11/29/2025
🎠Enough with the Lies: The "Good People" Who Choose Cruelty
The movie Wicked reveals a critical truth: the real villains are often the seemingly "Good" people in power who actively choose harm and promote lies for control.
This challenges the manipulative behaviors of family, friends, coworkers, and others who quickly fabricate lies to shield themselves.
🛑 The Core Manipulation: The Lie as a Weapon
Manipulators mirror the Oz propaganda:
Deflection over Accountability: They claim to be "taken advantage of," adopting the Wizard's Strategy to avoid blame.
Gossip over Confrontation: Like the Cheshire Cat, they secretly poison reputations to maintain their "Goodness" while destroying others.
This is an active choice to harm others for self-benefit.
đź’” The Cost of the "Good Person" Performance
This façade causes damage by:
Devaluing Integrity: Their constant performance of victimhood makes the community cynical, leading to suspicion of genuine kindness.
Exhausting Empathy: Their manufactured crises drain the emotional energy of truly kind people.
đź§ Mental Health Nugget from Moe Grace
"You are not responsible for managing another person's perception of you, especially when that perception is based on a lie they created to avoid their own accountability. Release the need to prove yourself to their narrative."
✨ The "For Good" Challenge: Choose Truth
The song "For Good" illustrates the solution: breaking through the lies to see the truth.
Our challenge is to:
Challenge the Propaganda: Ask: Who benefits from this narrative?
Prioritize Accountability: Value the person who says, "I made a mistake," because true goodness is the presence of accountability.
Stop letting people use "Good" to justify mean spirited behavior. Demand truth.
What is one simple action people can take to stop participating in the manipulative narratives of the "Good People" in their own circles?