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Zoma SpivakZoma Long Spivak, 90, a long-time resident of Rockledge in Storrs, passed away February 16, 2026 at Douglas M...
02/22/2026

Zoma Spivak

Zoma Long Spivak, 90, a long-time resident of Rockledge in Storrs, passed away February 16, 2026 at Douglas Manor. Zoma graduated from Penn State University with a BA in Fine Arts and later earned her MA in early childhood education at ECSU. An enthusiastic follower of Piaget's work, Zoma believed deeply in nurturing the natural curiosity and creativity of young minds.

Zoma had a long, distinguished career teaching art in Stafford, where it was cherished by students and faculty alike. As one former student, Jason Parker, shared: "She was a dedicated teacher who had a positive influence on generations of students both before and after me. Zoma could bring out the artist in everyone."

Her life's work lives on in the many hands she guided, the imaginations she sparked, and the generations she inspired.

She was predeceased by her sister, Charlotte, and her beloved daughter, Rachel. Zoma is survived by her niece, Sarah Wood Accord of NC and nephew David Wood of Arizona.

A Celebration of Life will be held at St. Mark's Chapel, 42 North Eagleville Rd., Storrs, CT on March 7, 2026 at 10:00am.

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Rolande Marie Rose SchlehoferRolande Marie Rose Schlehofer (99), of Windham, Connecticut passed away peacefully at Dougl...
02/20/2026

Rolande Marie Rose Schlehofer

Rolande Marie Rose Schlehofer (99), of Windham, Connecticut passed away peacefully at Douglas Manor Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in the early hours of Thursday February 19, 2026, after a long life filled with family and laughter.

A lifelong resident of the area, she was born March 9, 1926, to Donat Provencher and Alice Houlde. Rolande married Edward Stanley Schlehofer, who referred to her affectionately as “Lolly.” Alongside her husband, Rolande moved to Mansfield and raised two children: Ronald Jean Schlehofer and Linda Rose Richter, before returning to Windham in her later years.

After returning to Windham, Rolande became active in Windham Center Church, where she was known for her soft smile and caring, sweet demeanor. Always one to enjoy the presence of her family, Rolande and Edward’s annual holiday parties were always a hit, and her joy and laughter at the silly quirks of life will be remembered and missed.

She is survived by her siblings Raymond Provencher, Joseph Provencher, and Andrea Buckley; her son, Ronald Jean; her grandchildren Shannon Richter, Michele Marie Schlehofer Copper, Timothy Jean Schlehofer, and Katelyn Ann Bradford; and six great-grandchildren: Tyrick, Don Jr., Odin, Evren, Leander, and Emerald.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband; her brother, Lionel Schlehofer; and her beloved daughter, Linda Rose.

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Loretta A. AusburgerIt is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Loretta Ann Ausburger, who left this world p...
02/20/2026

Loretta A. Ausburger

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Loretta Ann Ausburger, who left this world peacefully on February 18, 2026, at Backus Hospital, surrounded by her beloved husband, David Ausburger. Born on March 3, 1956, in Willimantic, Connecticut, Loretta devoted her life to caring for others, leaving a profound impact as a dedicated home health care worker with the VNA. Loretta is survived by her loving husband, David. She will be deeply missed by her brother, William Rioux, and sister-in-law, Sharon Vannier, as well as her sister-in-law, Donna Herbert. She cherished her roles as a mother-in-law to Cole Koppisch and as a grandmother to her beloved grandson, Rory. Loretta also leaves behind her stepsister, Amelia Simoneau, along with many cherished nieces and nephews—Heidi, John, Brittany, Mike, Leslie, Wade, Hannah, and Shaina. Loretta attended Lyman Memorial High School and demonstrated her compassionate spirit throughout her life, first as a dental assistant and later thriving in her role as a home health aide. She found joy in the simple things, from spending time at her cabin in Maine to the thrill of boating with David and the excitement of trips to Mardens and Atlantic City. She is predeceased by father William Rioux, and mother Lillian Rioux, her niece, Nichole Rioux, as well as her stepsister and stepbrother, Donna Nichols and Robert Shibenski, and her Aunt Pauline Haddad. Services for Loretta will be held privately, as her family treasures the warmth of shared memories and reflect on the love she brought into their lives.

