07/11/2025
♥️☺️Just be yourself,,,, sounds like an easily achievable thing to do,,🤷🏻♀️
We have been conditioned to not be our true selves since conception.
From birth we are expected to arrive on a certain date, if not we can be forced into life.
Told when we should crawl, sit up, stand and start walking.
Told what our likes and.dislikes are.
We start our education and are force fed information that isn’t always conducive to the life we might want to live.
We are expected to wear, feel, even look a certain way as we grow and mature,, even when to get married, have children and purchase a house.
Told how we should age and encouraged to look younger than we really are.
We go along with this because it’s become the norm.
But we have a choice,, we can choose what we desire from life. We have spent too much of life fitting in to what is expected of us.
You can challenge the status quo and begin to find what makes YOU tick.
You can begin by listening to yourself , what are your beliefs, passions and core values and spend intentional time alone to gain insight and clarity on these things.
Set aside time to be alone.
Writing down your thoughts, feelings , dreams, fears and daily experiences without judgement.
Consider who you were before the World told you who to be, what matters to you now, how do you feel about things in life now.
Try new experiences, step out of your comfort zone.
We are constantly growing , learning and evolving so this is a process that is a constant.
Trust yourself and find joy in everything you do.
