Jennifer Mann

Jennifer Mann Co-Founder of Somia, a Nervous System Healing platform and bestelling Author.

When people try to heal on their own, they often assume the issue is effort.They think they don't have enough discipline...
15/01/2026

When people try to heal on their own, they often assume the issue is effort.

They think they don't have enough discipline, consistency or. Not enough willpower.

But what’s usually missing isn’t effort at all. It’s the conditions the nervous system actually needs in order to change.

Many chronic symptoms develop after years of being the one who manages, contains, copes, and holds everything together. You learn to rely on yourself because you have to. Over time, that becomes normal. Even admirable. Until your body starts to push back.

Symptoms are feedback. A system that has been carrying too much without enough support eventually reaches a limit.

Lasting change comes from giving the nervous system repeated experiences that tell it something has shifted. That it no longer has to stay on high alert to keep things functioning.

This is why healing often feels confusing when you’re doing everything “right” but nothing is changing. You can’t reason your way out of patterns that were learned through experience. The system updates through experience too.

When safety becomes something you encounter regularly rather than something you chase, the body starts to respond differently.

If this resonates, follow along. I share grounded, science-backed insights on nervous system regulation, chronic symptoms, and what actually supports real change when a system has been carrying too much for too long.

This line comes from my wonderful friend Perry , and it perfectly captures something so many people feel but don’t yet h...
14/01/2026

This line comes from my wonderful friend Perry , and it perfectly captures something so many people feel but don’t yet have language for.

Your nervous system is not just an abstract concept. It’s your body’s safety system. It’s constantly asking, Am I safe here? Can I relax? Do I need to stay on guard? And it answers those questions through sensation, tension, fatigue, pain, anxiety, and shutdown.

When you spend time with people who chronically dismiss you, rush you, invalidate your experience, cross your boundaries, or require you to perform to be accepted, your nervous system notices. Even if your mind tries to rationalize it. Even if you tell yourself you’re “overreacting.” Your body reads the cues long before your thoughts catch up.

We are human beings, not machines built to endure everything without consequence. Your system isn’t meant to be available to every demand, every relationship, every environment. Access is earned through consistency, safety, and respect, not obligation.

For many people living with chronic symptoms, the body has been signaling this truth for years. Tension, gut issues, exhaustion, pain, and anxiety often show up in systems that never had permission to say, “This isn’t safe for me,” or “This costs me more than I can give.”

Boundaries aren’t just psychological. They’re biological. Each time you choose environments, conversations, and relationships that allow your body to soften, you’re giving your nervous system something it deeply needs, relief.

So if you’re learning to be more selective with your time, your energy, and your presence, you’re not becoming cold or difficult. You’re becoming attuned. You’re listening to a system that’s been trying to protect you all along.

If you’ve spent years trying to “fix” your digestion with protocols, supplements, or stricter rules around food, it can ...
13/01/2026

If you’ve spent years trying to “fix” your digestion with protocols, supplements, or stricter rules around food, it can be deeply confusing when nothing seems to hold, especially when the symptoms feel physical, persistent, and very real. What often gets missed is that the gut doesn’t exist in isolation. It is constantly responding to the state of the nervous system that regulates it.

When life has required you to stay alert, accommodating, strong, or emotionally contained for long stretches of time, the body adapts around that demand. Those adaptations don’t show up as a conscious stress response. They show up as subtle tension, vigilance, and a system that never fully settles. Over time, that state becomes familiar, even when it’s exhausting.

Digestive symptoms can be one of the first places this load surfaces, not because the gut is weak, but because it is highly sensitive to internal signals of safety and danger. When your system is busy managing unspoken pressure, unresolved emotion, or chronic overwhelm, digestion reflects that imbalance long before the mind catches up.

This isn’t about blaming stress or emotions for symptoms. It’s about understanding that the body organizes itself around what it has to carry. And when the load is finally acknowledged and addressed at the level it was learned, the system has room to calm.

You don’t need to become more disciplined or more perfect with your food. You need a body that feels supported enough to stop defending itself.

