02/14/2026
My cat provided emotional CPR yesterday
Yesterday my cat responded to my emotional 9-1-1 call. Over the course of the week, my sense of overwhelm and anxiety kept building until I felt almost paralyzed when I woke up on Friday morning. As I lay on my side, I started begging God for help. In that moment, my cat, Cactipuss, surprised me. He cuddled up against the front of my neck and started purring loudly at a fast pace. He stayed there for about five minutes. It was unexpectedly soothing and as my breathing slowed and my body relaxed, Cactipuss’ purring slowed and quieted also. Eventually, I took a deep breath and he sat up, as if he knew his job was complete. He had stimulated my vagus nerve.
Why did this help?
If you are like many of the people I know, anxiety, overwhelm, and stress are frequent visitors. These experiences trigger the sympathetic nervous system which governs the fight, flight, freeze response. When the body functions normally, the parasympathetic system helps the body reset to a calm state. Vagus nerve stimulation is one of the primary factors in this process. This major nerve communicates information that lowers blood pressure, inhibits the stress response, reduces pain and inflammation, and regulates breathing.
When the vagus nerve is not functioning fully, the relaxation messages don’t get through and we get stuck in a state of anxiety and agitation.
The good news is that it is relatively simple to reset the vagus nerve, even if you don’t have an emergency cat on hand. Simply start singing or humming.
Interested in learning more ways to reset the vagus nerve? Check out this article from the Cleveland Clinic.https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vagus-nerve-reset
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