11/11/2025
I'll let you in on a big little "secret."
Two- and three-year olds HATE being told what to do. (And I do mean absolutely, to their core, HATE it!) If you need proof, just stop by my office anytime! 😊
SO... my suggestion?
Stop TELLING your child to say words when they are trying to let you know they want something! Instead think, "say it myself."
If you can break the habit of "telling" your child what to do, and simply SAY the word yourself a few times BEFORE you give them the beloved object... "Oh, cookie! Cookie! You want a cookie. Here's a cookie!" Honestly, you might just be amazed!
Instead of causing tension and frustration, you have given "control" to your toddler and they are now much more likely to try to say the word after you! By modeling the wonderful MAGIC of language for them, you are much more likely to watch it grow and unfold in front of your eyes!