If this perspective feels familiar, follow along. I share how nervous system patterns shape digestion, symptoms, and healing in ways most people were never taught to see.

Speed is rewarded. Quick replies. Fast results. Constant availability. Pushing through exhaustion. Treating rest like a ...
12/01/2026

Speed is rewarded. Quick replies. Fast results. Constant availability. Pushing through exhaustion. Treating rest like a luxury instead of a requirement. None of this aligns with how the human body functions. Biology moves in rhythms. It needs cycles of activation and recovery. It needs pauses, digestion, sleep, and moments of safety to repair itself.

Your nervous system was never designed to operate at full output all the time. It evolved to respond to short bursts of stress followed by periods of rest. When stress becomes continuous, the system adapts by staying on. Over time, this isn’t resilience, it’s depletion.

What often gets labeled as “laziness,” “lack of discipline,” or “burnout” is actually biology pushing back against a pace it cannot sustain. Fatigue, anxiety, gut issues, brain fog, pain, and shutdown are signals that your system has been living outside its capacity for too long.

Slowing down doesn’t mean giving up or falling behind. It means creating conditions where your body can function as intended. Regulation, not pressure, is what allows creativity, focus, and energy to return. A regulated nervous system doesn’t move slower, it moves more efficiently, because it’s no longer wasting resources on constant threat detection.

If this perspective resonates, you’re not alone. There’s nothing wrong with you for struggling in a culture that ignores biology. Follow along here if you want to understand your nervous system better, learn how to work with your body, and reclaim a pace that supports real health and sustainability.

When symptoms return, it can feel like you’ve failed, like all the effort, awareness, or progress you’ve made somehow di...
11/01/2026

When symptoms return, it can feel like you’ve failed, like all the effort, awareness, or progress you’ve made somehow didn’t count. That shame isn’t coming from your body, it’s coming from the part of you that learned early on that being “better” was safer than being honest, that improvement earned approval, and that struggling meant you were doing something wrong.

But healing doesn’t move in a straight line. Nervous systems don’t work that way. They adapt, recalibrate, get overwhelmed, and then find their footing again. A flare isn’t a step backward, it’s information. It’s your system showing you where capacity is still building, where stress accumulated, or where something felt like too much, too fast.

Progress in healing often looks like noticing symptoms sooner, responding more gently, and recovering faster, not never having symptoms again. That’s regulation, not perfection.

So no, you don’t get a badge for never flaring. You get one for staying present, for listening, and for meeting your body with a little more understanding each time.

If this resonates, follow along. You're among friends.

When you’ve spent years pushing through every signal, every sigh of exhaustion, every tight muscle, every moment of over...
10/01/2026

When you’ve spent years pushing through every signal, every sigh of exhaustion, every tight muscle, every moment of overwhelm, your mind learns to treat those signals as background noise. You keep going because stopping feels unfamiliar, uncomfortable, or even unsafe. High-functioning survival becomes your baseline.

But your body never forgets. It keeps track of every moment you override its limits, every skipped pause, every swallowed feeling, every night you fall into bed depleted. And when the stress chemistry stays high for too long, your physiology steps in.

What feels like sudden symptoms (fatigue, pain, burnout, anxiety, migraines, gut issues) is often your body pulling the emergency brake. Not to punish you, but to save you. When your brain refuses to slow down, your body will do it for you.

This isn’t self-sabotage.
This is self-preservation.

The nervous system is designed to protect you long before it is designed to optimize you. If your mind has normalized a pace that your biology was never built to sustain, your body will intervene. It will tighten, slow, numb, or shut down because it’s communicating.

When you begin to reconnect with your body, through awareness, sensory practices, and small moments of safety, your system starts to shift.

Your body isn’t the barrier to your life.
It’s the part of you that’s been protecting you the longest.

Follow for more science-based tools on healing chronic stress patterns and rebuilding a healthier relationship with your body.

