Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

Psych Saturday(On Sunday): Fly on Your OwnOne of the bittersweet parts of my job is when my clients no longer need me. I...
03/15/2026

Psych Saturday(On Sunday): Fly on Your Own

One of the bittersweet parts of my job is when my clients no longer need me. It is that moment when someone feels confident and resourced enough to strike out on their own. Whether it comes after a few sessions or a few years, it fills me with deep satisfaction. At the same time, there is always a quiet sense of loss.

I care deeply about my clients and I invest fully in helping them achieve the goals they set for themselves. In the process of supporting, guiding, and mentoring them through their challenges, we build a strong and trusting relationship. I get to know them in a deeply personal way. Because of that, when the time comes for them to move forward on their own, it can be hard to let go.

The “letting go” is not something that only happens at the end. Often it is an ongoing challenge throughout the process. When you care deeply, there are moments when you want to control the choices your client makes, if only to help them avoid pain you can see coming. I certainly have my own “Papa Bear” moments. When they arise, I try to notice them, acknowledge them, and then return to supporting my clients in a way that respects their responsibility for themselves and their choices.

It does not matter whether you are a therapist, a mental coach, a trainer, or a riding instructor. Our role is to guide in a way that builds real independence and genuine self confidence. This does not mean pushing people off a cliff to see if they can fly. It means helping them grow the knowledge, skill, experience, resilience, and belief in themselves that they need to succeed. Along the way, we give them opportunities to test their wings.

There are times when my clients feel frightened, anxious, or uncertain. There are moments when hope feels distant and change seems hard to believe in. In those moments it can be tempting to jump in and fix things for them. Instead, I often invite them to borrow my belief in them and in the possibility of change. That belief is not built on blind optimism. It is grounded in decades of experience and hard work standing beside people as they find their path forward.

This is how we help our clients unfurl their wings.

And eventually, fly on their own. ~ Paul Haefner

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03/15/2026

Pippa Callanan is back with us next weekend - Friday March 20-Sunday 22.
Pippa’s training have made a significant difference to Justin and Kola’s development and we’d love to share the experience with you.
Auditor places available, which includes a ‘Lunch and Learn’ with Triple Crown Nutritionist Karen Engel on Sat 21.
Sign up link in the Facebook Event located on our profile!

Clipping season is here and the weather is not cooperating … So thank you to Another Turn Tack for having all the necess...
03/13/2026

Clipping season is here and the weather is not cooperating … So thank you to Another Turn Tack for having all the necessary sheets and blankets to outfit Kolas and Artie’s new wardrobe! Now they’ll have no trouble staying cozy and dry until the warmer weather is here to stay.

Another Turn Tack & Apparel

03/12/2026

✨ Pippa Callanan at Riding Far ✨
Rider spots are full but auditor spots are open!

Come watch, learn, and be part of the clinic.

Signup using the link in our event, located on our events on our profile!

03/11/2026

Our work must be in the absolute best interest of horse, but it doesn’t mean we throw out effectiveness or discount profit. Change happens in the practical middle ground.

It has been ten days since we returned from the 2026 Horses and Humans Research Foundation Conference. I don’t think we ...
03/11/2026

It has been ten days since we returned from the 2026 Horses and Humans Research Foundation Conference. I don’t think we can add much to the sentiments that have already been generously shared by so many participants: gratitude, connection, community, shared passion, science, and research—all in service of the welfare of the horse and the positive relationships between humans and horses.

So often when we attend an inspiring event, we leave on a high. Yet no matter how genuine our intentions to carry that energy forward, it often fades as we return to the day-to-day rhythms of our “real” lives. The remarkable thing about this conference is that it feels less like a fleeting spark and more like an enduring flame.

During the conference, I heard several people say it was the best one they had ever attended. Perhaps that was because of the presenters, the breadth of interests and perspectives represented, or the enthusiasm and curiosity of the participants themselves. But I suspect what will ultimately make this the best conference we have attended is something deeper. Unlike so many other events, the spirit of this conference continues to burn brightly even after we have returned home.

And if I’m right, this flame will be an attractor for all those who care about securing a compassionate, ethical, and mutually beneficial future for horse–human relationships in all their forms.

Pebbles Turbeville Molly Sweeney Justin Haefner Hoof Falls & Footfalls Empress Stables & Sanctuary Kate Lewis Equus Salutis Carol Searles Wood Young Morgan Wood Jamison Gloria Wood Williams

03/10/2026

Pippa Callanan is coming to Riding Far ✨

Rider spots are full, but auditor spaces are still available!
Come watch 3 days of classical dressage, horsemanship, and thoughtful training.

Signup using the event link on our profile!

03/09/2026

What is gentle and effective must agree with the horse’s nature. The combination is powerful…

What are your intentions this week?
03/09/2026

What are your intentions this week?

03/09/2026

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