10/10/2025
Okay, I know this update is hella late but hey, better late than never ๐คฃ Iโve been taking my own advice from last week and giving myself the space to actually sit with some lessons instead of forcing the next thing.
This weekโs energy has two big themes coming in strong:
โจ Truth is coming in hot ๐ฅ
โจ Perfection can sit this one out ๐
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TRUTH has been coming in hot. Some of it might feel confusing or uncomfortable right now like, โwhy is this even coming up again?โ while others of you might already have total clarity and know exactly what needs to shift. Wherever youโre at honor it. Youโre right on time. ๐
Iโve been leaning into my oracle cards, meditative free writing, and one of my faves blue lace agate ๐ฉต to help those truths rise more gently (because not everything needs to smack you in the face to be healing ๐
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And then thereโs PERFECTION oof, this one. Years ago, a therapist told me I was a perfectionist. I laughed and said, โIf I am, Iโm doing a terrible job at it.โ She said, โExactly.โ It clicked later, perfectionism isnโt about being flawless; itโs that quiet voice that says you shouldโve done more.
And honestly perfection isnโt the enemy. Itโs often the part of us that learned to hold everything together when life felt uncertain. That energy just needs love and gentleness, not more pressure. Healing perfectionism is about shifting from performing to being.
This week I read something that hit hard:
โGrowth really happens when we learn to be steady in times of uncertainty.โ
That one stopped me in my tracks. Because thatโs the work. Not fixing. Not forcing. Just staying steady, heart open, even when life feels messy, unclear, or not going according to plan. Thatโs where strength, trust, and true peace are built.
Since Monday, Iโve been meaning to post this. I procrastinated, recorded a video, didnโt like it, didnโt post itโฆ you get the picture. Today I decided to stop overthinking and just show up messy hair, no makeup, and fully me. ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