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The Breath Geek Breathwork, bio-hacking and life coaching Dr. Richard L. Blake

03/04/2026

We talk a lot about the mental health crisis
But almost never about concept inflation
Tse & Haslam (2024) found that in a nationally representative US sample:
About 60–61% had self-diagnosed themselves with a mental disorder at some point

But only around 43% had ever received a formal diagnosis

So self-diagnosis is outpacing clinical diagnosis.
Crucially, this wasn’t just about distress or impairment
Those mattered, of course
But how broad your personal definition of “mental disorder” was
became a major predictor of whether you decided you had one
They also showed that younger and more liberal participants:
Had broader concepts of mental disorder

Were more likely to self-diagnose

And that this link was partly explained by concept breadth

In my own randomised controlled trial
17% of applicants who believed they had a mental illness
didn’t even meet the threshold for mild anxiety
This doesn’t mean people are faking it
It means the language and concepts have shifted
On the plus side
Broader concepts can reduce stigma and encourage help-seeking
On the dark side
They can also fuel prevalence inflation
Where normal distress gets relabelled as pathology
Which can lead to over-treatment
Identity fusion with diagnoses
And people feeling less in control of their own minds
Some of us need treatment
Some of us need tools
Some of us just need to stop calling every hard feeling a disorder

03/03/2026

Did you know?
📊 December-born girls are 70% more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD.
📊 December-born boys? 30% more likely.
📊 Why? Because younger kids naturally struggle more in school.
When a six-year-old is nearly a year younger than their classmates, of course, they’ll have a harder time sitting still and paying attention.
But instead of recognizing this as a normal difference in development, many of these kids get labeled with a disorder.
This isn’t a brain problem—it’s an expectation problem.

03/02/2026

We don’t just empathise with victims —
We moralise them.
🧠 Harvard & Northwestern researchers coined the Virtuous Victim Effect — where victims are seen as more moral than non-victims, even when they act the same.
(Ok & Qian, 2021, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology)
📌 That instinct comes from the Justice Restoration Hypothesis — our brain’s impulse to fix unfairness.
So we forgive flaws, defend bad behaviour, and reward those who claim harm.
But here’s the danger:
People high in Dark Tetrad traits — narcissism, psychopathy, manipulation, and sa**sm — can exploit this.
They combine victim signalling (“I’ve been hurt”) with virtue signalling (“I’m morally right”) — to gain power, sympathy, and immunity.
And social media throws gasoline on it:
Pain = visibility.
Victimhood = currency.
Moral authority goes to whoever performs it best.

📚 Also see:
– University of Edinburgh (2022): Virtuous Victimhood as a Social Strategy
– Buckels et al. (2013): Sa**sm as an independent predictor of cruelty

👇 Drop ⚡ if you’ve seen healing used to hide harm.

02/27/2026

A 40-year longitudinal study (Hampson, 2008) followed middle-class children into adulthood and found something powerful:
The biggest predictor of success wasn’t IQ.
It wasn’t wealth.
It wasn’t even trauma.
It was emotional stability.
Kids who were prone to outbursts, emotional reactivity, or negative affect ended up with worse health, lower
well-being, and more downward mobility — even when they started off in relatively privileged homes.
This matters, because it challenges the idea that success or failure is just about where you start.
Sometimes, it’s about the emotional muscles you’ve built — or never did.
And the only way to build those muscles?
You’ve gotta go through hard things.
Not run from them.
Study citation:
Hampson, S. E. (2008). Mechanisms by which childhood personality traits influence adult well-being. Current
Directions in Psychological Science, 17(4), 264–268. Link










02/26/2026

I’m genuinely trying to make sense of this… 🤔

If more people are in therapy than ever before…
If there’s more funding, more therapists, and more access…
Then why is mental health getting worse?

CBT is supposed to be the gold standard for anxiety treatment. But even the most optimistic research shows that long-term success rates are around 25%—and that’s before factoring in the studies that never get published due to positive publication bias.

