04/04/2022
Let me start by saying this title may be slightly misleading - there’s no ‘one size fits all’ job description for a postpartum doula. The offering of every doula differs slightly, and every motherhood journey is different. I’ve trained thousands of professional postpartum carers, and it always surprises me how different they all are!
Technicalities aside, the overarching purpose of a postpartum doula is to help women step into the role of ‘new mother’ with confidence and satisfaction. As non-medical professionals, we provide emotional and physical support during this life-changing transition.
If you’re curious about becoming a postpartum doula, let’s delve deeper into what this job title actually means.
Doulas Versus Postpartum Doulas
I typically get one of two responses when I say I’m a doula: people either have never heard of the word before and say, “Oh, a jeweller! How Lovely.” Or they ask, “How many births have you been to?” I don’t make jewellery and I’ve never been to a birth.
It’s safe to say many people are still unfamiliar with the work doulas do - let alone the different types of doulas that exist!
As the name suggests, a postpartum doula accompanies the mother after the birth of the child. We work alongside women after childbirth, supporting them to navigate this new stage of life. I also like to refer to postpartum doulas as ‘postpartum support professionals’ or simply ‘postpartum professionals’. You can also switch out the word postpartum for postnatal and it means the same thing.
A postpartum doula differs from a birth doula, who provides support and assistance before and during labour and childbirth. There are also doulas for death, abortion, grief and loss.
What Does A Postpartum Doula Do?
How long is a piece of string? The work of a postpartum professional is varied and fluid, making it all the more magical. Their sole purpose is to support women during the motherhood journey; some like to say that doulas’ mother the mother’.
In the past community would come together to support new mothers. Now we live in nuclear families and culturally don’t have much understanding of women’s needs after childbirth. Sadly many new parents feel isolated, overwhelmed and exhausted.
We support new parents to bond with their baby and spend time together. We help parents deeply understand their child’s personality and temperament and feel confident in their unique parenting style. We provide companionship and emotional support to mothers by actively listening, providing a shoulder to cry on, and simply sharing a cup of tea and laughter.
Emotional support is a given with every visit and the number of sessions varies depending on the mother’s needs. Some postpartum professionals visit for a few hours during the day, whilst others work overnight.
Branching out beyond emotional support, a postpartum support professional helps navigate parenting decisions by providing evidence-based information about basic baby care and normal breastfeeding. Of course, we will always make referrals where appropriate, preventing longer-term problems. An excellent postpartum doula will have a ‘little black book’ of resources, professionals, and hotlines to ensure families get timely and accurate support,
Postpartum support affects not only the mother and baby, but the whole family. Having a baby is a big transition for everyone, from partners to siblings and extended family. A postpartum professional is well-versed in navigating family dynamics and will use this understanding to support positive communication. A postpartum doula can also assist if the mother needs help setting boundaries or managing visitors.
We also seek to create sustainable support systems around the mother; after all, an entire community would come together to support new mothers in the past. Nowadays, we can try our best to recreate this magic and build a community by connecting the new parent with fellow families, classes and groups. It takes a village to raise a mother, and part of our job as postpartum doulas is to build the villages we’ve lost.
A Look into a Postpartum Professional’s Job Description
There are many facets to a postpartum professional’s role. After all, our purpose is to bring comfort and joy to new mothers, and this can look different for everyone.
For example, some doula services include massage, breastfeeding support, baby massage instruction, food preparation, and building your ‘village,’ to name a few. I like to think of a buffet - various services are available depending on the client and how she’s feeling on any given day. One client might want her doula to cook loads of food, but another will be better supported with a massage. Some clients will want both, and others will want one thing on one day and a different thing on the next! We do what brings our clients peace and joy...
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