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Betsy B. ParkerBetsy Burnham Parker passed away peacefully at her home on February 17, 2026. Betsy was born on November ...
02/18/2026

Betsy B. Parker

Betsy Burnham Parker passed away peacefully at her home on February 17, 2026. Betsy was born on November 28, 1958 to George Thomas and Carolyn (Johnson) Parker in New Haven Connecticut.

Betsy cherished the wonderful memories she had of her childhood spent surrounded by family in Connecticut and Massachusetts. Betsy was a graduate of Lunenburg High School in Lunenburg, MA. A natural athlete, Betsy’s commitment to excellence and her competitive spirit ensured that she excelled in all athletic pursuits. A four-sport athlete for Lunenburg High School, Betsy was a varsity starter for four years in field hockey and basketball and for three years in softball. In her sophomore year, she participated in track and field and was the Wachusett League, district, and state champion in the javelin. She was team captain in her senior year in three sports: basketball, field hockey and softball. She led her basketball team in scoring her senior year, when the team was a District III finalist. She was named the Knight Crier Athlete of the Year her senior year, becoming the first female recipient of that award. Betsy was inducted into the Lunenburg High School Hall of Fame in 2019

Betsy earned both undergraduate and graduate degrees from the University of Connecticut. Upon graduation from UCONN Betsy joyfully began her career as a teacher where she would go on to touch countless lives. With a determination to reach every person she came into contact with and a commitment to make her schools the best they could be, Betsy faced each and every day with a positivity, helpfulness and drive that was admired by all who saw her in her element. While Betsy spent time teaching at Turkey Hill Middle School in Lunenburg and Mansfield Middle School the majority of her career was spent at Southeast Elementary School in Mansfield Center. There Betsy touched the lives of thousands of students who would emphatically tell you that gym class was the best part of their school day, colleagues who believe they became better teachers because of her example and families who felt her love and dedication in so many different ways.

So much more than a teacher of Physical Education, Betsy worked tirelessly to ensure that every moment of every school day was filled with exciting and challenging activities within and outside of the school building. Recess Sports, Mileage Club, Running Club, Kids’ Marathon, the Adventures Ropes Course, the annual Turkey Trot, Fun in Our Own Backyard, student performances, school wide assemblies, PTO events, individual times for students in the gym; wherever and whenever Betsy could do something that would benefit the students or staff of Southeast School, she was all in. Betsy was a gifted educator who knew each unique individual she taught and had the skills to guide them in their physical and emotional development. Her sparkling blue eyes, winks and warm smiles made every student feel seen and supported. Miss Parker was every child’s biggest cheerleader. Betsy did everything she could to make sure every day was a great day at Southeast School and her outstanding work as an educator was recognized by her colleagues and the Mansfield Board of Education. Betsy was selected as Mansfield's Teacher of the Year in 2001 and went on to be a semi finalist for Connecticut Teacher of the Year.

Beyond her school day Betsy was a well respected coach of countless town basketball teams making her a valued member of the Mansfield Parks and Recreation staff. When school closed for the summer Betsy jumped right into camp mode working with area coaches in basketball skills camps and as a beloved staff member at Holiday Hill Day Camp. Betsy was also a member of PEO, a philanthropic educational organization for women.

Betsy took great pride in being her family’s historian and preserving records and items from their past. Predeceased by her parents and her brother William J. Parker, Betsy is survived by her sister Bonnie S. Parker of Portland,OR, her brother Bradford T. Parker (Kathy) of West Lafayette, IN and her sister-in-law Sherry L. Parker-Fanning of Louisville, KY. Additionally, Betsy leaves several cherished nieces and nephews and a growing number of great-nieces and great-nephews. Countless friends are left to mourn her loss while they hold tremendous gratitude for being part of Betsy’s life.

A memorial celebration will be held for Betsy at 2:00 pm on Saturday, March 14, 2026 at Storrs Congregational Church, 2 North Eagleville Road, Storrs, CT.

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to one of the following organizations: Holiday Hill Campership Fund (checks should be made payable to the American Camp Association, with “Lloyd and Gwen Duff Memorial Fund” written in the memo and then mailed to 41 Chaffeeville Road, Mansfield Center, CT 06250) or Bike Mansfield via their website www.bikemansfield.com

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Vincent R. IncandellaVincent R. Incandella, 92, passed away peacefully at home in Colchester, CT on Monday, February 16,...
02/17/2026

Vincent R. Incandella

Vincent R. Incandella, 92, passed away peacefully at home in Colchester, CT on Monday, February 16, 2026.

