01/04/2023
What makes up a positive birth experience?
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1. Private
2. Safe
3. Unobserved
A. conducting myself (or yourself) within a birth space (and only if you've been invited in... if you haven't been invited, then you have violated the first 3 rules so, back out of the birth space in a low slow and quiet manner)
B. Low: when in a birth space, make every attempt to not hover over the top or above the birthing person. Get down to their eye level or below. It helps to remind you and hopefully them that they have the power in the space and allows for eye contact and respectful engagement.
C. Slow: avoid rushing around the birth space. Keep movement of your body slow and purposeful.
Unnecessary shuffling and racing about the birth space is distracting.
4. Quiet: keep your voice to low tones, quiet and unobtrusive so as not to break the birth space with noise. Avoid adding any noise to the space that is not absolutely needed. Before speaking ask yourself,
'would my words right now be beneficial?” and if not, you don't need to say them.
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✨Physiology-
Is fluid, not static. It Can change INSTANTLY. It’s affected by your environment, influenced by stress and anxiety, and is guided by your thoughts and feelings. Understanding physiology is the key to a positive birth experience.
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When you understand HOW all these things affect your physiology and influence labor pain, you integrate with your body. You trust your body, you are present with your body, for the good and the bad. Birth is no longer a scary task, but something you can feel confident and capable of!
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