Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

Boundaries are tricky.Between people, between horses, and even between barn mates, it’s easy to get tangled in confusion...
11/21/2025

Boundaries are tricky.

Between people, between horses, and even between barn mates, it’s easy to get tangled in confusion. As caring, empathic individuals, we often stretch ourselves without realizing it, leaving our energy drained and our relationships strained.

Boundaries: Where I end and you begin.

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11/20/2025

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11/17/2025

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It’s been a busy weekend for us so we’ll have a lot to talk about on tomorrow’s Casually Chaotic Conversation - AND we’l...
11/16/2025

It’s been a busy weekend for us so we’ll have a lot to talk about on tomorrow’s Casually Chaotic Conversation - AND we’ll be joined by Lester Buckley!!
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Psych Saturday: Beginner’s HeartThis weekend I’m heading to the Stardust Slow Balboa Weekend, a full immersion into slow...
11/15/2025

Psych Saturday: Beginner’s Heart

This weekend I’m heading to the Stardust Slow Balboa Weekend, a full immersion into slow balboa with classes, social dances, and even a competition.

“What is Slow Balboa?” you might ask?
Excellent question. I’ve been asking it too.

The funny thing is that everyone I ask has a slightly different answer. Here is what I do know: it is a partner dance, it is related to swing, and I am going to spend the entire weekend discovering what it feels like from the inside out.

We talk a lot about beginner’s mind, the idea of approaching a new skill with curiosity and wonder. It makes sense that we focus on the mind. If you are anything like me, it is your thoughts that get loud when you are learning something new. My inner critic is particularly enthusiastic. It loves those moments when I stumble or fall short and is quick to offer commentary I never asked for.

On good days, I can wrangle those thoughts by sheer force of will and redirect myself back to learning. But recently I have realized something important. As much as my thinking matters, it is my heart that fuels me.

A beginner’s heart, full of joy, eagerness, excitement, and possibility, gives us the energy to learn, to seek, and to keep going. It quiets the inner critic far better than logic ever could.

So this weekend I will be leaning into my own beginner’s heart as I explore Slow Balboa, openly, eagerly, a little awkwardly, and with the same curiosity I bring to the barn.

If you are learning something new, whether in a lesson, a clinic, or a quiet moment of practice on your own, I hope you find your beginner’s heart too. It is a wonderful companion on the journey. ~Paul

if you answered mostly A’s then we have set up a free online class that could help you.Join us for a thoughtful, practic...
11/14/2025

if you answered mostly A’s then we have set up a free online class that could help you.

Join us for a thoughtful, practical discussion about how clear boundaries can transform your relationships in and out of the arena.

Date: Thursday, November 20
Time: 7:00 PM EST
Location: Online via Zoom

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11/13/2025

Guess the horse + rider combo! 👀

My horse’s emotions aren’t mine. My client’s confusion isn’t mine. My student’s success isn’t mine. Your experiences are...
11/11/2025

My horse’s emotions aren’t mine. My client’s confusion isn’t mine. My student’s success isn’t mine. Your experiences aren’t mine.

My emotions, confusion, success, and experience are, you guessed it… mine.
Somewhere there is a line between your experiences and mine. These are boundaries.

I know that if I can understand this, and be focused on managing well what is mine to manage, then that is the only way I can truly help you. Because you are and individual as much as my horses are. The only way to keep the integrity of our relationship and not burden you with my own s**t is to be aware of this line. ~ Justin

How are you with boundaries?

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What are your intentions this week??
11/10/2025

What are your intentions this week??

I had a mentor in college that used to sat, "Humility is truth." It has been a helpful guide. Love this poem from Lockie...
11/10/2025

I had a mentor in college that used to sat, "Humility is truth." It has been a helpful guide. Love this poem from Lockie Phillips...

“Ain’t Modest, Just Lyin’”

I’ve rode with them who brag too loud,
Their egos flappin’ proud for the crowd.
But worse than that, I’ve come to see,
Is the one who whispers, “Aw, not me.”

They’ll tip their hat, act meek and small,
Pretend they ain’t no hand at all.
But soon as backs are turned away,
They is polishin’ up their halo clay.

Says, “Shucks, I ain’t that good a rider,”
While sittin’ taller, grin growin’ wider.
“I just get lucky, that’s all, friend,”
But luck don’t rope nor saddle mend.

Now truth don’t shine in fancy talk,
Nor hide in mud from humble walk.
The honest ones just do their best,
And let the dust do all the rest.

So if you’re ridin’ for the brand,
Don’t play small to look grand.
A steady heart, a straight-spoke word
That’s the finest thing I’ve ever heard.

‘Cause false modesty’s just pride in disguise,
A coyote grinnin’ in sheep’s eyes.
Be plain, be true, don’t twist nor tryin’
Ain’t modest, friend,
You’re just lyin’.

I’ve seen them that ride with fire in their hand,
And others walk that same dry land
Soft-footed, quiet, eyes cast low,
Sayin’ “Aw, I ain’t much, you know.”

But there’s a lie that wears a humble face,
A way to hide from your own grace.
It’s pride that’s scared of bein’ seen,
So it cloaks itself in “aw, not me.”

You can boast with chest puffed wide,
Or bury truth where shame resides.
Either way, the heart gets lost,
And both roads carry the same cost.

I’ve learned out here beneath the stars,
Where the land don’t care who you are,
That honest work don’t need disguise,
And false modesty’s just fear in disguise.

The horse don’t care for practiced airs,
He feels what’s true, not what he hears.
He knows your worth by how you sit,
Not how you downplay talk of it.

So stand your ground, speak plain and sure,
You ain’t no less for bein’ pure.
Take the gift your hands can give,
And let the truth in you just live.

Out here, the sky’s too wide for games,
And dust don’t care about names.
Be steady, humble, clear inside,
That’s the quiet kind of pride.

11/09/2025

I believe one of the greatest gifts I can give a horse is limits. Within limits they can be set free. It’s a funny concept, freedom within limits… but it’s how horses and humans have evolved to live. I marked the corner posts and paid to build a fence. Daily, I get to watch my horses enjoy their “freedom” out in the pasture with their friends. My goal always is to find the ability to communicate so clearly that my horses experience, expansive freedom within the limits and expectations of the aids- Justin

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