It makes me wonder: Are we measuring success the wrong way?

Modern therapy is heavily mind-focused—analyzing thoughts, unpacking stories, and making sense of the past. But what if true healing doesn’t come from talking at all?

🌀 Breathwork, psychedelics, non-ordinary states of consciousness—these bypass the intellect and go straight to the source.
⚡ They create physiological shifts, break trauma loops, and reconnect us with something deeper.

I’m not here to say therapy is useless. For some, it’s life-changing. But… maybe it’s not enough for real transformation.

What do you think?
Am I missing something here?

Drop your thoughts below 👇

02/25/2026

Therapy isn’t neutral.
The profession is dominated by one worldview — and the data proves it.
📊 Inbar & Lammers (2012):
▪️ Over 90% of social psychologists were liberal
▪️ Only 6% conservative
▪️ 37% admitted they would actively discriminate against a conservative peer
📊 Norton & Tan (2019):
▪️ Surveyed 467 licensed mental health counselors
▪️ Found the field was overwhelmingly liberal, conservatives underrepresented
And when one ideology dominates, it doesn’t heal — it divides.
That’s why families split over politics.
Why parents and children become estranged.
Why marriages end over red vs blue.
As Jonathan Haidt says: “you don’t save the bees by destroying the hive.”
If politics can collapse democracies, it can collapse therapy too.
We need balance.
We need intellectual diversity.
We need to take politics out of therapy — but given the monoculture, that’s a massive uphill battle.
Otherwise therapy becomes worldview enforcement — and the paradox continues:
more therapy than ever,
but worse mental health outcomes than ever.

👇 Comment ENOUGH if you’re ready for balance in mental health.









02/23/2026

Thomas Szasz saw this coming 60 years ago:
“We don’t have an epidemic of mental illness — we have an epidemic of psychiatry.”
He warned that once we started labelling ordinary sadness, pain, and struggle as “disorders,”
the number of diagnoses would explode —
and the humanity would disappear.
📊 He was right:
– The first DSM had just a few major disorders
– The DSM-5 now lists 540+
– And since 2019, mental health diagnoses in the U.S. have jumped 39.8% (source: Psychiatrist.com + U.S. Dept. of Health)
📌 But where’s the healing?
We have more therapy, more medication, more awareness —
Yet suicides are up.
Loneliness is worse.
And suffering hasn’t moved.
This isn’t mental health progress.
It’s diagnostic inflation.
A system that labels more… to do less.

👇 Drop a 💊 if you’re ready to talk about healing — not labelling.

02/23/2026

A 2025 study by Patihis et al. found something wild:
The more therapy sessions people attended, the more negatively they viewed their childhood—even if nothing about their life had changed.
📎 Read the study
The researchers are now calling for clear warnings to be shared with clients before starting therapy.
🧠 But this isn’t about bashing therapy.
✅ Therapy can be life-saving.
✅ Some people really do have trauma that needs to be named and healed.
✅ If you’ve been through something real, blaming others might be necessary.

But we also need to talk about the people therapy is hurting.
Because not all suffering comes from trauma.
Some comes from:
• Mold
• Methylation issues
• Nutrient deficiencies
• Blood sugar imbalances
• Gut-brain disruption
• Chronic inflammation
• Somatic dysregulation
• Sleep debt

Most therapists aren’t trained to look for those.
So instead of real healing, clients are handed a narrative:
“Something bad must’ve happened to you.”
And if you hear that enough, you’ll start to believe it—
even if it’s not true.

👇 Should therapy come with a warning label? Let’s talk about it.
You can listen to our podcast with the author of this study by going to RUNGA.co/podcast and looking for Lawrence Patihis.

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02/20/2026

The Dark Triad just got an upgrade — and it’s even more twisted.
🔍 Psychologists added sa**sm to the mix: the pleasure of hurting others.
Not just physical — but emotional, social, and reputational harm.

