Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast with T&A

11/12/2025

What is ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT mean to you? Let us know in the comments 👉

Consent isn’t just about saying yes or no — it’s about communication, clarity, and connection. 💬

In our latest podcast, we dive into what enthusiastic consent really means — how it looks at dates, parties, and clubs, and why “ask once” and “ongoing consent” aren’t a thing!

We explore some of the frameworks that help us understand consent — from FRIES, CRISP, SSC, and RACK to the Yes, No, Maybe List — and how real consent happens through ongoing, in-the-moment communication. Plus the legal side of consent.

🎙️ Listen to Consent is Sexy: Why Enthusiastic Consent Is So Important wherever you get your podcasts. Links in bio link tree!

💋 Want to hear T&A live? Join them Dec 10 at the Mermaid Lounge for Reconnect Wednesday — details also in bio!

11/11/2025

Consent isn’t just about saying yes or no — it’s about communication, clarity, and connection. 💬

In episode 69 of the Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast which is now streaming, we dive into what enthusiastic consent really means — how it looks at dates, parties, and clubs, and why ongoing consent and “ask once” don’t apply.
We also discuss the frameworks that help us understand consent — from FRIES, CRISP, SSC, and RACK to the Yes, No, Maybe List — and how real connection happens through ongoing, in-the-moment communication. Plus the legal side of consent.

🎙️ Listen to Consent is Sexy: Why Enthusiastic Consent Is So Important wherever you get your podcasts. It’s available on Spotify here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RzCDuhK9yMM3GgkU5ebPg?si=D83pZA_hTxqytu-WvZ-fAg

💋 Want to hear T&A live? Join us on Dec 10, 2025 at the Mermaid Lounge for Reconnect Wednesday — information about the Mermaid Lounge and how to get tickets can be found in the first comment.

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11/06/2025

In our latest Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode - Sex & Lifestyle Clubs 101: What to Expect and How to Prepare - I was live on location at the Mermaid Lounge (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy! 

Together, we explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.

We also share practical insights for how to:
✨ Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your sexuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen on your favourite podcasting platform. Link in the bio link tree!

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

11/06/2025

In our latest Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode - Sex & Lifestyle Clubs 101: What to Expect and How to Prepare - I was live on location at the (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy! 

Together, we explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.

We also share practical insights for how to:
✨ Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your sexuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen on your favourite podcasting platform. Link in the bio link tree!

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

11/05/2025

Ever wondered what it’s really like to go to a sex or lifestyle club for the first time — and how to make sure it’s a positive, pressure-free experience?

In this week’s Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode, I went live on location at the Mermaid Lounge (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy!

Together, they explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.
They also share practical insights for how to:

⚡️Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your sexuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen here ➡️ https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ZAzbkxiBtbyXhExVXonsg?si=0E_szFMQSZWozdRA2ooAgQ

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

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10/20/2025

Thanks and everyone who stopped by our booth or attended our seminars for a fantastic weekend in Toronto! DMs open if you have questions, or we didn’t get to connect or you missed out on our show deal!

10/14/2025

Ever wonder why some topics about sex & relationships feel off-limits? 💭💋

In Part 2 of Breaking Taboos in Sex & Relationships, we dive into the topics that shape how we connect and what we share about ourselves!
💬 In this episode:
✨ Biggest taboos & why silence matters
✨ Personal stories of openness
✨ Listener feedback & persistent myths
✨ Balancing curiosity, consent & a little mystery

🎧 Listen on Spotify or your fave podcast app - https://open.spotify.com/episode/29rW7lwAZvvqYhkDAF8adY?si=g-PcLoeXTEWMHiRf1c5rpw

📍 See us at the Toronto Taboo Show, Booth 322, Oct 17–19
🗓 Seminars: Fri 6:30 PM | Sat 8:30 PM
See first comment for link to tix & information about Taboo shows

Let’s break some taboos together 😉

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