Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife I am an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology

Conflict is a natural outgrowth of two people trying to forge a life together and it presents a remarkable opportunity f...
12/27/2025

Conflict is a natural outgrowth of two people trying to forge a life together and it presents a remarkable opportunity for growth if we allow it.

When we disagree with our spouse, we often go to behaviors that lead to hurt and frustration rather than making a concerted effort to engage often counter-intuitive, but more productive and collaborative responses.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Strengthening Your Relationship workshop is an absolute masterclass for learning how to navigate times of crisis and conflict in ways that will strengthen your relationship, not erode it.

In the workshop, you’ll learn how to:

💫 Communicate effectively in the face of conflict

💫 Create more peace and intimacy in your relationship

💫 Bring more honesty and integrity to your spouse

💫 See the part you play in the difficult dynamics in your marriage, and learn what you can do to create something better

https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd/1960937

We have some limited scholarship funding available, so if you would like to join but finances are standing in the way, email office@finlayson-fife.com for details!

It's not too late to give the perfect gift (but it almost is)!Any of these life-changing gifts can be scheduled for Chri...
12/24/2025

It's not too late to give the perfect gift (but it almost is)!

Any of these life-changing gifts can be scheduled for Christmas morning delivery:

Full-length courses (20% OFF): www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

Room for Two (SAVE $18 on first year subscriptions with code JOLLY): https://www.finlayson-fife.com/coaching/room-for-two

That We Might Have Joy (get the audiobook or ebook!): https://amzn.to/4sb6Vrh

Be sure to check the "gift to another household" box to schedule your gift for Christmas delivery!

If you've been tossing and turning, replaying the same arguments, feeling like roommates instead of partners, wondering ...
12/23/2025

If you've been tossing and turning, replaying the same arguments, feeling like roommates instead of partners, wondering if things will ever change...you're not alone.

Those sleepless nights are trying to tell you something.

Dr. Jennifer’s courses were designed to help you get to the root of what’s keeping you up. Whether it's resentment, disconnection, mismatched desire, or broken trust, these courses will give you the tools to address the heart of the issue and create more ease and connection with your partner.

"Our marriage is more loving and intimate, and you and your course were a huge part of helping me find the correct path to make that happen."

There may still be some tossing and turning, of course—but this time for all the RIGHT reasons.

www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

JFF has a gift—she hears what couples aren’t saying.And when you listen to Room for Two, you’ll start to hear it too.htt...
12/23/2025

JFF has a gift—she hears what couples aren’t saying.

And when you listen to Room for Two, you’ll start to hear it too.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/coaching/room-for-two (SAVE $18 on your first year with code JOLLY)

You’ll hear her cut through the surface arguments to the real issues underneath.

You’ll listen as she addresses what’s actually happening in a relationship—not just what the couple thinks is happening.

And because it’s not your relationship under the microscope, you’ll actually be able to take it in.

That’s the beauty of it.

When we’re not the ones in the hot seat—not as defensive, not as exposed—we can finally hear what we’ve been missing in our own relationships.

Room for Two listeners get access to the same wisdom, clarity, and insight Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers couples in her practice—at a fraction of the price.

So if you’re ready to start hearing what’s really happening in your relationship—and see it through her eyes—it’s time to subscribe.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/coaching/room-for-two

12/22/2025

This isn't just a sale, it's a turning point.

It's the moment you decide between staying stuck in your "before" or taking the first step towards a promising after.

During our CHRISTMAS SALE all of Dr. Jennifer's full-length courses are 20% off, plus you’ll unlock an extra discount when you buy two or more!

www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

Final Hours to SAVE $200 on all stateside workshops and retreats! https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephdIf you'v...
12/21/2025

Final Hours to SAVE $200 on all stateside workshops and retreats!

https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd

If you've been thinking about attending but haven't made it happen yet, now is the time. Time to prioritize the growth you've been wanting. Time to invest in yourself and your marriage. Time to stop waiting for that ever-elusive “someday.”

And time to save $200 while you're at it!

Will there be other event sales? Probably. But THIS IS THE DEEPEST discount that we will offer, so don't miss it!

https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd

Finances standing in the way? Email office@finlayson-fife.com to learn more about our scholarship program.

12/20/2025

A loving relationship isn’t something you have, it’s something that you do.

Love is moment-to-moment practice...
and it isn’t always a given in marriage.

People get married all the time who haven’t yet learned how to love.

If you aren’t feeling loved in your relationship, or if you know in your core that you aren’t loving your spouse well, it’s time to enroll in Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Strengthening Your Relationship course—it’s a masterclass in living well.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/courses/course/strengthening-your-relationship

In the course, you’ll learn that real love doesn’t always feel good.

You’ll learn how to love your spouse, even when they disappoint you.

You’ll learn how to handle yourself more maturely during times of conflict.

You’ll learn how to bring more honesty to your communication.

After all, the measure of a marriage isn’t how we handle ourselves when things are going right, it’s how we show up when times are challenging.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/courses/course/strengthening-your-relationship

or SAVE $200 on the in-person Strengthening Your Relationship workshop!

https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd/1960937

Conflict, heartbreaks, and disillusionments can shake our faith in marriage. But our struggles are not signs of failure,...
12/19/2025

Conflict, heartbreaks, and disillusionments can shake our faith in marriage. But our struggles are not signs of failure, they are part of the soul work we are here for. Marriage can refine our souls, but it requires our willingness to rise above our self-justifications—it requires our faith.

This isn’t just challenging work, it’s sacred work.

And Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s book, courses, and events are the perfect guidebooks to help along the way.

So order the book (you can still get it in time for Christmas): https://amzn.to/4p8l31L

Order a course or two (while they are on SALE): www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

Or join us in 2026 (and SAVE $200 on stateside workshops and retreats with code JFF2026): https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd

Another silent night? Another…awkward night?Another day when everything seemed calm, but everything was not right?If res...
12/18/2025

Another silent night? Another…awkward night?

Another day when everything seemed calm, but everything was not right?

If resentment and frustration are simmering just under the surface…

If the spark has faded or been snuffed out entirely…

If your spouse feels more like a stranger than a soulmate…

It’s time to enroll in one of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s online courses for couples.

During our CHRISTMAS SALE all full-length courses are 20% off, plus you’ll unlock an extra discount when you buy two or more!

www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

12/18/2025

Marriage is a choice, not a prison.

Desire only thrives in freedom—when we feel true to ourselves, at ease in our own skin, and at peace with how we are showing up in our lives.

In this powerful episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife unpacks why women so often struggle with desire and and what they can do to cultivate a sexual relationship that feels alive and worth wanting.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/when-desire-difficult-and-what-do-about-it-q-dr-jennifer

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Dr. Finlayson-Fife

Jennifer Finlayson-Fife grew up in Burlington, Vermont as one of eight children. She studied Psychology and Women’s Studies at Brigham Young University, and went on to receive her Masters and PhD in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. She has a private practice in Chicago, IL where she works primarily with LDS couples on relational and sexual issues. She is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts, and has written articles for LDS-themed magazines and blogs on the subjects of sexuality and modesty as well as mental health and faith. She is married to John Finlayson-Fife and has three wonderful children.