The Lighthouse Bulb LLC

12/22/2025

Vulnerability is not weakness.
It has never been.

Vulnerability is strength in its purest form. It’s the courage to tell the truth even when your voice trembles. It’s choosing honesty over pretending, and authenticity over emotional armor. It’s showing up as you are—without guarantees, without rehearsed perfection.

Let me remind you of this:
The right people do not run when you open your heart. They don’t minimize your feelings or punish your honesty. They lean in. They listen. They hold space. They stay. And together, you repair what feels tender instead of ignoring it.

If being honest costs you a connection, then that connection was never emotionally safe to begin with. Love, friendship, and partnership should not require silence, shrinking, or self-betrayal to survive.

Many of us stay quiet not because we lack the words—but because we fear the outcome. Yet silence slowly erodes intimacy, trust, and self-worth. Vulnerability isn’t the real risk. Staying silent is.

Save this as your reminder.
You are allowed to be seen.
You are allowed to be heard.
You are allowed to tell the truth.

And if you’re ready to unlearn fear-based patterns and build emotionally safe relationships, I’m here to walk that journey with you.

Click the link in my bio to book a 1-on-1 session.

12/19/2025

These words aren't mine, but the sentiment is. I can't tag Rebecca James on this page, but she's got may gratitude for sharing the post.... Truth be told...this one's for the masculines...Read it through to the end, or not at all...

So my earlier clap back post clearly touched a nerve. 🔥
Now I’ve got a queue of men in the comments telling me i need healing. Okay i behaved this time and quietly deleted them but i have to just say again to these men what seemed so triggered by a woman speaking their soul truth. 😭😏😂
So let me get this straight… A woman stands in her soul truth, speaks her lived experience, owns her voice, and suddenly every unhealed man becomes a certified trauma therapist? 🤪
It’s giving: “Your power makes me uncomfortable so I’m going to call it unhealed.”
It’s giving: “I can’t access that level of embodiment so you must be broken.”
It’s giving: “You’re too loud, too direct, too sovereign… so I’m gonna project.”
Honestly, it’s hilarious. Not offensive. Just predictable. Because every time a woman rises in her truth, the first ones to panic are the men still hiding from themselves and their abandoned inner child. Anyway… bless your triggered little hearts. Healing is needed. Just not over here The divine feminine isn’t bitter or needs any more healing. Shes aligned. Reclaimed. Risen. And walking in a truth no man can silence ever again. 😏
PS: We would happily help with your shadow work if you were capable of even being vulnerable enough and facing yourselves the way we did. 💋
And to the healed masculines who show up and hear our truth maybe you could show them the way. Or maybe it’s your turn to lead. Because the feminines? We’re good. We rose. It’s your turn now. ✨

12/16/2025

Sometimes the problem isn’t life.
It’s you overthinking a handle.

12/15/2025