12/26/2025
Philosophers, prophets and teachers throughout time have disagreed on many things but there is one point that they agree upon – the secret to your success and the secret to your failure is this: You create your experience of life with your thoughts. Marcus Aurelius, the great Roman Emperor, said: “A man’s life is what his thoughts make of it.”
Decide to pay the price. Do the work. Suffer the discipline or suffer the regret. Become the person you want to become. Or continue to live unsuccessfully. When you make the decision to work toward a goal, you are already a success. You have made a choice about where you want to be. Out of a hundred people, you belong in the top five percent!
Don’t be afraid to fail. Malcolm Forbes says, “Failure is success if we learn from it.” Keep your goal in mind at all times. Make your choices based on the successful fulfillment of your goal. Trust that you will know what to do and when to do it. Thomas Edison failed more than 10,000 times before the successful invention of the light bulb. He tells us, “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Maybe you have failed in the past. Remind yourself that it was in the past. Tell yourself that this time will be different. Remember that what you tell yourself ultimately determines what you are and are not able to do. So tell yourself that you can and you will and you will find that it is so.
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