10/28/2025
Most people don't seem to realize that difficulty with hearing-more than any other sense-tends to impact everybody ELSE more than the person with the hearing loss. Hearing almost always takes a back seat to pretty much everything, so by the time that it IS addressed, there has been a great deal of life that has passed by.
We frequently hear from frustrated family members that cannot stand to be in the same room as a spouse or parent because the TV is painfully loud, but to the relative, it is just the right volume. It doesn't sound too loud to them, but like the person that doesn't notice that they are shouting over their headphones' volume, it is bothering everybody else in the room.
The cartoon is a lighthearted poke at a very stressful way of living. It is exhausting to live with somebody with hearing loss! To have to constantly repeat themselves and to often do it at a louder volume than their natural voice, wears down your family and friends and to be in a room where the TV is twice as loud as comfortable is a miserable experience.
With hearing loss, your private conversations aren't as private as you think, that video you're watching quietly on your phone is annoying people 15 feet away, and you can't even begin to imagine what all you're missing out on because the hearing loss sneaks up on you so slowly that you didn't notice those sounds slipping away.
Because of our ear's anatomy, most people will start to show some decline in the high frequencies long before you notice it in the low frequencies, but it occurs over years and at a rate that is imperceptible until it is quite significant. The high frequency range of your hearing includes subtle sounds that are crucial for your ability to understand WHAT people are saying. You can hear the talking, but the clarity is easily lost when you have a high frequency hearing loss. This can lead to misunderstandings, not realizing that people are even speaking at all, and missing out on things like rustling leaves, bird chirps, and a laughing 2 year old.
When people are properly fit with hearing aids, they are often amazed at the things that they hadn't realized had slipped away in their lives, but it is appreciated even more by their loved ones that no longer have to shout.
Hearing aid candidacy is determined by a comprehensive hearing evaluation from a licensed hearing heath practitioner AND the patient's openness to their benefit. If you refuse to accept that you'll benefit and if you refuse to give them the opportunity to help you, then you are not a candidate at this time. This is an unfortunate situation because through it all, the people around you are the ones that may be suffering the most.