11/17/2025
Three days after my hysterectomy, when a simple lift from bed sent waves of pain through my body, I shuffled into the kitchen, my arms gripping the counter for balance. Each movement felt like a reminder of my own fragility. I imagined a steaming mug of tea awaiting me, perhaps a note of encouragement from my husband.
Instead, a single sheet of paper was taped to the fridge.
At first I mistook it for a grocery list, but as I leaned in, my breath caught.
It was a bill.
âITEMIZED COSTS OF CARRYING YOUâPLEASE REIMBURSE PROMPTLY.â
In his tidy block letters, it seemed like it came straight from a financial officeânot from the man Iâd been married to for seven years.
My vision blurred as I read each line:
- Hospital rides: $120
- Daily assistance with shower and dress: $75
- Prepared meals (incl. soup): $50 per dish
- Prescription pickups: $60
- Extra laundry for âyour conditionâ: $100
- Sleepless nights over your pain: $200 flat
- Missed poker nights with friends: $300
- Emotional support: $500
At the bottom, circled in red:
Total Due: $2,105
My knees threatened to give. I clutched the fridge handle to stay upright.
This was no joke. It wasnât a cruel prank. It was his own handwriting, his voice in my mind, cold and calculating, tallying the âcostâ of my suffering.
I had trusted him to love me âin sickness and in health.â Here I was, wounded and patched, reduced to a price tag.
That moment, I resolved to give him a lesson he would never forgetâan honest revelation of the true cost of undervaluing me.