01/01/2026
Laura Marie Bergman-Nielsen, 49, of Columbia, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 23, 2025, at Backus Hospital, surrounded by love, after a courageous year-and-a-half battle with cervical cancer. Laura faced her illness with remarkable strength, resilience, and grace, never losing her warmth or her love for those closest to her.
Born on November 30, 1976, in Denver, Colorado, Laura spent much of her life in New Jersey before moving to Columbia, Connecticut, in 2016. Wherever she lived, Laura formed deep connections and lasting friendships. She was known for her strong work ethic, adaptability, and determination, holding many roles throughout her life including gymnastics coach, cosmetologist, pharmacy technician, hotel manager, accounts payable and payroll specialist, HR manager, bookkeeper, and property manager. No matter the position, Laura brought dedication, care, and pride to everything she did.
Laura’s greatest joy came from time spent with family, friends, and the animals she loved so dearly. She found peace riding her horses, Denver and Shorty, and happiness in simple pleasures like playing bingo, camping, roller skating, and crafting with friends. She especially cherished trips to Lake George, New York, days spent at the beach, and making memories filled with laughter and love. Laura had a generous heart, a caring spirit, and a way of making people feel welcomed, supported, and truly loved.
She is survived by her devoted fiancé, Ryan Messier; her beloved daughters, Ashley and Samantha Nielsen; and her precious granddaughters, Sky Celeste and Maeve Noelle, who were the light of her life. She also leaves behind her cherished dogs, Cooper and Tater Joe, along with many other family members, friends, and loved ones who will forever hold her close in their hearts.
Laura is now resting peacefully with her father, Thomas Strickland; her soon-to-be father-in-law, Mike Messier; her grandmother, Jean; and Ryan’s grandmother, Kay
Bonor.
The family would like to extend heartfelt gratitude to the doctors, nurses, and staff at Backus Hospital for their compassionate care and support during Laura’s journey.
A Celebration of Life honoring Laura will be held on Saturday, January 31, 2026, from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at the Columbia Congregational Church Parish Hall, located at 325 Route 87, Columbia, Connecticut 06237. All who knew and loved Laura are welcome to attend and celebrate a life filled with love, strength, and unforgettable memories. Please feel free to share memories and kind words. Laura will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered always.
To send an online expression of sympathy, please visit www.adamscremationct.com