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12/17/2025
So, they will let you die if it means reducing even an ounce of their liability or risk to their “investment.”
The solution is to collectively stop participating in these systems. We can all not sign up for insurance. We can all refuse to pay for things. We can decide that we aren’t willing to keep living this way. Together.
12/15/2025
Are y’all in the same Heated Rivalry chokehold that our house is? We. Love. To. See. A. Q***r. Love. Story.
Seriously, though, watching this show has brought up so many conversations about the pressure to hide parts of ourselves, the way families and cultures (ethnic, national, sport) shape what we show to others, and how heartbreaking a feeling it is to not be able to acknowledge the realest, truest love because of those things.
If you haven’t watched it, do. It’s…beautifully shot…and also just such a lovely representation of yearning and the will they won’t they embrace who they are and how they feel.
12/12/2025
Our little mobile food pantry is out if you need anything. Feel free to drop by! It’s right outside our office at 3133 Wrightsville Ave.
12/06/2025
We have even more to offer! The best part of this is that we have more and more as the day progresses! We can’t wait to see y’all soon!
12/06/2025
We already have lots to see and more to come! Stop by for a *free* clothes swap perfectly timed for the holidays.
12/01/2025
If you are looking for a resource to help you navigate this season- and shift your perspective in other seasons, as well- I highly recommend the book Wintering by Katherine May. Winter can be hard. The days are shorter. It’s cold. And, we as a society struggle to truly allow space for rest. That is part of what makes this book so powerful; it looks at how culture shapes experience and creates options for new ways of understanding and engaging with uncomfortable seasons (beyond winter, itself) of our lives.
11/27/2025
The stories we believe are the stories that we will accept from others.
When we ground ourselves in love and acceptance, looking at ourselves honestly and with compassion, we have the space- and regulation- to let go of stories given to us that are unkind, untrue, and say more about the story teller than they do about us.
We also have the ability to listen to hard truths, to hear people who love us share difficult reflections with us- and we are able to take that feedback in without dissolving or defending.
The work of knowing your SELF and making peace with your parts is the work that allows you to engage more honestly and less reactively with others. Wishing you more knowing this holiday season- to be able to hear real truth from those who love you and to be able to let go of false narratives from those who wish you would take those stories on.
11/25/2025
The reason parts work is so powerful is because it honors and allows us to listen to each of our parts, these selves that figured out how to survive, and got us to where we are now.
We don’t ever have to leave those parts behind, and we don’t have to let those parts run the show in our lives now. Instead, we can explore those parts with kindness, compassion, curiosity, and gratitude, and we can allow our SELF to converse with and among these parts to move towards our values and towards the life we are working to build.
11/24/2025
We’re hosting a Free Community Clothing Swap at Honeybee Psychotherapy & Behavioral Health on Saturday, December 6th (8A–2P)!
Bring your gently worn clothes, shoes, and accessories to exchange with others in our community. Also welcome are home appliances and toiletries! Light refreshments provided.
Any remaining items will be donated to local organizations.
What to bring: The items you’d like to swap and a bag for the items you take home. What to keep at home: Swimsuits & undergarments.
We’re also accepting donations of non-perishable pasta meals, breakfast items, and birthday cake boxes!
Birthday cake boxes include:
•Boxed cake mix
•Can of frosting
•One can of Sprite (this takes the place of the eggs and oil so they don’t need any extra ingredients!)
•Candles
•9x13 disposable pan with lid
•A note explaining the Sprite
11/23/2025
Sometimes we know things before we KNOW that we know them. Building that skill of being able to sit with yourself, watch your thoughts, and allow them to pass can help you start to notice these thoughts that sometimes hide in the background. Quiet. Not yet fully realized. A product of openness and stillness.
11/18/2025
Let’s make sustainability *social*
Please bring your gently used clothing, shoes, accessories, home goods, etc. to our FREE CLOTHING SWAP on Saturday, December 6th between 8 AM AND 2 PM (at 3133 Wrightsville Ave, aka Honeybee Psychotherapy & Behavioral Health).
We hope you find new favorites, are able to share some belongings no longer serving you with your neighbors, and connect with one another. And… we will provide some snacks, drinks, and good company while you browse!
What to bring: any items in good condition that you would like to swap and a bag for the items you take home
What to leave at home: swimsuits and undergarments
We will also be accepting donations of non-perishable meals, breakfast items, and birthday cake boxes!
What is a birthday cake box?? A 9x13 disposable pan with a lid that has a box of cake mix, a can of sprite, a tub of frosting, birthday candles, and a note explaining how to mix the cake with the sprite (no other ingredients needed) and bake as usual.
11/14/2025
So much of what so many of us need right now is community. We feel the heaviness of life and can feel very alone.
Allowing people who see us in- and building connection and community with them- helps us recognize we are not alone, and we can both get and offer support.
Not from everyone. Not in every space.