He was born in Hartford, CT on October 6, 1933, son of the late Vincent and Anna (Charizione) Incandella. Vincent served in the United States Air Force from 1954 – 1957 and then was an East Hartford Firefighter and retired after 20 years.

In addition to his companion for over 35 years, Nancy Lebiszczak of Colchester, CT he is survived by his son Vincent Incandella, his wife Kristen of Myrtle Beach, SC; his daughter Lisa Lee, her husband Danny of Conway, SC; four grandchildren and two great grandchildren; Sister Lorraine Parlin of Plant City, FL and his extended family, Nancy’s three sons, John Lebiszczak, his wife Michelle of Willimantic, CT; Michael Lebiszczak, his wife Amanda of Palm Harbor, FL; Andy Lebiszczak his companion Maria of Naugatuck, CT; her six grandchildren and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and many close friends.

Vinnie was a character, known for making people laugh and making new friends no matter where he was. His passion was cooking for others. He also loved to travel, do diamond painting and buy new cars. He will be deeply missed by all!

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Lawrence Barr GoodheartLawrence (“Larry”) Barr Goodheart passed away peacefully at home in Hampton, CT, after a two-year...
02/16/2026

Lawrence Barr Goodheart

Lawrence (“Larry”) Barr Goodheart passed away peacefully at home in Hampton, CT, after a two-year battle with cancer. He was born in 1944 in Washington DC to Clarence Goodheart and Margaret (Barr) Goodheart.

Larry will be remembered as a passionate orator and writer, working most recently as a Professor of History at the University of Connecticut. He was dedicated to his local community, particularly the Willimantic Food Co-op. He enjoyed gardening and was known for his expansive and productive gardens and orchard. He also enjoyed hiking, birdwatching, and continually expanding his knowledge through reading.

He is survived by his wife, Ellen Embardo of Hampton, CT, his daughter Anna Goodheart, of Boston, MA, and his sister Carol Allen, of Seattle, WA, and her family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in the memory of Larry to Joshua’s Trust (https://joshuastrust.org/tributes-memorials/) to help preserve the local woods in which he enjoyed spending time.

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02/15/2026
Frank P. MauroFrank P. Mauro, born October 14,1932 at home in South Philadelphia, PA., The son of the late Anthony and L...
02/13/2026

Frank P. Mauro

Frank P. Mauro, born October 14,1932 at home in South Philadelphia, PA., The son of the late Anthony and Lena (Floria) Mauro. He is survived by his loving wife Shirley and his two sons Anthony and his wife Alice Ellen, Frank Jr. and his wife Kim, his grandson Anthony James Mauro and Ciara, great grandchildren Luke and Amelia, loving sister Maryann King, Niece Robin, Nephews Bradley and William King and their families, and his pug Francis.

Family moved to Danbury, CT, during depression. Attended Danbury High School, graduating in 1950 during the High School years he sang with the chorus and was a drummer with the band. He had a love for music and played the accordion and taught accordion as well. His musical talent was well known, and he played in many nightclubs throughout Western CT. and New York State.

After graduating from High School, he joined the Navy in March of 1951.

Attended boot camp in New Port, RI. After boot camp he attended Hospital Corps School.

Upon graduation as a Corpsmen he was assigned to the Hospital Ship, USS Repose.

He spent nine months in Korea taking in casualties and delivering them to the Naval Hospital in Japan.

When the ship returned home, he received a serious injury and was sent to the Naval Hospital in California for treatment.

It was in Santa Barbara, Calif., that he met his wife, Shirley Kinney. It is there that he asked for her hand in marriage.

After his recovery he was assigned to the First Marines, First Marine Division and sent to Camp Pendleton for medical field training after which he returned to Korea with the First Marines for another fourteen months. For his service in Korea, he was awarded Korean Service Medal with three Bronze Stars, United Nations Medal, National Defense Medal, Good Conduct Medal and the Korean Presidents Medal.

