there are no more words. Being present in a room where the air has shifted and everyone knows what is coming. Staying when every human instinct says to look away.
This is some of the holiest work there is.
And it costs something that nobody talks about. The weight of it follows you home. It lives in your body. It changes the way you see time, and urgency, and what actually matters.
If you are in this season right now - accompanying someone toward death, or still carrying the grief of having done so -
*You are not doing it wrong if it is heavy.*
*You are not failing if you need help carrying it.*
End of life coaching, spiritual direction, healing touch and honest conversation exist for exactly this. You do not have to process the sacred weight of this work alone.
I see you. 💙
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