Healing the Erotic Self

Healing the Erotic Self You will be able to register for the healing track that applies to you. For more information about the HTES program, visit HealingtheEroticSelf.com.

Healing the Erotic Self Life Coaching Program offers a self-study Erotic Liberation EcoSystem including a erotic intelligence workbook, AASECT CE eligible masterclasses, personal healing and professional learning intensives centering Black erotic healing. Transform Your Erotic Intelligence

When was the last time you felt connected to…

+ Your Desire

+ Your Pleasure

+Your Intuition

+Your Ability to Set or Reclaim Your Boundaries

+Your Erotic Embodiment

+Your Mind, Body, Spirit, & Breath

Founded by Clinical Somatic Sex Therapist Mx. Queen, LCSW, Healing the Erotic Self (HTES) is an erospiritual coaching program that guides you with erosomatic embodiment practices & offers a personal healing track and a professional development track for therapists, educators, counselors, coaches, medical and healing professionals. HTES offers multi-week live and self-paced coaching groups, Sexuality & Somatics and Authentic Consent Professional Development Learning Intensives with queer-inclusive, pleasure-affirming somatic and erotic group coaching, guided meditation audios, erotic liberation books wellness and erotic care practices and guidance. This erotic liberation program includes:

Multi-week erotic coaching program (live and self-paced)
Complimentary access to monthly Erotic Intelligence Masterclass
Post coaching program support with LIVE monthly group healing sessions including HTES Erosomatic Healing Sessions and SHIFT Somatic Healing Circles
Somatic and erotic guide meditation audios
HTES workbook (digital),
Erotic Affirmations Journal (digital)
HTES Erotic Care Practices Library
Erotic Breathwork Sessions
Erotic Liberation Retreats
Professional CE opportunities
Sexuality & Somatics Peer Supervision for Professionals
Virtual Office Hours with Queen
Private Virtual Community

There are 3 membership tiers including a professional development tier for helping and healing professionals like therapists, counselors, educators, and life coaches. To register for HTES offerings, visit the HTES community hub- Erospirituality.com.

11/22/2025

At some point a child will become an adult who will tell their story and hopefully create their own healing narrative.

There are a lot of parents going to church but spiritually bypassing the work.

Parenting is not just a position, it’s spiritual leadership rooted in love, nurturing, and accountability.

Not everyone who can procreate can parent.

If you have experienced spiritual and religious harm, I hope you lean into protecting, nurturing, and healing your heart.
Learn how to reclaim your healing narrative with the newly published SHIFT, A Self-Liberation Practice Book.

Available at SistaS*xologist.com.

From Women’s Health Magazine:Single Women Are Thriving In 2025. Experts Explain What’s Really Driving Their Joy.“Women w...
11/01/2025

From Women’s Health Magazine:

Single Women Are Thriving In 2025. Experts Explain What’s Really Driving Their Joy.

“Women want to be in an equitable, mutual, respectful relationship where both people are openly sharing their concerns and their feelings,” Aguirre says.”

Read more here:

One of the fastest-growing demographics in the U.S., solo rollers have a thing or two to teach everyone about happiness.

Have you seen the interview on the S*x is Medicine Podcast with HTES's author, Mx. Queen  discussing Healing the Erotic ...
10/30/2025

Have you seen the interview on the S*x is Medicine Podcast with HTES's author, Mx. Queen discussing Healing the Erotic Self and Erospirituality?

Watch here:

Welcome Back to S*x Is Medicine! This week's episode features licensed, integrative somatic s*x therapist, *xologist, Mx. Lena Queen for a deeply re...

10/26/2025

This month Clinical Somatic S*xologist Educator Mx Queen had the pleasure of speaking with the Co-Founders of the Holistic S*xology Institute on their podcast, S-x is Medicine.

To learn more about how you can decolonize and reclaim on Lovership with erotically intelligence & authentic consent within your professional and personal healing practices, sign up for Embodied Liberation newsletter & join November’s intensive Authentic Consent.

Centering Black erotic healing…What was suppose to be just a coaching program became an erotic liberation ecosystem recl...
10/18/2025

Centering Black erotic healing…

What was suppose to be just a coaching program became an erotic liberation ecosystem reclaiming s*xuality, somatics, and spirituality through erotic intelligence, integrative somatic healing, decolonial spirituality with trauma-informed healing practices rooted in the ancestral wisdom of the Global Majority of Black, Caribbean, African, Indigenous Turtle Islanders, Latine, East Asian, South Asian, and Pacific cultures.

This is Erospirituality as a decolonial healing approach.

Erotic wholeness is honored as a birthright, and liberation is embodied through s*xuality, somatic, spiritual, and ancestral healing practices that affirm our humanity, our joy, and our pleasure.

Healing the Erotic Selfe pathway to your erotic healing and embodied liberation.

Personally and professionally- some are experiencing a type of weariness from today’s social and political climate that have activated trauma responses as protective reaponses.

Honestly, that is to be expected.

Make no mistake about it- what we are experiencing is collective trauma and it’s the third time in 10 years.

We have experienced two terms of this administration and a global pandemic.

As more governmental resources and social safety next errodes, those of us who are therapists, counselors, educators, coaches, and healers are not exempt from what are clients are experiencing.

The need to humanize our collective existence and develop our internal resources of our embodied intelligence which include emotional, somatic, and erotic intelligences is important, dare I say critical to our ability to fight for our future.

Healing is a coregulation process that requires the ability to self-regulate from a place of wholeness and the ability to connect.

Therapy, education, and coaching is a coregulation process.

Capitalism and colonialism have tried to strip us of our inherent worth with our embodied capacity for love and pleasure.

