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02/10/2026

Love means planning ahead.
Taking time to start the conversation now can ease the burden on the people you care about most and ensure your wishes are known.

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02/09/2026

Walker Hall Vivion

Walker Hall Vivion, 68-year-old Warsaw, Missouri resident, formerly of Vinita, passed away February 2, 2026, in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He was born June 11, 1957, to Mart and Donna (Barnwell) Vivion in Vinita, Oklahoma. He graduated from Vinita High School.

Walker began working at Carter’s Hardware during high school. He stayed after graduation and eventually became the manager. He also worked for Grand River Dam Authority. Walker’s adventurous nature eventually led him to pursue a travel job with a road construction company where he worked for 37 years until his retirement.

In addition to being a hard worker and dedicated employee, Walker was known for his jovial personality and charming smile. Anytime you saw Walker, he had a big smile on his face.

Walker is survived by his sister, Karen Sue Blankenship of Pensacola, Florida; brother, Ronnie Nowlin and wife, Joyce, of Vinita, Oklahoma; nieces and nephews, Justin Nowlin of Vinita, Janatha Schreiner of Tulsa, Kevin Cackler of Broken Arrow, Karla Besmer of Florida, and Bill Cackler of Texas; along with a host of other relatives and friends.

A private interment service will be held at Ketchum Cemetery. Online condolences may be made at www.honoringmemoriesvinita.com or on the funeral home page. Arrangements are in the care of Luginbuel Funeral Home of Vinita. “Family owned. Locally operated.”

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02/06/2026

Grief is not something to fix, it’s something to honor.
The depth of our grief reflects the depth of our love, and mourning is a natural response to meaningful connection.
In this thoughtful article by Dr. Alan Wolfelt, he explores why our capacity to grieve exists because we first had the capacity to love.
Read more: https://1l.ink/HFPNMZS

02/04/2026

We honor everyone who has been impacted by cancer, those currently fighting, those we’ve lost, and the families and caregivers who walk beside them every step of the way.

01/29/2026

Jessie Lee Ary

Jessie Lee Ary II, affectionately known as “Jay,” passed away on January 21, 2026, in Bartlesville, OK, surrounded by those who loved him. He was born on April 17, 1974, in Santa Paula, CA. Jay lived life to the fullest, marked by service, quiet strength, curiosity, and a deep love for his family and the world around him.

Jay spent his early years in Santa Paula, CA, where he played Little League and later basketball and football at Santa Paula High School. During his senior year, he moved to Disney, OK, where he attended and graduated from Jay High School with the Class of 1994. While at Jay High School, he played baseball and basketball. Sports reflected Jay’s teamwork, determination, and loyalty to those beside him. From an early age, Jay rode dirt bikes, a hobby he carried into adulthood when he later rode street bikes as well.

Following high school, Jay enlisted in the United States Army, answering a call to serve that would shape the rest of his life. He served honorably with the 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment, known as “The Old Guard,” and was stationed at Fort Myer, VA. His service included membership on the Funeral Honors Team and the solemn responsibility of guarding the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, duties he carried with humility, pride, and deep respect.

While serving in the Army, Jay began pursuing higher education, though he did not complete his degree until after his military service ended. During and after his service, Jay became a world traveler, spending time throughout Europe and Central and South America. His travels included climbing Machu Picchu. Travel was not just about places for Jay, but about people, cultures, and experiences that enriched his life.

After completing his military service, Jay worked as an estimator for a moving company and later opened his own restaurant in Northern VA, based on Peruvian food he discovered and grew to love during his travels. These years reflected his independence, strong work ethic, and entrepreneurial spirit. He later moved back to OK, where he completed his bachelor’s degree at Oklahoma State University, fulfilling a goal he had long been committed to achieving.

Jay later lived and worked abroad, teaching English in Brazil, where he formed lasting connections and continued his lifelong passion for learning. He spoke several languages, including Spanish, Portuguese, and German. He was well-versed in history and ancient times and was an avid collector, interests that reflected his curiosity and love of knowledge.

