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01/26/2026

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01/26/2026

Silence is not anger, it is the sound of a boundary finally being respected.

I forgive easily, but when I go silent, it means something was crossed too deeply to ignore. Forgiveness comes from the heart, but silence comes from self respect. It is what happens when words have already been used and nothing changed. When explaining yourself starts to feel pointless.

Going quiet does not mean you stopped caring. It means you stopped fighting. You realized that protecting your peace matters more than being understood by someone who keeps hurting you. Silence becomes the safest place when emotions have been stretched too far.

Some boundaries are not announced. They appear as distance. As fewer words. As energy slowly pulling back. Not because of bitterness, but because staying close started to cost too much emotionally.

If someone notices your silence, they should not question your attitude. They should question their actions. Because when a forgiving person finally steps back, it usually means they gave chances far beyond what was deserved.

01/09/2026

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01/09/2026

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Distance does not appear out of nowhere, it is taught over time.

You do not get to starve a child of love for decades and then demand closeness when they grow up. Love withheld leaves marks. Silence becomes language. Absence becomes normal. A child learns early what not to expect, and that lesson does not disappear with age.

You raised distance through neglect, emotional absence, and unmet needs. You taught them to self soothe, to stay quiet, to stop reaching. You taught them not to rely on you. That was not rebellion. That was survival.

Now, as an adult, they are not cold. They are conditioned. They are protecting themselves the way they always had to. You cannot demand intimacy from someone you never made feel safe enough to need you.

This is not punishment. It is consequence. You raised distance. Now sit with it. Healing may still be possible, but entitlement to closeness is not. Love must be given to be returned.

01/05/2026

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12/22/2025

It’s called Boundaries! Love them from afar.

Forgiveness is biblical—letting someone keep abusing you isn’t.
Somewhere along the way,

“Be like Jesus” got twisted into
“Let people do whatever they want to you.”

-Jesus taught forgiveness.
-Jesus also walked away from some places.
-Jesus also set clear lines.

You can:

-Forgive someone
-Pray for them
-Wish them well
…and still decide:

“I’m not staying in this conversation.”
“I won’t tolerate that behaviour.”
“I love you, but I won’t expose myself to this again.”

Grace doesn’t mean you have to be a punching bag.
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do
is forgive fully and step back wisely. 🕊️

12/18/2025