05/22/2025
š What if the way we care for new mothers is all wrong? Not just lacking. Not just outdated. But built on a model that forgets the mother the moment the baby is born.ā
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As a midwife, I saw what was missing. Mothers ā in this magical, vulnerable, transformative time ā were often left without the care they needed and deserved. Too often, a mom gets one rushed appointment ā six or eight weeks out ā if that. By then, sheās often overwhelmed, alone, maybe even depressed. And when she finally gets seen? Sheās given 15 minutes. In a cold office. With a baby ā and maybe a toddler ā in tow.ā
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Itās part of why I went to medical school: to bring postpartum care back where it belongs ā to the mother.ā
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When I was a home birth midwife, I visited mamas at home five or six times in the first few weeks ā tending to stitches, tears, bleeding, breastfeeding, baby blues, and birth stories. That care wasnāt extra. It was essential.ā
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This week on the On Health podcast, Iām joined by my dear friend Dr. Eva Zasloffā a family physician, artist, doula, and founder of Tova Health ā a home-based fourth trimester care model changing how we support new families.ā
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We talk about: ā
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šæ Why the current postpartum system is broken ā
šæ How postpartum depression is often a symptom of the system, not the mother ā
šæ What home visits, Zoom mama circles, and birth stories can heal ā
šæ And how we reclaim the sacred fourth trimester ā togetherā
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⨠This episode is for you if you're a mother. A midwife. A doctor. A doula. A partner. Or someone who believes new mothers deserve so much more.ā
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š§ Listen to the episode + read the article at the link below.
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With love for every mother whoās been left to figure it out alone āā
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We see you.ā
Weāre with you.ā
Weāre changing this.
https://avivaromm.com/reclaiming-postpartum/