10/31/2025
Trick or Treat...
"The past does not equal the future unless we live there."
We have all done it. Worried about getting hurt again. Trying to protect ourselves from that happening. Anything uncomfortable can contribute to a type of trauma in the body.
What do we do with that? We resist. Run.
"Oh, hell no, never again."
Walls come up to protect.
We "think" if we repeat the patterns or things we did in the external world that automatically the same thing will happen. This is fear and logically it's impossible. This is the trick.
Can you pull in the same type of person? Yes. IF you have not healed that within yourself that needed the lesson. You will walk straight off the cliff or you may get someone worse to show it to you, again.
The question is: Did you ask yourself in the aftermath, why you picked that person and what did you learn from them?
I'm not saying they were not horrible people, there is alot of them that blame, hurt, and use others, and that are selfish.
What did you learn and why will you never repeat? This is the treat.
People don't trick you, you need to not trick yourself. If you don't pay attention to your own patterns, they will repeat. Stop being afraid of life, have courage and believe in yourself and stand up. Show up!!
Be careful about not letting someone in that could possibly be the BEST thing you've ever had due to this fear.
You could be the happiest you've ever been in your life.
Love is the treat.
Fear is the trick.
Make sure you know the difference.
Happy Halloween 🎃...xoxo