01/09/2026
I’ve stumbled into some interesting content recently that has many men in the comments saying their relationships ended because the “intimacy” died.
There will always be exceptions but all I can think about is the state of women’s nervous systems and how safe we have to feel to want in*******se.
Not only does she have to be safe and secure with her partner, but said partner ALSO needs to be regulating their own emotions and not USING in*******se for emotional regulation.
If not, the woman will pay the price and eventually her body will want to protect her from taking on what he refuses to process.
It’s no surprise to me that so many women have so many reproductive issues when it is so common for a man to use in*******se to rid himself of his uncomfy emotions.
OF COURSE, she will eventually be completely turned off. Her body is protecting her.
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