Upstate Mary

11/27/2025

Before we slip into the holiday haze of pie, pajamas, and people we love, we wanted to take a moment to tell you how grateful we are for you.

Creating Upstate Mary has been a wild, beautiful ride — rooted in real life, real bodies, real healing, and the belief that pleasure, comfort, and connection are essentials — not extras.

None of this would exist without our community — you show up, cheer us on, and make space for a little more joy in your lives. Whether you’ve been here since the early days or just joined the adventure, your presence means more than you know.

As you head into the holiday, we hope you find moments to breathe, rest, laugh, and connect with the people you love. Thank you for inviting us into your routines, your bedrooms, and your wellness rituals. It’s an honor to be part of your journey back to yourself.

With gratitude (and a whole lot of love),
Melissa, Michelle and the Upstate Mary team

P.S. Our entire site is 50% off — a little holiday treat from us to you.

Happy Thanksgiving! 🧡 ✨

10/13/2025

✨ We’re on the O List! ✨

Our Friday Arousal Oil was featured in article and newsletter on pleasure, comfort and intimacy in midlife and beyond. 💫

Dr. Shannon Chavez () shared her top expert picks for supporting hydration, ease, and arousal through menopause — and we’re so honored that Friday made the list alongside other brilliant brands.

Menopause and hormonal shifts can change how we experience desire, but that doesn’t mean pleasure has to fade. Formulated with full spectrum CBD, Friday supports hydration, increase blood flow and enhance pleasure — helping you stay connected to your body.

This recognition is so much more than a spotlight. It’s another step toward normalizing conversations around pleasure, aging, and wellness — and we’re proud to be part of it.

Thank you and for highlighting that intimacy is wellness at every age. 👏❤️🙌

07/17/2025

Let’s get WILD! 🦁🦒🐅 WILDCAT, our very first cann@bis-infused s*x oil has arrived, and it amps up your pleasure: 

✅ Enhances sensitivity

✅ Increases blood flow

✅ Relaxes pelvic muscles

✅ Reduces anxiety

We’re launching in dispensaries across New York. Love our products? Ask for us at your favorite NYS licensed dispensary! Get all the deets

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07/16/2025

Fact: Taking a trip with your partner can improve your relationship. (In case you needed a reason to book that trip). Here’s what to pack for more pleasure. Check out latest on the blog now

04/22/2025

Pleasure for the planet and our Earth Day promise 🌎 🌱 Our commitment to sustainability goes beyond product design. We are working diligently to reduce our footprint to create a circular economy for feel-good products you can really feel good about. Discover how. Dive into the latest blog post. 🔗 ⬆️

03/05/2025

01/24/2025

Intimacy check ✔️ Take it to the next level, naturally. Give yourself a boost with our favorite wonder ingredient: CBD 🌱
Check out the latest on our blog 🔗⬆️

01/24/2025

Let’s talk about s*x, baby 💋 But really, it can help improve your relationship and lead to better s*x. Check out how to get started 🔗⬆️

01/18/2025

Go ahead, put it on the calendar 📅 We’re talking about scheduling those intimate moments. Head over to our blog to discover 5 ways to take your next scheduled pleasure sesh to new heights

01/18/2025

Toys are a $15 billion a year industry 💵 And yet, there are still LOTS of myths and misconceptions about toys for the bedroom. Check out the blog for more 🔗⬆️

12/20/2024

Does CBD *really* help with anxiety? We have the answer on our blog at

12/15/2024

Last minute gifts with lots of s*x appeal? We’ve got you! Read our guide for perfectly pleasurable presents. Show me the gifts 🎁🙌