11/11/2025
“The Shift Tips” are simple practices for the emotions and challenges we all face. Each tip begins with a real statement I’ve encountered, whether from a client, a friend, a family member, or myself. My hope is that “The Shift Tips” help you feel less alone in the emotions you face and give you practical ways to navigate the harder moments of being human 🤍
The Shift Tip: If you’ve ever felt that all of a sudden, a huge change occurred in your life — you are not alone. Life has ways of sending us into a spiral through sudden shifts that transform who we are.
1️⃣ Ground yourself…
A huge change or sudden shift can send your body into overdrive — it’s like going straight into survival mode: fearful, panicked, and unsure. When everything feels uncertain, come back to this moment using your senses. Notice your breath. Feel your feet on the floor. Name what you see, hear, and touch. Grounding yourself allows your body to calm, your mind to settle, and your heart to begin to see beyond what’s happening.
2️⃣ Take a step back to process…
You don’t have to have it all figured out right now. Give yourself permission to slow down and process the emotions, thoughts, and feelings — without judgment. Talk to a friend. Journal everything that’s swirling inside you. Let it all come out. Healing and clarity often start when we stop trying to control the outcome and simply allow ourselves to feel.
3️⃣ It’s happening FOR you, not to you…
When we believe that something greater — whether that’s God, the universe, or divine timing — is working in our favor, we can begin to trust the process even through the fear. You may still feel anxious, uncertain, or sad, but you can also trust that this is happening for a reason. Each challenge carries a lesson, shaping who you are — not breaking you. Growth hides inside the moments that feel the hardest.
I hope this helps🤍