12/19/2025
A pause isn’t the same as silence, and it’s not passive either. It’s the brief space between what you’re feeling and what you do next.
That space matters because it gives you a moment before you say or do something you might regret later. A pause can help you find your footing when emotion feels overwhelming. It doesn’t make the feeling go away. It keeps you connected to yourself instead of swept up in reaction.
Regulating emotion means staying present with what you’re feeling. A pause creates just enough room to notice what’s going on inside and decide what feels right to do next.