01/08/2026
A Kingdom-Focused Coaching Standard for Your Marriage
This is a longer post, but it speaks to something I believe will be genuinely beneficial for you, your spouse, your family—and the legacy-shaping impact your marriage can have on others.
I’ll be upfront: I’m biased. I’m the one offering it.
It’s called Kingdom Covenant Coaching.
And it’s exactly what it sounds like—coaching designed for married couples who are believers in Jesus and who want to lead their marriage with intention, clarity, and purpose.
This focus grew out of my own frustrations and observations with what’s currently available for married couples of believers.
And the current mindset of the typical Go-To’s with the therapists and counselors.
If a marriage is struggling, in need of repair, or in crisis, there are clear lanes we walk in: marriage and family counseling or therapy, counseling with a pastor, and marriage retreats. Some of those are great and can be helpful for particular couples, particular seasons, or particular weekends to reset.
But there is a space and a type of couple that I believe is being neglected…
Marriages that are doing okay to well. I know that sounds strange, but I’m talking about a movement for marriages that doesn’t fit into the parameters of those existing lanes. Not out of ego or denial, but because you’re simply not in that season, belief system, or pathway.
Couples who sense, We don’t need marriage counseling from our pastor or a therapist. We don’t need therapy focused on repair. We don’t need programs built around set curriculum, workbooks, videos, and “experts” telling us how our marriage should look, what to say, or how it should operate. Not because we have too much pride, or ego, but because we are just not in that place right now.
This is for the couple who knows there is a fire within that you want to ignite or grow bigger for the Kingdom….Purpose. Impact. Mission. Next level of what a marriage looks like for the Kingdom.
Every marriage is in a different season, with different strengths and challenges, different belief systems. They’re unique. Why? Because that’s how God made us…with strategic purpose and design.
In many of these marriage programs & support environments, I find myself analyzing the content and becoming focused on taking a position, becoming defensive, focusing on how “we” aren’t like that couple that this applies to…and most cases it’s reasonable. In those programs the participating couple is often expected to conform to the program rather than be seen and met at a level for who they actually are.
There are few things that trigger me more than someone telling me how to run operations or lead people, coming in with ego-driven solutions without first being present with humility…listening, seeing, understanding the environment, the people, or the reality for us.
And because Marriage is no different and deserves better than that, Kingdom Covenant Coaching intentionally operates at a different level of serving couples right where they’re at.
I believe each of us has been uniquely and strategically designed by God. He is the only true authority to set the framework. He knows who we are, where we are, and where He is calling us within the Kingdom mission of being in relationship with Him, with others, and making Him known through our careers, church, community, and marriage.
This coaching is NOT advice giving. You don’t want to hear from me how your marriage should function. I'm not acting as an authoritative leader over you. You’re not coming to me because you need help…far from it…you would be implementing me as a tool to strategically position your marriage for precise ex*****on of its Kingdom mission.
My role is to stand in your corner—present, clear, and focused.
I help surface blind spots, reflect what’s really happening, and ask the questions most couples never slow down enough to face.
This is Identity-Driven Executive Coaching for your marriage.
The same way leaders invest in coaching to sharpen how they think, lead, and execute, this work applies to an even higher standard to your covenant.
There are no prescribed opinions. No scripts. No workbooks.
Because you are not generic—and neither is your marriage. God is precise in how He forms people and how He joins them. This work honors that precision by meeting you where you are, not forcing you into someone else’s framework.
Between leading trainings, investing in my own development, and navigating the constant noise of competing opinions, I’ve come to deeply value coaching in its purest form.
Coaching that doesn’t act as the expert. Coaching that doesn’t give advice, but guides, asks probing questions, and encourages exploration. Sometimes even creating a little tension, all for the purpose of empowering people to live authentically as who they are in Christ.
If you’re done with comparisons, done with set frameworks, done with experts and prescribed curriculum grading what success looks like, this may be worth considering.
Living out Kingdom purpose in your marriage. Taking things to the next level. Not allowing ego, fear, or the flesh to keep us from stepping fully into our Kingdom mission through our Kingdom marriage, for the King Himself.
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