Jones-Harkins Funeral Home

02/21/2026

Stanley Stahlman, 74, of Wilburton, Oklahoma, passed away on Wednesday, February 18, 2026, at his home.

The family will greet friends at 1:00 p.m. on Sunday, February 22, 2026, at Jones Harkins Funeral Home. Cremation will follow the visitation.

Stanley was born on September 22, 1951, in Prescott, Kansas, to Ralph R. Stahlman and Martha J. (Morrow) Stahlman. He married the love of his life, Wanda Thompson, on September 7, 1996, and together they shared 29 years of marriage.

Stan, as he was known to family and friends, enjoyed spending his free time hunting and fishing. He had a simple, grateful outlook on life. When asked how he was feeling, he would often reply with a smile, “It’s going to be a good day, I woke up and stood up!” — a reflection of his appreciation for each new day.

He was preceded in death by his son, Stanley Joe Stahlman; his parents, Ralph R. and Martha J. Stahlman; and his brothers and sisters: Herschel Stahlman, Raymond Stahlman, Floris Leatherman, Anna Lucero, Rose Leatherman, Russell Stahlman, Rex Stahlman, Robert Stahlman, Roberta Stahlman, Max Stahlman, and Ralph Stahlman.

Stanley is survived by his loving wife, Wanda (Thompson) Stahlman; his faithful service dog, Goldie; his children: Justin Stahlman, Nathaniel Stahlman, Amanda Rammage and husband Dustin, Joshua Stahlman, and Casey Watkins; his cherished grandchildren: Chance, Kyle, Adalynn, Caitlyn, Calli, Curtis, Talladega, Gunner, Payton, Sawyer, Landon, and Cambree; his sisters, Bonnie Evans and husband John, and Jane Davis and husband Darrin; his brother, Ronald Stahlman and wife Kristi; his sister-in-law, Ellen Stahlman; along with numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends who will miss him dearly.

02/13/2026

Plan on attending our free seminar entitled, “The Advantages of Planning Ahead,” explains how prearranging funeral plans works and, more importantly, how it can be a thoughtful and meaningful gift to the family members and friends who will be left behind.

The seminar will be held at Jones-Harkins Funeral Home, 201 North Central Ave. in Wilburton on Saturday, March 7th, 2026, offered at 10:00 a.m.

02/09/2026

Elmer Louis Ardese, affectionately known as “Moose,” passed away on Friday, February 6, 2026, at Pushmataha Hospital in Antlers, Oklahoma.

A graveside memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m., Saturday, February 21, 2026, at Mountain Station Cemetery in the Higgins Community, Oklahoma. Cremation arrangements are under the direction of Jones Harkins Funeral Home. A meal for family and friends will be served at noon at the Choctaw Community Center in Wilburton.

Elmer was born on August 27, 1952, in Talihina, Oklahoma, to Joseph and Agnes (Wade) Ardese. He attended Haskell Indian School and Panola High School and earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Petroleum Engineering. He proudly served in the United States Marine Corps.

He worked in the oil and gas industry for over 40 years, including assignments in Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Egypt, and throughout the United States. He also worked as a truck driver and served for several years as a Latimer County Sheriff’s Deputy.

He is survived by his son, Nicholas Ardese; brother, Mike Griffitts and wife Lisa; sister, Rosalie Ardese; cousins, Jim Ardese and Bob and Kate Stancliff; and many nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Agnes Ardese; brothers, Jimmy Joe, Anthony, Carl, Vincent, and Joseph Ardese; and nephews, Clayton Ardese and Joseph Ardese.

02/02/2026

Maryellen Mooney
Born March 19, 1949, in Syracuse, New York. Maryellen Mooney, 76, passed peacefully on January 28, 2026, in McAlester, Oklahoma. Maryellen lived a life defined by faith, service, and an unwavering love for family and community.

Maryellen was a graduate of Putnam City High School and the University of Central Oklahoma, where she was an Alpha Gamma Delta alumna. She dedicated her professional life to education, serving as a kindergarten teacher and elementary guidance counselor. After retiring from teaching, she continued her commitment to service as the Main Street Program Manager of Wilburton, earning awards for her leadership and impact. She also was the leading force for the Latimer County Tourism Authority, 20th Century Club, served on Kiwanis & the School Board as President. She lived a life of love and stewardship.

On April 3, 1971, she married the love of her life, Mike Mooney, beginning a devoted partnership of 54 years. Together, they made their home in Wilburton, a place Maryellen served wholeheartedly and proudly.