When unpredictability sends you into overwhelm, it’s not a character flaw or a lack of commitment. It’s physiology. A se...
09/01/2026

When unpredictability sends you into overwhelm, it’s not a character flaw or a lack of commitment. It’s physiology. A sensitized nervous system relies on predictability to feel safe. When plans change suddenly, expectations shift, or life throws something unexpected at you, your body can interpret that as threat, even if your mind knows it’s not a big deal.

For many people, this pattern develops after long periods of stress, instability, or environments where you had to stay alert and adapt quickly. Your system learned that being prepared was protective. So now, when things feel uncertain, your nervous system ramps up. You may cancel plans, freeze, or feel the urge to escape because your body is trying to reduce stimulation and regain a sense of control.

From the outside, it can look like inconsistency. On the inside, it feels like overload.

The important thing to understand is that this response is learned, and what’s learned can change. When the nervous system begins to experience safety in small, consistent ways, its tolerance for uncertainty grows and you stop feeling hijacked by every change in plan.

If this resonates, you’re not alone. Follow along to learn more about how the nervous system shapes these patterns, and how to gently build the capacity to handle life without constantly feeling overwhelmed.

When you’ve learned to keep the peace, stay agreeable, or prioritize everyone else’s needs, your body often carries the ...
08/01/2026

When you’ve learned to keep the peace, stay agreeable, or prioritize everyone else’s needs, your body often carries the cost. On the outside, you might look calm and capable. Inside, your nervous system is constantly scanning for how to keep things smooth, how to avoid conflict, and how to make sure no one is disappointed. That vigilance doesn’t stay in your head. It lives in your physiology.

The gut is especially sensitive to this kind of pressure. It’s deeply connected to the nervous system and responds quickly to stress signals. Every time you override your own needs, say yes when you mean no, or swallow what you’re really feeling, your body registers that as a lack of safety. Over time, that can feel like chronic tension, nausea, bloating, or that familiar knotted feeling in your stomach.

People-pleasing often begins early, when connection or approval felt essential for safety. Your system adapted by learning to stay attuned to others instead of yourself. That adaptation helped you then. But if it continues unchecked, your body never gets the message that it’s okay to relax. The nervous system stays braced, waiting for the next moment where you might have to abandon yourself again.

Healing starts with awareness. Noticing how your body reacts. Listening to those gut sensations as information, not inconvenience. They’re signals asking for honesty, pacing, and self-protection.

If you’re beginning to see how your symptoms connect to the way you move through the world, you’re not alone. This is where the real work begins.

Follow me for more conversations about the nervous system, boundaries, and learning how to come back into your body.

For so many people, those two ideas get tangled together. You’re told that if your symptoms are influenced by stress, tr...
07/01/2026

For so many people, those two ideas get tangled together. You’re told that if your symptoms are influenced by stress, trauma, or the nervous system, then you must be at fault. That interpretation alone keeps the body in defense.

Responsibility, in this context, simply means recognizing where change is possible now. Not because you failed before, but because your nervous system adapted to circumstances that were overwhelming at the time. Your body did exactly what it was designed to do to keep you going.

Healing begins when you stop trying to assign blame and start working with your physiology. When you understand how your nervous system learned to operate in survival, you can teach it new signals of safety. That’s not self-criticism. It’s self-leadership.

Inside the HEAL Live Intensive, we guide you through this process in a structured, supported way. You learn how to respond to symptoms without fear, how to interrupt old threat patterns, and how to help your body move out of protection and back into repair. This work supports people navigating chronic fatigue, pain, migraines, POTS, IBS, autoimmune conditions, long COVID, anxiety, and nervous system shutdown.

If you’ve been stuck between feeling responsible and feeling ashamed, this work helps untangle that knot. You need clarity, support, and the right tools.

This is the last 24 hours to join the HEAL Live Intensive before doors close.
There won't be another Live Intensive this year.

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Letting go of who you had to be is rarely comfortable because for most of you, that version of you was built in response...
06/01/2026

Letting go of who you had to be is rarely comfortable because for most of you, that version of you was built in response to pressure, responsibility, trauma, or the need to survive. It was the part that pushed through exhaustion, stayed composed when things were overwhelming, and kept functioning no matter what your body was feeling.

