09/11/2025
It’s doesn’t matter where you live, how much money you have, how many people are in your life….
If you make external circumstances responsible for your happiness, you will never feel the peace and contentment that you crave so deeply.
Wondering where to start? Here are my 3 suggestions.
1. Find things to be grateful for even on the tough days.
Bring yourself out of victim mode with daily gratitude practice. No matter how tough life is we can all find things that we can be thankful for. It might be your ability to walk to use your hands or voice. It could be a colleague at work or a picture from your child. List them all and FEEL the gratitude in your heart.
2. Find your people. Community is everything. But it won’t always come to you. Sometimes you have to go out and find it. Be proactive! Call the people that are going to lift you up but also hold you accountable, into your life. People who are honest but can also forgive. Who are thier whole messy human selves and don’t judge you for being the same.
3.Take radical self-responsibility. We all project our inside hurt into others. And others do it to us. The more self aware you can become, the better your relationships will be. And the sooner you will realise that happiness is an inside job that only you have the power to change. ❤️✨🔥
And of course, this is a reminder to self as much as a message to you all. Thank you to for the deep Sunday chats and being the mirror that I always forget that I need. 💕