12/29/2025
Have you ever wondered why life is the way it is? But then you think you know why... it just is.
Have you ever wondered why people suddenly disappear from your life, despite your attempts to find them, chase them, or use all your best words with them? This one, you don't know why, but maybe you do.
Have you ever wondered why friendships/relationships change... always conversing and laughing in the beginning, until you notice it gets less and less, so you have to initiate all the interactions, all is well in those moments... but it goes back to less and less. You think you know why, but do you really?
Have you ever wondered why you say you understand? Yes, I understand! Come to find out, the why wasn't good enough for you to understand anything at all.
You ever wonder why, just why? Why this, why that, why yes, why no, why sometimes, or why not at all?
-Anxiety
Here is what you do not like to hear Anxiety.
Not everything is meant to be chased.
Not every silence is a puzzle.
Not every ending is a verdict on your worth.
Some whys have answers.
Some whys are distractions.
Some whys are just grief wearing a thinking cap.
Life is the way it is because people are complicated, seasons change, and meaning does not always show up on time.
You can stop interrogating the past now.
Ask a better question.
What am I being asked to release?
What am I learning to carry differently?
What still gets to come with me?
That is where the calm lives.
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