11/01/2025
Accepting reality is an important part of tolerating the distress of life. Accepting reality doesn’t mean that you approve of everything or that you roll over and be passive when you are disrespected.
The goal of reality acceptance is to accept reality as it is without “…throwing a tantrum or responding with willful ineffectiveness.” (Linehan, p. 451).
In addition, accepting reality is imbedded in the dialectic of acceptance and change. Life is challenging and there is pain, but it is still worth living.
But when challenged with a very triggering event, how do maintain your cool?
If you have an explosive personality, HOW can you get to the point of feeling like you can accept reality AND make changes in your life as well?
DBT STOP and TIP Skills are essential for mindfulness, mental health and managing your emotions,