A lifelong servant to others, Maryellen was an active member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church and a faithful presence in her community. She enjoyed weekly bridge games, volunteering throughout the community and cherished time spent with friends and family. She will be remembered for her bright smile, joyful laugh, and generous spirit.

She is survived by her husband, Mike Mooney; son Gary Mooney and spouse Elveda; granddaughters Stormie, Madison, Hanna, and Hanna’s spouse Daniel; great-grandchildren Elias, Trace, and Aidan; and many loving nieces, nephews, and extended family members.
Maryellen’s life was one of purpose, compassion, and giving. Her legacy lives on in the countless lives she touched and the family she loved so deeply.

Rosary will be recited at 6:00 p.m., Monday, February 9th, 2026 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Wilburton, Oklahoma.

Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11:00 a.m., Tuesday, February 10th, 2026 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Wilburton, Oklahoma.

02/02/2026

Murl Looper, 75, of Red Oak, Oklahoma passed away on January 28, 2026 at the Tidwell Living Center in Wilburton, Oklahoma.

A graveside service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, February 3, 2026 at Lutie Cemetery with Mr. Charlie Watkins and Bro. Cole Bryce officiating. The burial will follow under the direction of Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

Murl was born on May 24, 1950 in Monroe, Oklahoma.

Murl worked in the oilfield for most of his life. Though he worked hard, he played even harder. In his early years, he was known as somewhat of a pool shark. His main focus though was hunting and fishing. He was a simple, straight forward man, who didn’t trust easily. He always meant what he said, and expected the same from others.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Bertha (Pearson) Phillips; father, Troy Looper; brother, Thomas Looper; and sisters: Autumn Johnson, and Virgina Watkins.

Murl is survived by his brother, Gary L. Looper, Sr. of Red Oak; sisters: Rosie Stafford of Wilburton, Hellen Holloway and husband, David of Wilburton, and Betty Morris and husband, Loyd of Midland, Arkansas; along with numerous nieces, nephews, and other family and friends.

01/28/2026

01/26/2026

Elvis Benny Brooks, 91, passed away on Wednesday, January 21, 2026, on the family homestead in Lodi, Oklahoma.

The family will greet friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, January 27, 2026 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

A funeral service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, January 28, 2026, at Red Oak First Baptist Church in Red Oak, Oklahoma, with Pastor Johnny Montgomery and Pastor Clint Gray officiating. Burial will follow at North Rock Creek Cemetery under the direction of Jones Harkins Funeral Home. Military honors will be provided by the United States Army Honor Guard.

Pallbearers will be Benny Brooks, Daniel Brooks, Fred Oller, John Noah, Joe Frank Robertson, and Joe Benson.

Honorary pallbearers will be Stan Williams, Doug Leland, Peery Lee, Garrett Noah, Tommy Graham, and Kenneth Southard.

Benny was born on October 1, 1934, on the family homestead in Lodi, Oklahoma, to Zelmer Brooks and Alma (Eaves) Brooks. He attended Lodi schools through the seventh grade and later attended Red Oak High School, graduating with the Class of 1952.

Benny heard the call of the United States Army, and was stationed in Iceland.
Following active service, Benny also served in the National Guard. He received an honorable discharge in 1959.

In 1963, Benny began his career with the McAlester Fire Department. His dedication and leadership led him to become Fire Chief in 1979, and in 1983 he retired. During retirement, Benny owned and operated a liquor store, a party shop, and managed Al Horton’s Thoroughbred horse farm in Bache, and proudly served as the caretaker of Silver Goblin!

When Benny finally decided to “slow down” in retirement, he enjoyed quail hunting, fishing, volunteer firefighting, growing vegetable gardens, and helping his neighbors. Benny also enjoyed attending the yearly Red Oak High School Alumni Banquets and was the oldest graduate for a number of years. During the roll call, Benny would proudly stand up and say, “Benny Brooks, Lodi”!

Benny was preceded in death by his parents: Zelmer and Alma Brooks; brothers and sisters: Ola Coffey, Ada Phillips, Chuck Brooks, Freda Phillips, Rena Turney-Beshears, Calvin Brooks, Frank Brooks, and infant, Zelmer, Jr.

He is survived by his nephew, Gary Brooks and wife Janet; sister-in-law, Wanda Brooks; cousins, Stan Williams, Syble Tull, Joye White, Peggy Reynolds, and Saundra Bigelow; his closest friend of 25 years, Ethel Perry, and her daughter Melissa Lee and husband Peery; along with many other family members and friends who will cherish his memory.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the North Rock Creek Cemetery Fund in memory of Benny.