After returning to the United States, Jay built a career in the mining industry, working as a mechanic at the Brakefield Coal Mine in Vinita, OK. He took pride in honest, hands-on work and was respected by those around him for his skill, reliability, and steady presence.

Above all, Jay was a devoted son, father, brother, and friend. He is survived by his loving parents, Jessie and Dianne Ary (née Morgan); his children, Perola and Jessie III, who were the center of his world; his sister, Tanya Asher and husband Greg; and his brothers, Roger Mohan and wife Dorothea, and Samuel Ary and wife Dilyara Daminova. He also leaves behind many extended family members and friends whose lives were touched by his kindness, loyalty, and quiet generosity.

Jay was preceded in death by his grandparents Grandma Mary and Cecil; Grandpa and Grandma Buffalohead; Grandpa and Grandma Morgan; his aunts Carol, Rose, and Patsy; his uncles Carl, Patrick, and Doyle Ray; his cousins Amanda and Billy; his nephew Allan; and his niece Olivia.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on February 28, 2026, at Family Community Church, 220 Cherokee Avenue, Langley, OK, with Pastor Dan Miller officiating. A luncheon will follow in the Fellowship Hall. Interment at Fort Gibson National Cemetery will take place at a later date.

Online condolences may be shared at www.honoringmemoriesvinita.com or on the funeral home page. Arrangements are under the care of Luginbuel Funeral Home of Vinita, family owned and locally operated.

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01/29/2026

Kenneth Lee Trude

Kenneth Lee Trude, age 71, passed away on January 20, 2026. He was a beloved father, brother, grandfather, father-in-law, and great-grandfather.

Kenneth was born on December 12, 1954, in Nowata, Oklahoma. A man who lived life with a pen in his shirt pocket, a comb in his jeans, and enough positive energy to light up the entire state of Oklahoma, Kenneth brought joy, kindness, and a helping hand to everyone he met.

He was a proud veteran who served his country before returning home to build a life defined by hard work and devotion to family. Many in the Vinita community will remember Kenneth from his decades of dedicated service as a maintenance worker and janitor for Vinita Public Schools.

While Kenneth held many jobs throughout his life, his favorite roles were “Grandpa” and “Great-Grandpa.” Whether he was fishing, admiring classic cars, or sitting down to play video games with the kids, his world revolved around his family. He had a rare, infectious joy that stayed with you long after he left the room. Whenever Kenneth came to visit, you had to catch the stories while you could — because he was always on to the next adventure.

Kenneth left an everlasting mark on every heart he encountered. His legacy lives on through his only daughter, her children, and his many great-grandchildren — along with the hard work, kindness, laughter, and reminder that life is meant to be lived at full speed.

He will be deeply missed by his family, his friends, and the many lives he touched in Vinita and beyond. A Celebration of Life will be held Saturday, February 7, 2026 at 2:00 P.M. in the Luginbuel Funeral Home Chapel with Pastor Dan Miller officiating. Kenneth will be laid to rest at Ft. Gibson National Cemetery at a later date.

Online condolences may be made at www.honoringmemoriesvinita.com or on the funeral home page. Arrangements are in the care of Luginbuel Funeral Home of Vinita. "Family owned. Locally operated."

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01/29/2026

For many, winter can bring a heavier emotional weight, especially for those carrying grief. The season slows us down, sometimes more than we’d like. Even so, some strength is built in stillness.

01/27/2026

You may hear the terms viewing and visitation used interchangeably, but they can serve different purposes.
A viewing is typically a quiet time to pay respects in person, while a visitation is often a more open opportunity for family and friends to gather and offer support.
Both are meaningful in their own way.

01/22/2026

January is National Get Organized Month.

A new year is a natural time to take stock of important details and put things in order. Taking time to organize now can make things easier for the people you love later.

Schedule a time to talk with us about planning ahead.

