04/22/2026
Most couples are not fighting about the dishes, the schedule, or the text that came out wrong.
They are fighting about something deeper:
“Do I matter to you?”
“Can I count on you?”
“Are we okay?”
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) helps couples understand the cycle they keep getting pulled into and begin responding to each other in a new way.
Less blame.
Less shutdown.
More understanding, connection, and repair.
Conflict is part of every relationship. Getting stuck in it does not have to be.