Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory

Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory Shipman Funeral Home and Crematory is family owned with an onsite crematory. Our family owned Funeral Home has been in business for more than thirty years.

It was built by the owners Randy and Brenda Shipman who is still fully active in the business today. Helping them in the business is their son Jason and daughter in law Anita Shipman. We take great pride in the upmost care and dignity that we give to our famillies. As a family we understand the needs of people in the most difficult time of their lives. Our mission at our family funeral home is to never let anyone's legacy go untold or be forgotten or to leave the one's left beind alone. We are here before and after...

03/12/2026

Sammy Ray Bond, age 66, of Okay, Oklahoma, passed away on Friday, March 6, 2026, at his home surrounded by his family.

Sammy was born on May 19, 1959, in Nowata, Oklahoma, to Jackie Ray Bond and Charlotte Marie McClure. He received his GED and was known for his curious mind and creative spirit. Sammy loved guns and attending gun shows, trucks, and spending time with his family. He enjoyed visiting flea markets to see what unique and interesting items he could find. He also loved reading blueprints and was an avid inventor who enjoyed figuring out how things worked and creating new ideas.

Sammy was preceded in death by his mother, Charlotte Godfrey; his father, Jackie Bond; and his sister, Patricia Bond.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Michele Bond, of the home in Okay, Oklahoma; his children, Sarah Bond of Wagoner, Oklahoma, Dusty Bond and wife Morgan of Muskogee, Oklahoma, and Olin Bond and wife Ashley of Muskogee, Oklahoma; and his six grandchildren, Carter, Murphy, Liam, Eli, Miles, Oliver, and Jaxon. He is also survived by many brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and friends who will miss him dearly. Sammy was a great husband, father and grandfather he loved and cherished his family and enjoyed helping others.

A memorial service to celebrate Sammy’s life will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, March 13, 2026, at Shipman Funeral Home in Wagoner, Oklahoma, with Chaplain John Harrison officiating.

Family and friends are invited to gather for a meal following the service at The Life Center at First Baptist Church Okay, located at 7530 N. 37th E., Okay, Oklahoma 74446.

Honoring the Calling of a Funeral DirectorToday on National Funeral Directors Day, I want to take a moment to honor two ...
03/11/2026

Honoring the Calling of a Funeral Director

Today on National Funeral Directors Day, I want to take a moment to honor two men who have dedicated their lives to serving families during their most difficult moments — Randy Shipman and Jason Shipman.

Funeral service is not just a profession. It is a calling. It is long nights, quiet prayers, steady hands, and compassionate hearts that show up for families when the world feels like it has stopped.

Randy built this legacy with integrity, compassion, and a deep respect for every life that comes through our doors. His dedication laid the foundation for what Shipman Funeral Home is today.

Jason carries that same heart of service forward — honoring families, walking beside them through grief, and continuing the legacy that was started generations before.

From father… to son… and now to the next generation growing up watching what it means to serve others with dignity and love.

I am so proud of these men and the work they do every single day. Being a funeral director takes a special kind of heart — one that is willing to stand in the gap for families when they need it most.

Today we honor you. ❤️

Happy National Funeral Directors Day.

— Anita Shipman
Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory

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03/11/2026

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🎉 Happy 20th Birthday to our son, Ryan “Bull” Shipman. 🎉Twenty years ago God blessed our lives with a son who would grow...
03/07/2026

🎉 Happy 20th Birthday to our son, Ryan “Bull” Shipman. 🎉

Twenty years ago God blessed our lives with a son who would grow into a young man with a strong heart, steady character, and a deep compassion for others. Watching you grow into the man you are today has been one of the greatest blessings of our lives.

Ryan, as you continue your journey in college to earn your funeral director’s license, we could not be more proud of the path you are choosing. This is more than a career — it is a calling to serve families during their most difficult moments with dignity, compassion, and care.

You are also preparing to carry forward a legacy that means so much to our family. A legacy that your Papa and Nana first built, one that your dad and I have been honored to continue, and one day, you will be the next generation to carry forward. To see you step into this calling with such respect and heart fills us with joy beyond words.

