11/03/2025
Codependency doesn’t start in your personality —
it starts in your nervous system.
When safety once depended on keeping others happy,
your body learned to survive by scanning for everyone else’s emotions before your own.
That isn’t neediness.
That isn’t weakness.
It’s what your system had to do when connection meant protection.
And if part of you still feels responsible for everyone’s peace,
it’s not because you don’t know how to be independent —
it’s because your body hasn’t learned it’s safe to be sovereign yet.
Real healing isn’t about pulling away or becoming “unavailable.”
It’s about building enough internal safety to:
✨ hold your truth
✨ stay regulated in conflict
✨ let others have feelings without losing yourself
✨ choose love, not chase it
This is nervous system work.
This is self-leadership.
This is freedom.
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your first step to feeling safe in your own body, with or without others’ approval.
When safety comes from inside you, relationships stop feeling like survival
and start feeling like home. 🤍