03/16/2026
People need to feel seen, heard, and understood in order to feel connected—and connection is what allows people to truly feel loved.
Please know: this does NOT mean you have to agree 100% with everything they share, or that you must fix their problem, give them something, or have all the answers.
Often, people who are hurting are:
• processing through pain
• stuck in a difficult perspective
• or simply needing someone to sit with them while they sort out what’s happening inside.
When you take the time to truly see, hear, and understand someone, you build connection. And connection is foundational to a loving relationship.
The worst thing to do when someone you love is deep in a struggle is disconnect from them. You may have your own reasons, and there are certainly times when healthy boundaries are necessary. But outside of those situations, it’s worth asking yourself what might be keeping you from leaning in toward those you love who are hurting, confused, or overwhelmed.
As Christians, we are called to be there for one another in the midst of our struggles. Being alone is not good for us as humans—or as those who are part of the Body of Christ. 🤍
Take a moment today to ask yourself:
Who in my life might need me to lean in instead of pull away?
And if you are the one struggling right now, please remember: you were never meant to carry it alone.
Keep fighting to find your community. And if you've found it, and they've hurt you, seek reconciliation and repair.
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