But the truth is:
✨ You have value because you exist.
✨ You are love because you are whole, pleasurably.
✨ You are already a lover, already whole, already worthy.

Self-Care Should Feel Like Soul Care.

Take care of your yourself- mind, body, spirit, and energy.

According to the documentary on menopause, weathering is “an accumulated lifetime experiences of illness of stress that ...
10/18/2025

According to the documentary on menopause, weathering is “an accumulated lifetime experiences of illness of stress that makes menopause more challenging for Black women”.

We need to expand our understanding of weathering among Black women.

The stress is rooted in centuries of surviving the sxual & spiritual violence the transatlántico slave trade.

We need to connect the dots integrating the s*xological, sociological, and somatic readings FROM Black women.

HTES recommends to start with Dr.Joy Deguy, Dr.Tricia Rose, Dr. Moya Bailey, Dr. Yaba Blay, Dr. Lisa Bowden, Sonia Renee Taylor, Dr. Candice N. Hargons & Dr. Donna Oriowo.

Here is a bookshop with some recommended readings:

Centering Black erotic healing, this Bookshop recommends the writings that inform a decolonial understanding of erotic intelligence, erotic confidence, erotic energy, and eroticism as a spiritual practice. Virtually, join The Salon weekly Thursdays 730pm EST at Erospirituality.com. Lean into explori...

There is a place in all of this chaos in which we MUST be committed to our WHOLE-Self- mind, body, spirit, & energy. Fin...
10/18/2025

There is a place in all of this chaos in which we MUST be committed to our WHOLE-Self- mind, body, spirit, & energy.
Find out how I recommend you do so erotically with pleasure zones you should not neglect.
Note: I misspoke when I said the brain was the largest when it’s the skin that’s the largest pleasure zone. The mind is the most ignored. 😉

Read full article.

Link in comment section.

Earlier this week the creator and author of the erotic liberation ecosystem, Healing the Erotic Self, Mx. Queen, LCSW, M...
10/18/2025

Earlier this week the creator and author of the erotic liberation ecosystem, Healing the Erotic Self, Mx. Queen, LCSW, M.Ed was interviewed by the AASECT award-winning podcast, S*x is Medicine. They discussed decolonizing sacred s*xuality, Erospirituality, and what Black women do subconsciously to disempower our erotic energy.

Healing the Erotic Self has evolved from what Queen shares with their clients to what they share with the collective, this work deepens your connection with the erotic and to your erotic intelligence.

Episode released soon:

https://open.spotify.com/show/1WPRjqsxC9FEHXqINVk1Z7

Podcast · Devi Ward Erickson & Alaina Salks · S*x Is Medicine REBOOT ~ The Podcast for S*xual Rebels and Spiritual Warriors!Raw, raunchy, and most of all, REAL. Hosted by Devi Ward Erickson and Alaina Salks, S*x Is Medicine is the go-to podcast for s*xual rebels and spiritual warriors. Drawing fro...

Today at 2pm EST Mx. Queen, LCSW, M.Ed is going live on IG to discuss 5 Ways The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence will supp...
10/06/2025

Today at 2pm EST Mx. Queen, LCSW, M.Ed is going live on IG to discuss 5 Ways The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence will support our leadership and decision-making process.

Tonight at 730pm EST they and their co-instructor Tashé Ann of tanntra_ will be hosting an 1 of 2 informational sessions of Authentic Consent and how to create embodied and relationship safety.

Both exploring ’s We Will Not Cancel Us

Self-Neglect No More:

https://www.erospirituality.com/offers/XiciWina/checkou

Reclaim your erotic embodiment through decolonial somatic healing, eroticism as spirituality, & erosomatic practices at the Erospirituality Centre. Transform your Erotic IQ with trauma-informed erosomatic healing, erospiritual coaching, & erotic liberation practices centering BIPOC q***r s*xuality.

We need leaders who are skilled in holding space for themselves and for others.As I mentioned in my newsletter, Embodied...
10/03/2025

We need leaders who are skilled in holding space for themselves and for others.
As I mentioned in my newsletter, Embodied Liberation:

"We must do our best NOT to normalize these times. We must do our best to protect our energy, our capacity, and our liberation- both embodied and externally. Our erotic intelligence provides us with a pathway that allows us the type of permission NO oppression can suppress."
How I hold space continues to evolve, and my recent health experience affirmed that I was still doing the most.
I will live erotically while doing this work.
This is a call-in for us and our leadership, both personally and professionally.
I am honored to present several financially accessible ways of us creating and sustaining our work.
1) Join me for an Information & Support Session on Authentic Consent with the powerful and lovely for next month's upcoming intensive, Authentic Consent. The 6-Week AC Intensive begins November 3rd.

2) Explore The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence and how it has and will help us fight this f*ckery and build intimacy within ourselves and our relationships. I will also share how Healing the Erotic Self Intensive will help us decolonize our healing and liberation. Next cohort begins November 12th.

3) We needed a space to discuss all of the ancestral and contemporary ways erotic intelligence has liberated us so I am starting a weekly Erotic Liberation Study Group, The Salon. Drop-in; donation-based.

4) Get the self-study course, Erotic Living, and learn how not only to burn the damn cape but dissolve the colonial ways of self-neglect. Learn how to integrate your s*xuality, your spirituality, and your mind-body relationship in everyday living.

5) Get the SHIFT: Somatic Healing System.
I narrowed my offerings, creating space to take care of myself and provide capacity for what I love. It is also time to live like I love myself with less, not more.
I hope you join me- if not, I honor the process of self-selecting.
Take what resonates and leave the rest.
Register at Erospirituality.com/store

With care and consideration,

Mx. Queen


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