01/22/2026

Information for Joe Coy Services:

Due to limited parking at Red Oak Public Schools and the extremely cold weather, shuttle service will be provided to the C.C. Gillespie Field House for the funeral service of Joe S. Coy.
Funeral attendees are welcome to park at the following locations:
• Red Oak Assembly of God Church
• Beth-el Baptist Church
• First Baptist Church of Red Oak
Shuttle vehicles will circulate these areas to transport guests to the gymnasium.
For direct assistance, you may contact the volunteers listed below:
• Joey Compagna – Red Oak Assembly of God Church | 918-413-9224
• Michael Hampton – Beth-el Baptist Church | 918-448-5323
• Coby Ober – First Baptist Church of Red Oak | 918-471-7953
Shuttle service will operate from 12:00 noon to 12:50 p.m., pausing 10 minutes prior to the service to allow volunteers to attend. Service will resume following the funeral to return guests to the off-site parking locations.

01/20/2026

To honor and celebrate the life of Joe Coy, Roy’s Cardinal will be closed all day Friday, January 23rd.

01/20/2026

Joe “Sack Boy” Coy, of Red Oak, Oklahoma, left our earthly presence on Friday, January 16, 2026, in Fort Worth, Texas.

Joe was born on February 19, 1951, in Boggy “Holler,” Oklahoma, to Charlie “Gip” Coy and Willie Irene (Owens) Coy. His mother called him “Joker,” Joe carried a lighthearted spirit that served him well throughout his life and came full circle in the way he greeted the world—with humor, warmth, and an open heart.

Joe graduated from Red Oak High School in 1969. He went on to graduate from Eastern Oklahoma State College in 1971 and Southeastern University in 1973.

A man who never shied away from hard work, Joe held many jobs that, by the good Lord’s will, saw him through the years. He worked as a service station attendant, oilfield roustabout, bank janitor, school teacher, cattle rancher—and, of course, “Sack Boy.” He picked cotton, cut pulpwood, hauled hay, mowed yards until the sun went down, and did whatever honest work was needed. You couldn’t walk into Roy’s without being met by his great big smile and a cheerful, “Hey, how are ya?”

On May 23, 1970, Joe married the love of his life, Brenda Knight. Together they raised two wonderful children, B.J. and Tiffany. Joe tried every day to be a good husband, father, grandfather, and friend, and was the heart and soul of every place he went. In his free time, he could often be found riding his Harley, listening to Conway Twitty, and enjoying the familiar rumble of the road—something he truly loved.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Charlie “Gip” Coy and Willie Irene (Owens) Coy; his brothers, Bob Coy and Tom Coy; and his sister, Wanda Coy.

He is survived by his loving wife, Brenda (Knight) Coy; his son, B.J. Coy and wife Kara, and their children, Koral and Klover; his daughter, Tiffany Coy, and her children, Lincoln Ferguson and Brooklyn Castillo; his sister, Judy Janeway and husband David of Red Oak; his sisters-in-law, Janice Coy of Yukon, Oklahoma, and Irene Coy of Kingfisher, Oklahoma; along with many beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends.

Guided by a life of honest work, and deep love for family, Joe understood what truly mattered. As Scripture reminds us, “For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out” (1 Timothy 6:7). Joe leaves behind not possessions, but a legacy of kindness, laughter, hard work, and love that will continue to live on in all who knew him.

The family will greet friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Thursday, January 22, 2026 at Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel, Wilburton, Oklahoma.

A funeral service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Friday, January 23, 2026 at the C.C. Gillespie Field House, Red Oak, Oklahoma with Brother Mitch Mullin officiating. Burial will follow at North Rock Creek Cemetery in Red Oak, Oklahoma under the direction of Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

At Joe’s request, those wishing to send flowers are asked to please send a single red rose only.

In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial contribution to the Joe and Brenda Coy Endowed Scholarship Fund, EOSC Foundation. 1301 W. Main Street, Wilburton, Oklahoma 74578. 918-465-1761. Please make checks payable to the EOSC Foundation. https://host.nxt.blackbaud.com/adaptive-donor-form/?formId=629bf16e-d2fd-49db-8729-ef52716f03b0&envid=p-Zy4sFT5l4kCvNeSru92stA&zone=usa

Pallbearers will be Destry Harber, Jazzo Massey, Dal Moss, Wayne Sockey, Marcus Tubbs, and Charlie Watkins.