But those survival identities can become too costly to maintain. When your nervous system no longer has the capacity to hold that level of vigilance, symptoms begin to appear. Fatigue, pain, anxiety, gut issues, or shutdown are often the body’s way of saying that the old strategies no longer fit the life you’re in now.

The work of healing is about releasing patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck. When your nervous system learns that it no longer needs to operate in constant defense, the body can reorganize when you begin responding from your present reality rather than your past conditioning.

This is exactly what we focus on inside the HEAL Live Intensive. Over 12 weeks, we guide you through retraining the brain–body patterns that drive chronic symptoms. You don’t just learn concepts. You receive group coaching, nervous system guidance, and support as your system learns safety, regulation, and resilience again. This work supports people navigating chronic fatigue, pain, migraines, POTS, IBS, autoimmune symptoms, long COVID, anxiety, and nervous system shutdown.

If this message resonates, there are just 48 hours left to claim your spot in the HEAL Live Intensive, and there won’t be another opportunity to join until next year.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start living from a body that feels safe again, comment LIVE.

When symptoms don’t resolve, most people are told to manage them better, tolerate them longer, or accept them as permane...
05/01/2026

When symptoms don’t resolve, most people are told to manage them better, tolerate them longer, or accept them as permanent. What’s often missing is guidance that addresses why the body keeps producing them in the first place.

The HEAL Live Intensive is designed for people who are ready to stop guessing and start working with their physiology directly.

In this live, guided container, we help you identify the specific nervous system patterns that are keeping your symptoms online. You learn how your brain has been interpreting stress, threat, effort, and emotion, and how those interpretations have shaped pain, fatigue, inflammation, gut issues, anxiety, or shutdown over time.

What makes the Live Intensive different from self-guided programs is support and precision. You’re not just learning tools. You’re being coached through how and when to apply them, how to work with setbacks, and how to respond when symptoms spike instead of reacting with fear or force. This is how the nervous system learns safety at a deep, embodied level.

We work with people navigating CFS/ME, chronic pain, fibromyalgia, migraines, POTS, IBS, long COVID, Lyme, anxiety, brain fog, and burnout, especially those who feel stuck despite having “done all the right things.” The focus is not symptom suppression. It’s changing the conditions that make symptoms necessary.

When the brain no longer needs to use symptoms to protect you, the body can begin to reorganize toward repair.

If you’re ready for structure, clarity, and real-time guidance instead of trying to figure this out alone, this is the work we do.

There are only 3 spots left in the HEAL Live Intensive.
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Comparing your healing to someone else’s is one of the fastest ways to lose trust in your own body.Two people can share ...
05/01/2026

Comparing your healing to someone else’s is one of the fastest ways to lose trust in your own body.

Two people can share the same diagnosis and have completely different nervous system histories. Different stress loads. Different attachment patterns. Different trauma exposures. Different thresholds for safety. From a physiological perspective, that means their healing timelines, responses, and capacities will never look identical.

When you measure yourself against someone else’s progress, your nervous system often interprets that as threat. “I’m behind.” “I’m failing.” “Something must be wrong with me.” That internal pressure alone can reactivate the very stress responses you’re trying to calm.

Healing isn’t linear because physiology isn’t linear. The nervous system updates through repetition, safety, and timing. Progress often looks like subtle shifts in capacity, regulation, or resilience long before symptoms change in obvious ways.

Inside the HEAL Live Intensive, we don’t use a one-size-fits-all timeline. We work with your specific nervous system patterns and help you understand what your body needs to move out of protection and into repair. You receive real-time guidance, feedback, and support to tailor the program to you and your individual experience.

This is especially important for people living with chronic fatigue, pain, POTS, migraines, gut issues, autoimmune symptoms, anxiety, or nervous system shutdown, where comparison often leads to more activation instead of clarity.

If you’re tired of measuring your healing against someone else’s body, and want guidance that’s personalised to you, the HEAL Live Intensive may be the next step.

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