10/07/2025
Obligatory "I got married" post... literally over a month too late.
Sorry not sorry for being quiet for way too long. I and my husband (God it feels great to say that!) navigated a lot over the past couple years together, and at times most of my focus was on making sure his health was good, my health was good, and that we could present ourselves as husband and wife to a group of people that love us so damn much.
There's a lot I want to share about my wedding, but the cliff notes is: I adapted it to how I wanted to, and my friends declared my FIL a National Treasure. (He absolutely is by the way
We planned a wedding on hard mode because guess what? Neither of us ever thought we'd be the people to ever get married! With me literally touching most people that consent to it (because it's been my job for nearly 10 years), my husband dealing with his own myriad of mental health struggles (but somehow still managing to be my emotional rock despite that), both of us thought we were destined for a life alone. All my bridesmaids were married before me-- I AM the 27 Dresses Girl in my friend group.
But we still did it because one thing I try to drive into every person I meet, even in a small way, is to figure it out-- because we always do. It was stressful, there were tears, I wanted to scream my head off and give into the Bridezilla energy that called me into the abyss (somehow, my business prevented me from doing so... That's a whole different story for another time). But we did it, we took off into the Sunset that is Arizona and Sedona, and I felt every fiber of my being pulse with happiness because I was SO happy to be with my person that I can't wait to create a life worth living together with!
This is all to say: I'm still me. I'm still seeing clients. I'm back and my husband is as supportive as he was from day one (which is: he finds opportunities to tell everyone he meets because he loves me). And I love the s**t out of him for supporting me as I support others.