Honorary pallbearers will be Ronald Allen, Jason Allen, Paige Anderson, Eric Coffey, Gene Coffey, Jordan Coffey, Jimmy Hendricks, Johnny Hendricks, Tony Johnson, Stanton Jones, J.R. Kirk, Todd Martin, Gary Smith, Steve Walden; and all of Roy’s Cardinal Employees—past and present.

01/13/2026

Billy Clarence Cecil, lovingly known as Bill, was born on July 14, 1941, to Burness and Dora (Williams) Cecil in Lutie, Oklahoma. He passed away peacefully on January 12, 2026, in Osseo, Wisconsin.

Bill was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. He was the proud father of seven children, grandfather to twenty grandchildren, and blessed with numerous great-grandchildren who brought him great joy throughout his life.

He was a graduate of Wilburton High School, Class of 1959, and later attended Barber College. He dedicated 53 years to his profession as a barber, serving generations of families, and also worked for more than 20 years as a Rural Route Carrier.

Bill honorably served eight years in the Oklahoma Army National Guard.

On June 25, 1990, Bill married the love of his life, June Kitchens, and together they shared many years of faith, service, and devotion to family and community.

Bill was deeply involved in service work, volunteering with Southern Baptist Disaster Relief on Mud-Out projects and Chainsaw Crews. He took pride in maintaining chainsaws and trailers to support disaster response efforts. His hobbies included woodworking in his shop, participating in craft shows, and lending a helping hand wherever it was needed.

A faithful member of Centerpoint Baptist Church, Bill served on numerous church and community committees. He also served with the Kiamichi Housing Authority, and the Robbers Cave Fall Festival Committee, reflecting his lifelong commitment to community involvement.

Bill was a Freemason for 50 years and attained the 33rd Degree of the Scottish Rite.

Bill is survived by his beloved wife, June Cecil; sons Jeff Cecil, Greg Cecil, and Roland Nixon; daughters Kim Green, Shelly Spangler, Kelly Garcia, and Kim Pick; and brother John Cecil.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Burness and Dora Cecil; his brother, Bob Cecil; and his in-laws, Dorothy and Cecil Kitchens.

The family will greet friends from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. on Thursday, January 15, 2026 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

Funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Friday, January 16, 2026 at Center Point Baptist Church with Pastor Myron Vinson officiating. The burial will follow at Memorial Gardens Cemetery under the direction of Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Bill’s name to the Sans Bois Baptist Association, 31233 West Highway 31, Kinta, OK 74552. Please note on the memo line “Bill Cecil.” All designated funds will support the Chainsaw Crew for the purchase of new chains and equipment.

01/05/2026

William Gerald Shero, age 65, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 1, 2026, at his home, surrounded by the love of his family.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, January 10, 2026, at the P.J. Smith Wilburton High School Auditorium.

Gerald was born on June 15, 1960, in McAlester, Oklahoma, alongside his twin brother, Earl, to William C. Shero and Norma Dean (Pate) Shero. He later married the love of his life, Anita Gayle McDonald, on May 28, 1988. and together they built a life rooted in family and hard work.

Gerald graduated from Wilburton High School with the Class of 1978 and went on to attend Eastern Oklahoma State College, where he earned an Associate’s Degree.

For several years following high school, Gerald traveled the world working as a welder. Eventually, he felt the call to return home, once again working side-by-side with his father, Bill Shero, on the Shero Cattle Ranch in Latimer County—a ranching legacy that predates Oklahoma statehood. Deeply committed to cattle health and progressive ranching practices, Gerald proudly carried on that tradition, always striving to improve not only his own operation, but the ranching industry as a whole.

In addition to ranching, Gerald was the owner and operator of Apex Feed and Veterinary Supply, where he was well known and respected for his integrity and willingness to help fellow ranchers.
Above all else, Gerald was a devoted family man. His life’s work and greatest joy were centered around his family and the ranch he loved so dearly. His steady presence, strong work ethic, and quiet generosity will be remembered by all who knew him.

Gerald will be forever missed by his wife, Anita Shero; daughter, Sarah Shero; son, Austin Shero; cherished granddaughter, Emerson; sisters, Patricia Heflebower and husband, Craig, and Lynette Lambert and husband Gary; sister-in-law, Cindy (Davis) Shero; along with other beloved family members and a host of friends.
He was preceded in death by his twin brother, Earl Shero, on January 1, 2025; his father, William C. Shero, on July 27, 2012; and his mother, Norma Dean (Pate) Shero, on December 27, 2009.

“Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
— Matthew 11:28