We pray that God continues to guide your steps, strengthen your heart, and bless the path He has placed before you.

Happy Birthday, Ryan. We love you deeply and are so proud to call you our son.

❤️ Love always,
Mom & Dad
Jason & Anita Shipman

03/06/2026

Henry Franklin Deckard, age 82, was born on February 18, 1944, and was called home to be with his Heavenly Father on February 28, 2026. A devoted father, grandfather, and man of faith, Henry lived a life marked by quiet strength, unwavering love for his family, and a deep trust in God.

Henry grew up with modest beginnings but carried big dreams and an even bigger heart. He worked hard throughout his life to provide for his family and instilled in his daughters the values of perseverance, kindness, honesty, and respect for others. Rather than lecturing, Henry led by example, teaching those around him how to face life’s challenges with courage and how to appreciate the simple joys that life offers.

A man of steady character, Henry was known for his quiet strength. His actions spoke louder than his words. Whether working long hours to care for his family or showing up faithfully for school events and activities, he made it clear through his presence and dedication how deeply he loved those closest to him.

Henry treasured time spent with his family. Some of the most cherished memories were the simple moments—sitting outside together talking about life, working in the garden, or sharing stories around the dinner table. When his daughters were young, Henry stepped into the role of both father and mother, creating laughter and unforgettable memories along the way. From pulling the girls around in the snow on an ice chest, to making fried bologna sandwiches that he proudly served as if they were a fine meal, Henry had a special way of turning everyday moments into treasured memories.

Despite his serious demeanor, Henry possessed a wonderful and unexpected sense of humor. His dry wit and perfectly timed jokes often caught family members off guard and left them laughing. His humor and warmth were a cherished part of family gatherings and everyday life.

Henry was especially proud of his grandchildren. He loved attending their football games and school activities, always cheering them on and celebrating their accomplishments. He spoke often of how proud he was of each of them. He also had a special affection for the family’s grand-dogs, often joking that they were well behaved and never talked back.

A man of faith, Henry trusted in God throughout his life. His faith remained strong until the very end, and he faced his final days with peace, confident in the promise of eternal life and the reunion with loved ones who had gone before him.

Henry leaves behind a legacy of love, integrity, and devotion to family. His life was a testament to the values he lived each day—hard work, humility, faith, and unconditional love.

Though his family mourns his passing, they celebrate the remarkable life he lived and the countless memories he leaves behind. His love will remain a lasting foundation for those who knew him, and his memory will continue to be a source of strength and comfort.

Henry is survived by his three daughters; Christy Deckard Williams and her husband Todd, Amanda Moore and her husband Craig and Lyna L. Potts, sister, Linda Stevenson, brother Tony Deckard, grandchildren Megan, Emily, Molly, Peanut and Coco, cat CoCo, grand dogs; Briley, Mia, Remi, Pheobe, Tommy and Sissy and his grand cat Miss Kitty.

A visitation for Henry will be held Sunday, March 8, 2026 from 2:00 P.M. to 4:00 P.M. at Shipman Funeral Home Chapel in Wagoner. A graveside service to honor Henry’s life will take place Monday, March 9, 2026 at 2:00 P.M., at Elmwood-Bennett cemetery in Wagoner, Oklahoma.

03/05/2026

Healing Matters

Life moves quickly.The streets stay busy.The lights keep changing.And most of us just keep walking forward, focused on t...
03/05/2026

Life moves quickly.

The streets stay busy.The lights keep changing.And most of us just keep walking forward, focused on the next thing in front of us in our lives.

But every once in a while, it’s good to pause.

To remember that our time here is not forever. One day, each of us will take our final walk from this life into eternity. And while that may sound heavy, it’s really a gentle reminder of something important — our lives matter, and so do the memories we leave behind.

At Shipman Funeral Home, we see every day how meaningful it is when families have taken the time to talk about their wishes, share their stories, and make plans for that final chapter. It brings peace in a moment that can otherwise feel overwhelming.