Upon his return from Korea, he married the love of his life. His wife of 71 years. He now struggled with going into medicine or teaching music.

Having chosen music, he attends West Connecticut College and majors in music. Piano as his major instrument and cello his minor instrument.

Upon graduation he is hired as music director for the Lebanon School District. He left after three years, but not until he started a Junior Senior High School Band, performed musicals and had an elementary school band as well.

Looking for more challenges he went to Colchester as Director of music and once again started a successful instrumental program and performed musicals as well. It was here that the class of 1968 honored him by dedicating their yearbook to him.

After six years in Colchester, he again looked for another challenge. This time as Director of Music in Ellington. And once again he met the challenge head on a brought the music program in high school back to life.

In 1965 he earned his master’s degree at the University of Connecticut. And is a member of Phi Beta Mu, Alpha Lamba Chapter for Outstanding Band Directors.

After only one year in Ellington, he goes to Waterford, this time, in need of a change, he is hired to do instrumental music in elementary schools. A job that stole his heart for twenty years. After over thirty years of teaching music, he retired.

Upon retirement he again looked for a challenge and found it with Lions Clubs International. He became very active with his leadership skills.

He became president of the Willimantic Lions Club and continued as Cabinet Chairman, Zone Chairman, Region Chairman, and Governor of his district and up to Council Chairman for the state.

He also chaired the State Convention and the Mid-Winter Convention. During his time as a Lion, he chaired many other committees and was often a presenter and motivational speaker throughout New England. He is also well known for being the Author and Manager of the Lions book “A Brief History of Lionism in Connecticut 2007 Edition.”

His awards were many. Here are but a few: The Connecticut Board of Education Services for the Blind honored him with the “Volunteer of the Year Award”, “100% Governors Medal”. “District Governor’s Excellence Medal”, five “International Certificates of Appreciation”, “Melvin Jones Fellow 8th Progressive, the Lion Governor’s “Difference Maker Award”, The Presidents Call to Service Award” given by President George W. Bush, Wally Crook “Award for Unselfish Service to Humanity”, “Connecticut Knight of the Blind”, International Presidents “Leadership Medal”, five “Governor Appreciation Medals”, four “Presidents Appreciation Medals”, the prestigious International Presidents Medal” and many more too numerous to mention.

Here in his hometown of Willimantic, he has served on YMCA Board, Salvation Army Board and he and his wife Shirley received for Willimantic the Mohegan Sun “Ray of Sunshine Award”.

Teacher, Lion, public servant, Frank has indeed served God and humanity as well as he knew how.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to your local Music Program, Lion Club, T2T, Shriners or St. Jude.

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Bette A. SmithBette Ann Smith, 84, of Canterbury, CT, wife of the late Howard M. Smith, passed away after a brief illnes...
02/13/2026

Bette A. Smith

Bette Ann Smith, 84, of Canterbury, CT, wife of the late Howard M. Smith, passed away after a brief illness on February 11,2026 surrounded by her loving family. She was born in Rockville, CT on August 21, 1941, the daughter of the late William and Lola (Westgate) Burns.

Bette had a love of playing with yarn, puzzling and spending time with family and friends which kept her happy. Bette will be remembered for her unexpected wit, love of life and the thousands of sweaters lovingly made and shared with all.

Bette is survived by three daughters; Katie, Sue and Judy; five grandchildren; Rick, Josh, CJ, Nick and Sara, siblings Pat, and Kathy (Mimi); and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a son James Howard Smith and her brother Bill Burns Jr.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday, February 17, 2026 at 2:00pm at Ryan’s Place Restaurant, 180 Westminster Rd.

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Lillian Rose De LaurentisLillian Rose (Pinto) De Laurentis, with profound love and deep sorrow, we announce the passing ...
02/10/2026

Lillian Rose De Laurentis

Lillian Rose (Pinto) De Laurentis, with profound love and deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Lillian Rose De Laurentis, who entered eternal rest on February 8, 2026, at the age of 77. She was born in Manhattan, NY, the daughter of the late Philip and Bridget (Atria) Pinto.

Lillian later made her home in Connecticut, where she lived a life anchored in faith and defined by family. She shared 55 years of marriage with her husband, Frank De Laurentis.

