03/17/2026
So I did a thing this past weekend I’ve never done before. I did a podcast interview with Micah Dillon, who was widowed at 36 after finding her husband in the shower one morning, dead from a heart attack. She was suddenly faced w/ raising their two young children alone. I met her last month at Rawls Museum Arts where my art was displayed in an exhibit about using art to heal. Micah was performing a song she wrote to help herself heal. We spoke afterwards, exchanging our “widow stories”. She told me about the organization she formed called The Widow Walk & asked if she could interview me on her podcast to share my story & my ART+WRITE+HEAL Workshops.
I went to Micah’s house & we sat on her porch for the podcast. I told her I was a nervous speaker & I didn’t know how podcasts work. She showed my “Grief feels like walking through broken glass” art piece from the exhibit & told how much of an impact it had made on her. We talked about me using writing & then art to heal myself through my grief journey & then the creation of my workshops. The interview lasted 1.5 hours.
I watched the interview today & was amazed at how comfortable Micah was in front of the camera. I admired the way she spoke so clearly & confidently. My thoughts about myself on the video were not as kind. I fidgeted some from nervousness, didn’t speak as loudly & clearly as I should’ve & stumbled over words. I should’ve been looking at the camera the whole time.
Several hours later I found the grace for myself that I should’ve had in the first place. This was all new to me & definitely out of my comfort zone. I came to realize I didn’t do as bad as I’d thought. Instead, I spoke with real, honest, raw emotion about Kenny’s death & then passionately about my writing, art & the workshops born from his death. I came that day to tell a story & that’s exactly what I did. Fidgeting aside, that story was told & in the end, I’m proud of myself for having the courage to put myself out there to plant the important seeds I’ve been carrying in my pocket for almost four years now. Kenny would be proud, and I know that he is. 🙏🏻 Find the podcast here https://www.thewidowwalk.org/post/go-do-the-thing