03/23/2026
I don’t think I’ve ever said this out loud, but I was really scared to start trying to conceive.
Which felt… confusing.
Because I’m the person women come to when they’re struggling to get pregnant. I’ve spent years supporting fertility, hormones, loss, irregular cycles, unexplained cases, you name it. I *know* the protocols, the labs, the patterns.
And still… when it was my turn, fear showed up.
Fear of the unknown.
Fear of “what if it’s not easy for me?”
Fear of all the stories I’ve held for other women.
But I made a decision early on:
I wasn’t going to let fear be the loudest voice in the room.
So instead of spiraling, I grounded into what I could control.
I supported my body the same way I support my patients.
I stayed consistent with acupuncture, not just for fertility, but to regulate my nervous system and keep blood flowing where it matters most.
I ran labs so I wasn’t guessing. Hormones, thyroid, nutrients, blood sugar, I wanted to *see* what was going on, not assume.
I took herbs based on my body, not trends.
I moved, but I didn’t push. I let exercise support me, not deplete me.
I tested deeper, gut health, cortisol rhythms, because I’ve seen how much those things matter.
I got serious about blood sugar, about protein, about actually eating enough.
I protected my sleep like it mattered… because it does.
I slowed down. I meditated. I worked on feeling safe in my own body.
I cleaned up what I could, fragrances, skincare, plastics, not from a place of perfection, but intention.
And we didn’t ignore the male side either. Testing, supplements, support, because this is never just on the woman.
I started a prenatal not as a checkbox, but as a way to truly build my reserves.
None of this was about being perfect.
It was about creating an environment in my body that felt steady, nourished, and supported.
The fear didn’t magically go away.
But it softened.
And it stopped running the show.
If you’re in this season and feeling the same way, overwhelmed, anxious, unsure where to start, you don’t need to do everything.
But you do need a plan that actually supports *you*.
If you want help building that, I’m here 🤍