01/04/2026
MY STIFF UPPER LIP HURTS
I see many people struggling with their emotions these days. My heart aches for them, and if I could snap my fingers and take away their pain, believe me, I’d do it in a heartbeat.
I came across this quote which really made me think.
“You do not get to choose the events that come your way nor the sorrows that interrupt your life. They will likely be a surprise to you, catching you off guard and unprepared. You may hold your head and lament your weak condition and wonder what you ought to do. To suffer, that is common to all. To suffer and still keep your composure, your faith, and your smile, that is remarkable. Pain will change you more profoundly than success or good fortune. Suffering shapes your perception of life, your values and priorities, and your goals and dreams. Your pain is changing you.” – Pastor David Crosby
No one wants to be in emotional pain or holding back tears all the time. And many people who don’t carry that burden think you should just have a stiff upper lip, or just “get over it”. If you don’t face suppressed emotions, you’ll stay stuck in “getting over it” mentality, and it’ll become impossible for you to heal. You might believe that the pain is long gone, but it only moved from the conscious to the unconscious mind where it gained more power over your behavior. Remember, denied feelings turn into limiting beliefs.
If your stiff upper life is getting just too heavy to hold up, contact us today at Touchstone Health (https://touchstonehealthcalgary.com) and book your first B.E.S.T. treatment (Bio-Energetic Synchronization Technique). Using this gentle hands-on modality, we’ll work with you to remove those limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck in your story and stuck in your pain.
Remember, people who keep stiff upper lips find it’s darn hard to smile.
Just saying . . .
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