Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

02/19/2026

Still winter… but the warm day had everyone feeling like themselves again ☀️
Blankets off, backs warmed up, and a barn full of very happy, refreshed horses.

The reality for so many horse professionals is that they put so much ahead of themselves. Maybe you do this too.The hors...
02/18/2026

The reality for so many horse professionals is that they put so much ahead of themselves. Maybe you do this too.

The horses get the lion share of your energy. The students and clients get your patience, your time, your creativity. Your business needs come before your personal ones, and as a horse professional, you continuously sacrifice so much to serve those you care about the very best you can.

You’ll research for hours to help a client find the right horse.
You’ll stay late at the barn to reassure a rider after a rough lesson.

You’ll pour your whole heart into helping people… and then lie awake wondering if you did enough.

We see it every day.

And here’s the thing: If you don’t invest in yourself, you can’t do your best for them.

For your students, who count on you to guide them when fear shows up.

For the horses, who deserve calm, clear riders in the saddle.
For every lesson that could stay safe and productive because you had the tools and the plan to handle the tough moments.

That’s exactly what Emotions in the Arena was built for.

This isn't a theory you’ll file away and never use. It’s a live coaching experience to equip you with practical tools, real scenarios, direct Q&A, and our proven process for handling the emotional moments no one talks about but every instructor faces.

We begin tomorrow. And once we do, enrollment closes so we can focus fully on the group inside.

And because we know how hard it is for horse professionals to invest in themselves, we’ve added a simple payment plan too, so you can pick what works best for you and still get in before we close the doors.

If you’ve ever wondered if you handled a meltdown the right way…If you’ve ever wanted to feel more confident when fear, frustration, or shut-down shows up in the arena…This is your moment.

Do it for your students. Do it for their horses. And yes, do it for yourself, too.

The link to join us is in the comments below to save your seat!

02/18/2026

Our final free live webinar on handling Emotions in the Arena starts in just 30 minutes. Jump in and join us, link in the comments below.

02/18/2026

This is a live coaching experience to equip you with practical tools, real scenarios, direct Q&A, and our proven process for handling the emotional moments no one talks about but every instructor faces.

We begin tomorrow. And once we do, enrollment closes so we can focus fully on the group inside.

We don't want you to miss out - sign up link in 1st comment.

02/18/2026
So proud of this man and his horse. Check out the National Champion in the level 2 Open division!
02/18/2026

So proud of this man and his horse. Check out the National Champion in the level 2 Open division!

02/17/2026

That’s exactly why we created the course for every horse professional who teaches - Emotions in the Arena.
This course will help you bridge this gap with grounded tools, clear communication techniques, and practical steps that help you respond calmly and lead with confidence.

As trainers, lesson instructors, clinicians, and coaches, when a horse starts to get nervous, shut down, or feel pressur...
02/17/2026

As trainers, lesson instructors, clinicians, and coaches, when a horse starts to get nervous, shut down, or feel pressure we naturally change how we are working with the horse.

We adjust the ask.
We soften our aid.
We notice the tension before it becomes resistance and we redirect that energy.

But when a student starts to feel the same way, many instructors do something different…

They repeat the same instruction.
Or say the same thing again with a new analogy.
Or they hesitate, feeling unsure what to say next to help that student from becoming more emotional.

I’ve spent the last several decades helping hundreds of riders and horse professionals feel more prepared for these moments of when emotion arises in the arena, because at some point it always happens and either we are prepared for them or we are not.

With horses, we watch closely for the early signs of worry or confusion so we can step in before it becomes something bigger.

But with people, many instructors try to handle what they see on the surface, missing what’s happening underneath.

When a student’s fear takes over, when frustration clouds their ability to learn, when shame closes the door on their ability to communicate, more instruction alone is not enough to guide these students through these moments successfully.

Instruction is not the same as connection.
You cannot teach what a tense mind cannot hear.

For many horse professionals, it’s far easier to handle this with horses.
But when it comes to helping our students in these moments many still struggle.

That’s exactly why we created the course for every horse professional who teaches - Emotions in the Arena.
This course will help you bridge this gap with grounded tools, clear communication techniques, and practical steps that help you respond calmly and lead with confidence.

Because the real mark of a good teacher isn’t just skill with the horse.

It’s knowing how to confidently and successfully guide your student when emotions rise.

This is a course you take once and it will forever change how you show up, feel and serve your students in the arena.
Enrollment is getting ready to close and we’ll be getting started.

Click the link in the comments to secure your seat.

I look forward to helping you develop your skills as an instructor that can feel steady and prepared in the emotional moments when many other instructors feel confused and overwhelmed.

See you in the course on our first call together.

02/17/2026

Free live class: Handling Emotional Moments in the arena
We’re getting started in 30 minutes. LINK IN THE COMMENTS BELOW

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