📌 Why it matters:
A 2021 meta-analysis found sa**sm predicts cruelty above and beyond narcissism, psychopathy, or manipulation. That’s why it was added to form the Dark Tetrad.
(Buckels, Jones & Paulhus, 2013, UBC Psychology)
📌 And it gets darker — a 2021 study published in Science Advances showed that people instinctively treat victims as more moral than others…
Which opens the door for manipulative people to perform pain for social advantage.
(Jordan et al., 2021)
📌 In fact, people with Dark Triad traits are more likely to signal victimhood in public — to gain trust, avoid accountability, or extract sympathy.
(Ok & Qian et al., 2021, PubMed)
🧠 Real victims exist. And they deserve to be heard.
But weaponised victimhood is real too — and spotting it could save you years of emotional damage.

👇 Drop ⚡ if you’ve ever watched someone hijack “healing” for control.

**sm

02/18/2026

We used to strive to be strong.
Now? It’s safer to be struggling.
Mental illness has become social currency — especially online, where posts about trauma, diagnosis, and neurodivergence often get more validation than posts about strength, growth, or success.
🧠 This isn’t just vibes — it’s the treatment–prevalence paradox.
Jorm et al. (2019) found that even as treatment rates rise, mental illness rates don’t drop — in part because the system incentivises staying unwell.
▪️ Accommodations
▪️ Extended deadlines
▪️ Financial support
▪️ Online validation

We don’t talk about the cost of that ecosystem:
That it teaches young people that pain = belonging
And healing = exile
If recovery feels like losing your identity —
Why would you get better?

📚 Citation:
Jorm, A. F., Patten, S. B., Brugha, T. S., & Mojtabai, R. (2019). Has increased provision of treatment reduced the prevalence of common mental disorders? Review of the evidence from four countries. World Psychiatry, 18(1), 90–99.

👇 Drop a 💭 if you’ve seen this play out — in schools, in friend groups, or online

02/18/2026

What if your childhood memories aren’t just remembered… but reshaped?
In a 2019 study by Patihis, Cruz & Herrera, participants were asked to reflect on either the positive or negative traits of their mother.
The result?
Just a few minutes of reframing altered how much warmth they recalled from childhood.
Literally — memory changed.
Now imagine doing that every week in therapy.
Or on social feeds filled with narcissist callouts, “toxic parent” memes, and algorithm-fed rage.
It’s no surprise we’re seeing a rise in family estrangement.
☝️ Let’s be clear:
Yes, some mothers are abusive.
Yes, estrangement can be the right choice.
But if memory is this flexible…
We need to ask:
Is this healing?
Or just emotional reprogramming?
Here’s the full study if you want to dive deeper:
Patihis, L., Cruz, N., & Herrera, M. E. (2019).
🎙️ Also — we’ve recovered a podcast with the study author Lawrence Patihis for RUNGA Radio - coming out soon.
You won’t want to miss it.
Find it in the link in bio.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/2167702619842468

02/16/2026

“There are two kinds of people:
Those who don’t know they need therapy…
And those who don’t know when to stop.”
That line from hits harder than most studies — because it reflects what therapy culture has become.
Too often now, “healing” isn’t integration —
It’s emotional indulgence dressed as growth.
📌 Here’s what we’re seeing more and more of:
▪️ Endless retreats with no real life change
▪️ Journals full of “inner work” but no social impact
▪️ Identity wrapped around trauma and transformation
▪️ No contribution — just constant processing
📚 Psychologist Nick Haslam calls this concept creep — when terms like “trauma” and “abuse” stretch to
cover almost every struggle. The result?
Healing becomes a performance. And dysfunction gets spiritualised.
The real measure of your self-work isn’t what happened at the retreat.
It’s what happened after.

👇 Drop a 🛑 if you’ve seen healing used as a hobby — instead of a path back to contribution.

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