Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

Preparation for competition is less about the day itself, and more about building the partnership between you and your h...
04/21/2026

Preparation for competition is less about the day itself, and more about building the partnership between you and your horse,�so the moment of competition feels like something familiar, not something to survive. ~ Dr. Paul

With their first licensed Working Equitation Competition of the year coming up this weekend, Justin and Dr. Paul's inten...
04/20/2026

With their first licensed Working Equitation Competition of the year coming up this weekend, Justin and Dr. Paul's intentions this week are focussed on how they want to show up for themselves and their horses in the lead up.

04/20/2026

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04/19/2026

Meet Rafa.
I brought him home last week and I’m still a little bit in disbelief that he’s standing in our field.He’s incredibly talented, very sensitive, and has tons of try. We’ll be exploring Working
Equitation together and taking the time to build clarity and communication from the ground up.
5 rides in and I’m already having a blast.
Looking forward to sharing the process.
~ Justin

Psych Saturday: Concert or CacophonyIt was one of those weeks. I started with several new clients and a full schedule of...
04/18/2026

Psych Saturday: Concert or Cacophony

It was one of those weeks. I started with several new clients and a full schedule of business meetings. My head was buzzing as I reflected on ongoing work and new insights. I oversaw a small home project, opened the pool, and waited, not so patiently, to hear if my mare, Nubble, has recovered from her recent lameness. All of this while keeping up with daily life: relationships, cooking, cleaning, laundry, and of course, the gym.

This morning, around sunrise, I stepped onto the front porch to write. I was immediately struck by birdsong. Not just one or two, but what felt like dozens. Robins, blue jays, cardinals, catbirds, wrens. Even a yellow-rumped warbler, according to my bird app. Each distinct. Each greeting the day with strength and clarity.

It was a beautiful moment. Not because of its nature, but because of how I received it. There are times when I feel settled, filled with the steady energy that comes from purpose and gratitude. In those moments, the fullness of life feels rich and textured. The birds sound like a concert, something to take in and appreciate.

There are also times when I am mentally tired and emotionally raw, when my bucket is full and close to spilling over. In those moments, the same chorus can feel overwhelming. Too much, all at once. I want to retreat to a quiet corner, away from the stimulation. The same birds, the same songs, but now it feels like noise.

I came across a post this week from a rider asking for tips to manage show nerves. It struck me that the answer is not just a technique to get through the moment, though it helps to have a few tools ready. The real work is in increasing the size of the bucket. When we build capacity, grow resilience, stay grounded in supportive relationships, both equine and human, and stay connected to our purpose, we change how we experience pressure. What once felt like threat begins to feel like challenge. What once felt overwhelming can become something rich and engaging.

Here is to building the grounded resilience we need to appreciate the fullness of our lives.
~ Paul

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04/17/2026

Who’s who around the farm, March throwback.

04/15/2026

I’ve always heard “failure is not an option” and taken it to mean… you have to get it right. Right NOW.
For me, that usually just turns into more intensity. More trying to make something happen.
But I’m starting to see I can keep the intensity, just use it better.
Being able to step back within it, break things down,
and build it in a way the horse actually understands.
That felt like a shift for me: using that intensity in a way that works better for my horse.
~ Justin

04/14/2026

Letting go doesn’t just happen at the end, it shows up again and again throughout the process.
When you care deeply, there is always a pull to step in, but often the real work is to step back and leave space for them to find their own way forward.

What are your intentions for the week??
04/13/2026

What are your intentions for the week??

04/12/2026

A recent clinic with Rebecca Algar gave me a really useful perspective.
It felt like a show, but I could still circle, reset, and go again.
So instead of trying to get rid of the intensity I feel when I compete,
I could actually practice inside it.
Ride as if it matters,
but still have the space to fix things.
That middle ground was a big takeaway for me.

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