Triune C - Counseling, Consulting and Coaching

Triune C - Counseling, Consulting and Coaching 1) Be Prepared because Life is Difficult
2) Difficulties are Opportunities
3) Opportunities Lost Breeds Relapse Life is Difficult...Be Prepared!

Whether as a therapist, pastor, or coach, or as a or as a servant, leader, or mentor, or as a husband, father, or friend, if there is one thing that life has taught me, it is that life is difficult. The front row seat I’ve been given over nearly thirty years in the helping professions has taught me that:

1) Life is Difficult
2) Difficulties are Opportunities
3) Opportunities Lost Breeds Relapse

Whether helping an individual embrace hope, a family and marriage reconcile, a pastor and congregation revitalize, or a manager and team prosper, the adventure has been challenging, fascinating and fruitful. When I served families and youth who’ve been through nightmares that cause our heads to hang in disbelief, I learned how imperative it is to have hope, perseverance, and unconditional, nonjudgmental love. When I was in the midst of intellectual giants at Princeton Theological Seminary, I learned the difference between the Greek concept of education, which is growing in knowledge, and the Hebrew concept, which is growing in application of knowledge. When I served several churches, all of which had marked success despite trends to the contrary and the fact that they move excruciatingly slow, I learned that courage, integrity and character are vital leadership. When I served the Pittsburgh Leadership Foundation I spent more time on the top floors of downtowns tallest buildings than in my office. It became clear that those who’ve achieved the kind success dreams are made of were not immune to the loneliness, emotional pain, and despair of humankinds darkest hours. All of this (My graduate or professional and life education) has gifted me with the ability to have compassion on the deepest most intimate levels for understand, to engage, the common thread of our lives. Whether it’s our dreams or nightmares, our goals or apathies, our successes or breakdowns, this we know, the sooner we release the bad, the sooner we can build on the good, the sooner we can replicate it and spread it to others, and the sooner we remove the bandages from our wounds, the sooner we can get back in the game and smile that contagious smile again and again, and again. As a high profile individual you require the highest levels of confidentiality, efficiency and intimacy; Triune C meets these needs through Video Conferencing meetings, which are exclusively private, scientifically validated, and relationally detailed. No longer do you have to sneak out over your lunch break, rush across town, and worry about being seen. Wherever you are, your office, your home, a hotel, we will meet your counseling, consulting or coaching needs in the comfort and convenience of your personal environment. Please make the time to check us out. We look forward to working with you. Triune C Video Conferencing Can Benefit You If:
-You are a CEO, Doctor, Lawyer,… who Needs Total Anonymity.
-You are a Celebrity, Politician, High Profile individual, who Requires Privacy.
-You are an On The Rise Senior Exec, VP, Professor,… whose time is too valuable to spend 15 minutes driving to and from a meeting.
-You want Fast, Convenient, Flexible and Discreet Availability.
-You Can’t Wait for Weeks for an Appointment.
-You Live in a Rural Area.
-You Can’t Drive and Don’t have Transportation to an Office.
-You Want to Talk Privately in your Home, Car, Park, Office….
-You Don’t Have Childcare.
-You are Differently-Abled.
-You Are Homebound.
-You Want Something That Works.

May you be safe and protected from inner and outer harm. May you be happy and contented. May you be healthy and whole to...
12/08/2025

May you be safe and protected from inner and outer harm.
May you be happy and contented.
May you be healthy and whole to whatever extent possible.
May you have ease of wellbeing.

This season, may we slow down, look closer, and love deeper. A nice word, a small kindness, a moment of grace… it all matters. Let’s be the light that helps someone else find their way back to hope. 💛

Truth
12/05/2025

Truth

You are universally unique
12/01/2025

You are universally unique

There is only one person in the whole world just like you!

When life gets turbulent, it’s easy to hide—pull the shades, binge someone else’s story, bury yourself in catalogs and c...
11/25/2025

When life gets turbulent, it’s easy to hide—pull the shades, binge someone else’s story, bury yourself in catalogs and comfort food. Some even use church as an escape hatch. But we’re not here for spiritual hot chocolate. We’re here for the kind of truth we can’t get anywhere else—truth that may be hard to hear, but might just save our lives.

When the turbulence gets really bad, it’s tempting to retire from as much reality as you can. You know how it works. Lower the room-darkening shades and settle in for a full season of some world other than your own on your giant screen. Cover the bed with mail-order catalogs and empty pizza boxes. Do anything that works to take your mind off what’s really going on. Some people even use church to take their minds off reality, but none of us have come here for hot chocolate this morning. We have come for a kind of truth we’re not getting anywhere else in our lives, and as hard as it may sometimes be to hear, it may save our lives.

Everybody hurts is not cliche, it's truth. Those of us who've walked that road, can help your journey. TRAUMA SAYS:I hav...
11/17/2025

Everybody hurts is not cliche, it's truth. Those of us who've walked that road, can help your journey.

TRAUMA SAYS:
I have to explain everything so no one misunderstands me or gets upset.
Because once, silence was danger. A wrong tone, a delayed response, even an innocent question could ignite conflict I never saw coming. Trauma taught me to over-explain as protection—an armor built from apologies, clarifications, and justifications.
I learned to scan every expression, every pause, every shift in someone’s voice, searching for signs that I had done something wrong. I carried the weight of other people’s reactions as if they were my responsibility. I rehearsed my words, minimized my needs, and believed that keeping the peace meant shrinking myself.

HEALING SAYS:
I will no longer explain myself out of fear.
How someone interprets my truth belongs to them. The right people will ask, not assume. Healing reminds me that communication doesn’t have to be a performance or a survival strategy—it can be a grounded, respectful exchange.
I am not responsible for managing someone else’s emotions or expectations. My sincerity is enough. My needs are valid without a speech. My boundaries stand even if they disappoint.

Healing whispers that emotionally mature people don’t demand explanations to feel safe. They meet me with curiosity, not suspicion; with space, not pressure. With them, I don’t have to shrink, over-talk, or defend my existence. I can simply be.

Misunderstandings aren’t threats—they’re part of being human. The right people will lean in to resolve them, not weaponize them.

Most of all, healing invites me to trust my voice again—to speak from truth instead of fear, to share without performing, and to let authenticity take the place of anxiety.




It made me exhaustingly empathetic.

  with it.     to others starts with yourself.
11/14/2025

with it. to others starts with yourself.

  Matters
11/08/2025

Matters

11/07/2025


It’s ok to not be ok
10/25/2025

It’s ok to not be ok

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