Couples Conversations

17/11/2025

Celebrate Your Differences Instead of Resisting Them

What annoys you today may be what strengthens your home tomorrow. Honor the uniqueness in each other.

16/11/2025

Silent resentment is more dangerous than spoken disagreement. Mature couples address conflict early.

16/11/2025

Prioritize Peace Over Winning Arguments

You can win an argument and still lose closeness. Choose relational peace over intellectual victory.

16/11/2025

A thriving marriage / relationship is built on understanding that nothing is worth losing oneness — not pride, not ego, not the desire to be right.

04/11/2025

KEEP THE FIRE BURNING

Just as physical winter requires fire to stay warm, relationships in emotional winter need intentional warmth:

Rekindle communication — talk daily, even about simple things.

Rekindle affection — small gestures thaw frozen hearts.

Rekindle spiritual fire — pray together; the altar of prayer melts emotional ice.

04/11/2025

Every relationship goes through seasons—spring (excitement), summer (growth), autumn (testing), and winter (coldness, withdrawal, and silence).
The winter season is marked by emotional distance, misunderstandings, or spiritual dryness.
Survival begins with awareness. Denial freezes the relationship further.

Are we pretending everything is fine, or are we acknowledging our season?

07/09/2025

06/09/2025

Deadly Mistakes Couples Make

02/08/2025

PACE OVER PERFECTION

Amos 3:3: Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?

We found the center of our marriage. We do everything together - Parenting, Business, Church, Prayer etc.

In marriage one partner may be STRONGER, the other more CAUTIOUS . Our discovery is that much as we differ in many ways, we must agree on a mutual pace.

Marriage is not about one DRAGGING the other , it's about finding RHYTHM in your DIFFERENCES .