12/23/2025
The holidays are often framed as joyful—but for many people, they can intensify grief, stress, and emotional exhaustion. 💭💔
Here are evidence-informed, trauma-aware ways to care for yourself when the holidays hurt:
✨ Allow emotions without forcing “holiday cheer.” Emotional suppression increases stress; allowing feelings supports regulation.
✨ Adjust traditions to fit your current capacity—not past expectations. Flexibility protects mental health.
✨ Light a candle, display a photo, or share a memory 🕯️📸 Rituals support meaning-making and continuing bonds.
✨ Speak their name. Connection doesn’t end with loss—it evolves 💬❤️
✨ Build rest into busy days. Nervous systems need recovery, especially during high-demand seasons 😌🛌
Save this post for later or share it with someone who may need permission to go gently this season. Choose one practice to intentionally try this week.