03/10/2026
Please join us in all we can do from home by helping alleviate medical and travel expenses as they have approximately 6 weeks minimum before their family of 6 will be reunited. Eventually travel, food, and all expenses of being away as well as time off of work sooner than predicted will catch up to them, and we want to bless them by lifting those uncertainties before they happen so they can focus on healing and their family at this time.
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Tomanka’s Two Tiny Fighters
We’ve been asked about cards, flowers, and other gifts— those can be sent to L7 room 709 of the children’s hospital.
From dad this morning-
Ayla AnnaLee Tomanka
Born March 8, 2026 at 12:18 am
4 Lbs 9oz
16.75 in long
Born at 33 weeks 💟🤍
Smallest baby of all of her siblings
AnnaLee — Ann is Kate’s grandma sandy Sandra Reicks and my moms middle name, and Lee is grandma shells middle name, so they were combined. Evie’s is Mae after Kate and her Nana’s middle name.
She is in room air with no breathing support as her lungs developed just enough with moms two Beta shots in the days leading up to emergent delivery
She does have a pic line (to heart) and is receiving her nutrition through that, as well as went most of her hrs the first day without spells, but began to do so later in the day and started caffeine doses today.
Over all after a scary cord compression battle, the pitocin was turned off and three hours were prolonged due to too many changes at once stressing out baby. When pitocin was turned back on, mom was in about an hour of active labor and knowing the cord was likely wrapping around Ayla, she pushed her out in two pushes and beat her time of 1.5 hrs of labor with Evie to 1.25 hr of active labor with Ayla.
Kate is still being monitored for kidney, cardiovascular, vascular damage, and severe anemia, but made it out of delivery without worst case scenario occurring, and is very slowly recovering. Shes borderline for possibly needing 1-2 more units of blood transfusion, but will get labs twice a week to monitor and reevaluate those levels.
She’s pretty weak and very tired but focused on nothing other than baby (those who know her know she wont put herself first)… but taking her time to get back on her feet and praying she can get a good night of sleep finally tonight now that she is out of the mag phase, and hopefully able to rest and recover more. Going to keep pushing her to relax in the NICU and prompt focusing on her recovery a bit as well. Baby Ayla has a wonderful army looking after her and monitoring her health and development, so mom has been reminded to focus on her healing of herself too.
Long journey ahead, and some very sad and eager kids back home, but we will overcome it all and do our best to find balance in the distance and division of our time.
Thank you to our army joining hands with us through all of this whether emotional, mental, physical, fitting our responsibilities into your schedules, or just saying a prayer. We love and appreciate everyone, every text, every call. If we are slow to respond we apologize. Just know we do appreciate anything said and done and we will always do our best to get back to everyone as soon as possible!
Until the next update…
-Jake
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