01/19/2026

Loretta Cook

Loretta Cook, 91-year-old Langley resident, passed away January 15, 2026, at Grandwood Nursing Center in Grove surrounded by family. She was born on December 29, 1934, in Decatur, Arkansas to Ray Everett and Marie (Wayt) Wilkins.

Loretta grew up on a farm between Decatur and Gravette. She graduated from Gravette High School in 1952 where she lettered in basketball and played saxophone in the band.

She was known as a ball of energy with a spirited personality. In her spare time, Loretta enjoyed dancing. She was a devout Catholic, active in the St Francis-Rome parish in Langley where she served as a Eucharistic minister and Lector as well as a volunteer for many church activities. A successful realtor in the Grand Lake area for over 30 years, many knew her for her energetic personality and abilities.

Loretta is survived by her children, Jackie Foreman (Jim Finnell) of Tulsa, Oklahoma, and Billy Boydston, Jr. (Kathy) of Sorrento, Florida; grandchildren, Amber Gaddis (Matt) of Dallas, Texas, Amy Fernando (Johann) of Lake Mary, Florida, and Kevin Boydston (Jenny) of Dallas, Texas; five great grandchildren; and sister, Iva Jane Hamilton of Kansas City, Missouri.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Burl Gene Cook; parents; and sisters, Lena White and Raydell Ferrel.

Ms. Cook will be available for viewing Wednesday, January 21, 2026 from 9:00-4:00 P.M at Luginbuel Funeral Home Vinita, 332 N. Scraper, Vinita, OK 74301. Graveside services will be held at 1:00 P.M. on Thursday, January 22, 2026, at the Decatur Cemetery, Decatur, Arkansas with Rev. Balaraju Akkala officiating. Online condolences may be made at www.honoringmemoriesvinita.com or on the funeral Home page. Arrangements are in the care of Luginbuel Funeral Home South Grand Lake. “Family owned. Locally operated.”

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01/19/2026

Derla Jean Wise

Derla Jean Wise, born on October 13, 1946, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on January 15, 2026. She lived a fulfilling life, notable for both her dedicated career and her deep commitment to family and faith.

Derla devoted 40 years of her professional life to First National Bank, where she earned the respected position of Vice President before her retirement. Her work ethic and dedication made a lasting impact on her colleagues and the community she served.

A proud graduate of Will Rogers High School, Derla was not only dedicated to her career but also to her faith. She was a cherished member of Carter Baptist Church, where she found strength and companionship within her spiritual community.

Her family was the cornerstone of her life. Derla is survived by her husband, Terry Wise, who stood by her throughout their years together. She was a loving mother to her children, Jean Anne Bench, Jeff Wise of Joplin, Missouri and Jessica Westbrook (David) of Pensacola, Oklahoma. She took immense joy in her role as a grandmother to her grandchildren, Josie King (Walt), Kelli Crabtree (Joe), Michah Wise (Mackenzie), T.J. Wise, Julie Wise, and Isabella Westbrook. Furthermore, Derla cherished the moments she spent with her great-grandchildren: Joli, Mila, Zoey, Presleigh, Paisley, Leighton, Roland, Blake, Ryder, Jesse, Dallas, J.J., Miranda, Jaxon, Jesiah, and Jericho.

Derla was preceded in death by her beloved daughter, Jean Anne Bench; her parents, Jack and Rachel Goddard; and her sisters Jackie, Francis, and Phyllis.

Her legacy will forever be honored by her family and friends, including special friends Darrell and Darlene Ward, who were treasured in her life.

Derla's viewing will take place on January 20, 2026, from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM, followed by a Celebration of Life at 2:00 PM at Luginbuel Funeral Home, located at 332 N Scraper St, Vinita, Oklahoma 74301.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Walk for the Cure. Online condolences may be made at www.honoringmemoriesvinita.com or on the funeral home page. Arrangements are in the care of Luginbuel Funeral Home of Vinita. "Family owned. Locally operated."

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01/19/2026

Today we honor the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and reflect on his enduring message of compassion and service to others.