Lillian was the proud and loving mother of Maria Gratton (husband Geoffrey Gratton) and Michael De Laurentis. She found immense joy in being a grandmother to Alex DeLeon, Chris Gratton, and Julia Gratton, and her heart overflowed with love for her treasured great granddaughter, Selena.

Lillian was the very definition of selflessness. Family was everything, no exceptions. Her faith in God was the foundation of her life and guided how she loved, gave, and endured. One of her favorite scriptures, and a reflection of how she lived each day, was:

“This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.”

—Psalm 118:24

She truly believed each day was a gift from God an invitation to choose gratitude, joy, and trust in His faithfulness regardless of circumstances. That belief was not something she preached; it was something she lived. Lillian also had a gentle, unintentional humor that brought warmth and smiles to those around her. Her presence was steady, comforting, and full of quiet grace.

Though our hearts are broken, we are forever grateful for the life she lived, the faith she carried, and the love she gave so freely. Her legacy lives on in her family and she leaves us with the reminder to rejoice, give thanks, and to see each day as a blessing.

A personal and intimate memorial to celebrate Lillian’s life will be held.

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Monique Ann BurpeeMonique Ann Burpee, 55, of Eastford, CT, passed away peacefully at home on February 6, 2026. Monique w...
02/09/2026

Monique Ann Burpee

Monique Ann Burpee, 55, of Eastford, CT, passed away peacefully at home on February 6, 2026. Monique was born in Willimantic, CT on September 20, 1970. She worked for the State of Connecticut for 20 years and loved working with the children. She loved kayaking, four wheeling in New Hampshire, and jamming out to 80s music. Monique loved every phase of the moon. She had the heart of a hippie and the spirit of a witch.

Monique leaves behind her mother and father Solange and John Cosgrove, in Connecticut; two daughters, Caitlyn Rodriguez and her husband Nathan Procaccini of Massachusetts, daughter Taina Rodriguez and her boyfriend Dylan Haviland of Connecticut, and bonus daughter Kaisha Rodriguez and her son Chase Miller of Connecticut; sister Corrina Barry and her husband David Barry of Massachusetts, and her brother Larry Burpee in North Carolina; She also leaves behind her special nephew Kyle Burpee and several nieces, nephews, her special soulmate Missy Thulin, and several aunts, uncles, cousins, and so many loving friends.

She is preceded by her older sister Bettyann Hogaboom and her paternal father Stanley Burpee.

Monique will be remembered for her witty sarcasm, kind heart, and beautiful soul. Her greatest accomplishment was raising her girls.

Monique’s family will receive relatives and friends on Sunday, February 22, 2026, from 2:00pm to 4:00PM at Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Willimantic, CT.

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Glenda Marie VargasGlenda Marie Vargas Malave passed away on January 30, 2026, at Hartford Hospital. She was born on Nov...
02/06/2026

Glenda Marie Vargas

Glenda Marie Vargas Malave passed away on January 30, 2026, at Hartford Hospital. She was born on November 17, 1987, in Willimantic, CT to Daisy Maria Malave Roche and Eduardo Luis Vargas Oquendo.

Glenda was raised in Willimantic, attended Windham High School, and worked for 23 years at Wendy’s as a crew leader and manager.

Glenda is survived by her partner, Jordan Valle and her three children, daughters Daisyana Lee Segarra and Zafira Adonai Valle Vargas, and a son, Felix Manuel Segarra. She also leaves behind her five sisters, Carmen Vargas, Marisol Vargas, Angela Vargas, Sahudy Malave, and Brenda Colon as well as numerous nephews and nieces and other extended family members.

Glenda’s interest included watching movies with her children, playing board games, and listening to Christian music.

Glenda’s family will receive relatives and friends on Wednesday, February 11, 2026, from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm at Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson Street, Willimantic. Pastor Marta Colon from Iglesia Cristiana Pentecostal Vida Nueva will be conducting a funeral service during this time period.

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Potter Funeral Home has been a cornerstone of Willimantic for over one hundred years. During that time the public has seen several different faces carry out its long-standing tradition of exceptional family service. Our staff is led by Glenn and Tiffany Blumenstein and Brian Romanowski, who have continued the time-honored traditions of caring. The staff members at Potter Funeral Home are committed to providing your family with the finest services and products available. Our team is available 24 hours per day, seven days a week.