So today, wherever you are, slow down just a little.

Hold your loved ones close.Make the memories.Say the words that matter.And when the time feels right, take a moment to make plans for the future as well.

Because the greatest gift we can leave our families is not just our love…but the peace of knowing we cared enough to prepare.

Thank you to my brother who’s currently visiting in Korea for the beautiful pictures ❤️

With love,
Life Celebrant Anita J. Shipman
Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory
Wagoner-Muskogee

Healing Matters Workshop – PostponedTo our community and those who had planned to join us for the Healing Matters seven-...
03/04/2026

Healing Matters Workshop – Postponed

To our community and those who had planned to join us for the Healing Matters seven-week grief workshop scheduled to begin tomorrow evening,

Due to some current health concerns I am experiencing, I must temporarily postpone the start of this workshop. I had truly been looking forward to gathering together and walking through this healing journey with each of you, but at this time I need to focus on my health and recovery.

Healing Matters is very close to my heart, and I remain committed to offering this program to our community. Once I am able to return and feel my strength restored, we will announce a new start date.

At that time, the workshop will most likely be offered online so that more people can comfortably participate. Participants will still be able to pick up their printed workbook at Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory so you can follow along with each week of the class.

Thank you for your understanding, your patience, and for the many prayers and kind messages of support.

Jason and I look forward to sharing this meaningful experience with you soon.

With gratitude,
Anita J. Shipman
Shipman Funeral Home & Crematory

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03/04/2026

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Ethel Leora Kennedy was born on September 2, 1946, and peacefully passed from this life on February 27, 2026, at the age...
03/03/2026

Ethel Leora Kennedy was born on September 2, 1946, and peacefully passed from this life on February 27, 2026, at the age of 79.

Ethel lived a life marked by quiet strength, devotion to her family, and a deep appreciation for life’s simple treasures. She was especially proud of earning her GED, a personal accomplishment that reflected her determination and resilience. For a time, she answered the call to serve by joining the National Guard. Although she was unable to complete her training due to the needs of a sick child at home, she often spoke fondly of the experience and the pride she felt in stepping forward to serve.

Ethel found joy in life’s small adventures. She loved browsing garage sales, flea markets, and thrift stores, always on the hunt for a hidden treasure. To her, these outings were more than shopping trips — they were moments of discovery and delight, often shared with those she loved.

She was preceded in death by her father, Charles Everett Sage; her mother, Fay Arline Sage; her former husband, Bobby Dale Kennedy Sr.; and her beloved grandson, Wesley Alexander Kennedy.

Ethel leaves behind a legacy carried on by her sons: Bobby Dale Kennedy Jr., Matthew Wayne Kennedy, Paul W. Kennedy, and Joseph Arthur Kennedy, all of Coweta. She was a proud grandmother to 11 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by one sister, eight brothers, and many nieces and nephews who will cherish her memory.

Ethel’s life was defined by perseverance, love for her family, and the quiet joys she gathered along the way. She will be remembered for her strength, her stories, and the simple happiness she found in everyday moments. Her memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.

03/02/2026

Dennis White was born on October 27, 1953, in Claremore, Oklahoma. He attended school in Bixby, Oklahoma and earned his GED just before being accepted into the fire academy, beginning the career he was clearly born to live. On July 16, 1980, he became a firefighter with the Tulsa Fire Department, serving faithfully for twenty-seven years until his retirement on May 3, 2007.

Dennis was a firefighter in every sense of the word — on duty and off. He was a man who ran toward danger, not away from it. One of his proudest moments came when he responded to a horrific accident involving a burning Jeep that had struck a school bus head-on. Without hesitation, Dennis pulled Tory from the vehicle seconds before it exploded. Years later, one of the highlights of his life was dancing with Tory at her wedding. For his heroic actions, he was honored as Firefighter of the Year in 1994.

