Rambling Rach

11/23/2025

She’s 25, y’all! 25!!!! I swear it was last week I saw a photo of her at 8 and whispered, “I can be your mommy.” to the computer screen. I’ve legally been her mom for 15 years this month. She’s out with her friends and her 3-year-old is sleeping next to me in my bed right now. Being a grandma (or Gaga, as he named me) is by far my favorite role.

11/21/2025

I got my hair cut for the first time since March (or maybe February) today! I stumbled upon by chance four years ago while visiting my besties and now I only want her to cut my hair. She understands my thick hair with wonky Irish curls underneath a straight top layer. The problem is, she’s two hours from me and only available twice a week. Hence, not getting a cut in 9 months! I went very short last time, which bought me some time. But the last two pics are from before the cut today. It still looked good! Anyway, Gen freshened up my and it is always great to see her. Ps. I got these Ray-ban sunnies at the goodwill bins.

11/20/2025

Got my cunty little bob freshened up today.

11/20/2025

In case you’ve missed hearing about Bestie Boo. He’s still turning the bed down for me at night and leaving coffee for me at the crack of dawn in the morning before he goes to work. I wish I could rent him out. I’d be a millionaire in a year!

11/16/2025

I’ve been on a long hiatus from blogging/social media-ing. I miss writing/rambling and the sense of community. Maybe I will dip my toe back soon. In the meantime, please pop over to this post and comment #10. It’s not the best turkey by far, but it’s my fave! 🥰

08/29/2025

07/02/2025

It’s Bestie Boo day! 🎂🎉 Another year of having such an amazing friend. Silas asked me who I want when I’m sick the other day. I said, “Patrick.”

The first pic was taken just a few hours before the next two. I faceplanted on the sidewalk. He got me up, guided me back to his house, cleaned/iced/bandaged my wounds, medicated me, and tucked me into bed.

He’s learned about iron deficiency and blood disorders because he cares about me. He asks Chatgpt what I should eat to feel better.

He dug through Goodwill bins with me this year. We make the best charcuterie building team. I still get my best sleep at his house.

I think most of the world’s problems would be wiped out if everyone had a loving, caring, supportive, encouraging person like Patrick in their corner. Oh, and he’s brilliant, funny, and hot, too!

Happy birthday, Bestie Boo. I love you so much and I’m so glad you exist. I’m excited to see all the big moves and cool things you make happen in this next year around the sun. ❤️❤️❤️

06/14/2025

I wrote this several years ago. It’s still just as heavy.

It's been three years since the Pulse Nightclub shooting. What can you do to make it better on Pulse Rememberance day?