But, we can cultivate intentional relationships that embody our worth and the worth of one another.
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Honeybee Psychotherapy Values and Practice Guidelines
· We believe in the power of transparency. Rachel will advocate for you to engage in direct, clear communication with others, and she firmly believes you deserve the same from her. If you have a question, please ask. If you have a concern, let us know. If you need another option, no problem!
· We believe in collaboration. No one person has all the answers. No one practice has all the answers. No one theoretical model has all the answers. No one field has all the answers. At Honeybee, we believe people work better together. That’s why we embrace collaborating with others. From medical doctors to psychiatrists to dietitians and personal trainers, if they are important to you or could be helpful to you, we want to include them in the healing process. That’s also why we never want you to feel like your only option is Honeybee. You have the right to choose who you want to work with and how you want to work with them.
· We believe that all people deserve to be treated with kindness, dignity, and respect. We also think the world would be a better place if everyone else believed this too (but that’s just us- we aren’t trying to impose our values on you). To that end, we ask that clinicians, admin staff, and fellow clients be treated with the same kindness, dignity, and respect you would offer to the person or animal (because let’s be honest, sometimes animals are easier to treat well) you love the most. And, we expect ourselves to provide that to you. If ever something rubs you the wrong way or doesn’t feel like it matches this value, please let us know, and we will work to hear you, develop an understanding of where you are coming from, and try to resolve the situation until you feel your needs have been met. If that’s not possible, we will talk to you about options for next steps.
· We believe in boundaries. Boundaries make everyone feel safe. That means when you come to therapy, you can expect your information to be kept confidential. You can also expect that your physical space will be respected, and you will be treated with kindness and dignity. Boundaries also mean that therapy time is used for therapy. Contact between sessions will be kept to a minimum to ensure maximum use of session time. Boundaries are also why we at Honeybee do not give out our personal information. Therapy is meant to be about you- NOT us. And, when we are not working, we cannot provide good therapy. That means we are not available outside of office hours. Please use emergency resources if you need immediate additional support, or please wait until your next appointment to explore what has been happening in your life. Boundaries help in everything, and we could go on and on but will stop here for now.
· We believe in practicing what works. Sometimes therapy takes a long time- and that’s okay. If there is a lot to work through, it’s going to take a long time to do it. That said, therapy should be productive. Sure there will be sessions that don’t feel as powerful or meaningful, but if you feel really stuck or like you haven’t made meaningful progress in a while (or if we get this feeling), we will discuss treatment options. Maybe we switch theoretical frameworks. Maybe we add some additional support. Maybe we recommend trying someone new. Ultimately, you should see movement and feel like you are getting better. If you don’t or you’re not, then we need to look at our options to see what else to do. Similarly, with practicing what works, Honeybee providers will only ever recommend evidence-based interventions. We know that there are great interventions that have anecdotal evidence of working. That’s simply not good enough for us. We take your health seriously, and we are only willing to provide interventions that have a strong scientific evidence base for support. This also means that if you share a recommendation that is not grounded in science (detox cleanses, I’m looking at you), we will not support that recommendation. There is fundamentally no evidence basis for it. In a world where so much is unknown, we believe in using science as a resource to practice what is known- and if we learn something better, we will practice something better. We believe you deserve more than a shot in the dark or something based on our own personal opinion or experience, and that is what we at Honeybee will provide.
· We believe in honoring our scope of practice. Social workers know a lot and are amazing! But, they don’t know everything. As a result, if there is something that comes up that is outside our scope of practice, we will tell you that you need to see someone else. Sometimes there will be issues where the lines get blurry (like in family based treatment), but if you need additional support, we will always recommend doing so and will recommend a provider that can offer those services. Similarly, even when some things are in our scope of practice, for the scope of therapy, we may recommend an adjunctive treatment. For example, if you want to work on OCD but also have a lot of trauma, it might make more sense to do separate work. You are learning skills for both but are actually getting more comprehensive treatment in doing so. Where this often really comes up is with medication management and with other co-morbid (meaning happening at the same time) conditions. Our limited scope of practice means we rely on you consistently seeing a medical provider, as needed, to make sure your medical needs are adequately addressed so you can do the work of therapy.
· We believe in recovery. We believe there is hope for fundamental and complete change. We believe that therapy and medication and support works, and we believe that with the right combination, you can live the life you value. We also believe in brains and structure and vulnerabilities, so we know that relapses happen. They don’t have to be part of the recovery process but often are. Relapses do not make recovery impossible. They just create space to work on another aspect of your life to increase your resiliency in that area. Some brains will always need a little additional support to do what they are supposed to do (just like some pancreases or some hearts; bodies are complex and tricky!), so even when recovery is possible, sometimes medication is ongoing. That doesn’t mean you’re not in recovery. It simply means your brain and/or your body needs this additional resource to be at its best. No big deal!