Even in retirement, Dennis never stopped being a first responder at heart. While fishing with Vicky at the low water dam, he witnessed a young man being swept away by the current. Dennis acted immediately, throwing an anchor and pulling Aaron to safety. Aaron, now an emergency room nurse and evangelist, continues to share God’s word — a living reminder of Dennis’s courage that day.

While he was dedicated to serving others, Dennis’s greatest devotion was to his wife, Vicky. Vicky was the love of Dennis’s life and shared a bond that was truly from God. Their life together was like a fairy tale that only God could have orchestrated. Vicky shares how Dennis was truly the most handsome man she had ever seen!

Whether bowling — where they won numerous team, doubles, singles, and overall awards — or fishing for striper bass at Lake Texoma, they did life side by side. They were proud of the many big fish they caught, but even prouder of the life they built together. Dennis and Vicky enjoyed packing up the motorhome and hooking up the bass boat for a good weekend or week fishing wherever the road took them.

Golf was one of Dennis’s greatest passions. He cherished the time spent with his golf buddies and the friendships built on the course. Fishing was a close second. He loved the outdoors, the water, and the quiet moments that came with both. Dennis and Vicky found great joy in living on the shores of Fort Gibson Lake. The lake wasn’t just where they lived — it was where they built a life filled with laughter, early mornings on the back deck having their coffee and watching the eagles go by, and evenings spent with good friends. They treasured the community they found there, forming lasting friendships with neighbors and fellow lake-goers who quickly became like family. Whether it was casting a line, sharing stories on the dock, or simply watching the sun set across the water, those years on the lake were some of the most cherished of Dennis’s life. Dennis always told Vicky that life with him would always be an adventure.

Above all, Dennis was known for his heart. He was one of the kindest and most loving men you could meet. He was a faithful and devoted son to his mother, a proud father, grandfather and great grandfather, a loyal friend, and the kind of man who lived by the words:

“Whoever needs me — I’m there.”

Dennis is survived by his loving wife, Vicky (Teixeira) White; his son Travis and wife Candy (Ginn) White; Lacey and husband Brian Vogt; grandchildren Hunter and fiancée Parker, McClay and husband Reece, Rylee, Sophie, Rylie, and Ryder; great-granddaughter Millie James; sisters Marlene and husband Mel Fergeston, Nancy and husband Jimmie Reynolds, Sue and husband Roger Graves, and Angie and husband Mark Lanning; and many beloved nieces and nephews — Tommy, Tammy, Shandae, Nathan, Marnie, Kristi, Clay, Jason, Shannon, Eric, and Kelsie. He also leaves behind his loyal fur babies — Bullet, Rocky, and Red.

Dennis White lived a life of courage, loyalty, and love. He served his community, protected strangers, cherished his family, and never hesitated to step in when someone needed help. His legacy will live on in every life he touched — and every life he saved.

There were seasons in my grief when all I could do was sit.I didn’t have the language for the ache.I didn’t have the str...
03/02/2026

There were seasons in my grief when all I could do was sit.

I didn’t have the language for the ache.
I didn’t have the strength to explain the weight pressing against my chest.
Words felt too small for what my heart was carrying.

So I sat.

Like a tree that’s been cut down still rooted, still present but no longer what it once was.

The tears came quietly, steady as rain, falling from a place so deep I couldn’t reach the bottom of it.

There were no grand prayers.
No polished thoughts.
Just sitting.

And believing.

Believing that even in the stillness… even in the silence… even in the rawness of the pain…peace would come.

Not all at once.
Not loudly.
But gently.

Like the wind moving through bare trees.
Like chimes singing on a hill.
Like sunlight finding its way through branches that look lifeless.

Grief taught me that sometimes healing doesn’t look like strength.
Sometimes it looks like sitting on the stump of what was and trusting that your spirit will grow and heal again.

And one day, it does.

Peace doesn’t rush in.
It settles in.

And you realize you were healing, even when all you could do was sit. ♥️

Life Celebrant Anita J Shipman
Healing Matters

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Wagoner, OK
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