01/30/2026
Today we had to say goodbye to our sweet Ella, and there really aren’t words that feel big enough for the draft sized space she leaves behind. After not being able to get up earlier this week (which is very serious for horses after only a few hours), I asked her last night to let me know when it was her time….I told her if she wanted to go, I wanted her calm and peaceful (not like how it was Wednesday). Today she let me know she was done and quietly sat with me in the sunshine while I said my goodbyes. Even in her last moments, she made sure to “mother” me and make sure I would be taken care of.
Ella was 23 years old-a big, black Percheron with the softest, kindest eyes. She carried herself with a quiet confidence that never wavered. No matter what was happening around her, she was steady, sure-footed, and calm in a way that made you breathe easier just standing near her. She had lived much of her life working hard with the Amish and was donated by a sweet lady who rescued her for her grandchildren. Thank you to Sandra Davenport Chmiel for entrusting us to be her family.
In our therapeutic riding program, Ella was the ultimate mother type. She took care of everyone with a gentleness that didn’t go unnoticed. She never rushed, never startled, never doubted her path. She walked through everything with patience and grace, giving our riders safety, trust, and comfort when they needed it most. She was truly infallible-the kind of horse you could always count on.
She proudly took Briella to the 4-H horse show this year, and ran her big b***y through the barrels and competed in other speed events, reminding us that even a gentle giant can still have plenty of spark!
She was powerful, dependable, and endlessly kind. The loss of her is deeply felt-not just as a horse, but as a constant, comforting presence we depended on.
Today was not how we planned to say goodbye, but we take comfort in knowing that Ella crossed the rainbow bridge surrounded by love. Saying goodbye has left a space that feels overwhelming. But we find comfort in knowing that Ella has crossed the rainbow bridge, free from weakness and moving forward with that same steady step she always had. We imagine her at peace, watching over us, her work here complete.
Our program is grieving. Our barn feels quieter. And while the weight of this loss is heavy, we are forever changed for the better because of her. Thank you, Ella, for the trust you gave, the lives you touched, and the love you left behind. You will always be part of this program…part of our herd….part of us.
We love you Ella! I know Boots was there to meet you and show you the best places for naps!