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nadiathonnard.com Counsellor | Choice Coach | Mediator | Parenting Coordinator - FAMAC Accredited. Connect with me to explore your Behavioural Blueprint.

The focus of my work rests on the central idea that we choose our behaviour and we are responsible for what we do, think, and feel. This led me to design the โ€œBlueprintโ€ model which explores human behaviour and how to create change, because in essence, โ€œChange Begins Withinโ€. This will then assist to shift focus to Choice and Choosing and begin this journey starting with 3 simple little words:

Who am I?

๐—ก๐—˜๐—ช ๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—š ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—ง - No More Resolutions, Just Real ChangeAs the year starts to wind down, so many of us begin thinking about...
12/11/2025

๐—ก๐—˜๐—ช ๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—š ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—ง - No More Resolutions, Just Real Change

As the year starts to wind down, so many of us begin thinking about next yearโ€™s goals. The classic โ€œnew year, new meโ€ energy kicks in, and we start making resolutions to do better, eat better, live better.

But before you rush into another round of resolutions, take a step back and reflect for a moment.
How did last yearโ€™s resolution go?
What routines or habits did you slip back intoโ€ฆ again?
..๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ : https://nadiathonnard.com/index.php/2025/11/12/no-more-resolutions-just-real-change/

Whether youโ€™re new to the Behavioural Blueprint model and want to discover how it can help you, or youโ€™ve worked with me before and feel ready for a refresher, now is the perfect time to reconnect.
Letโ€™s explore your unique Blueprint together and set you up for a year of genuine, lasting change.

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โ€” letโ€™s make this next year the one where you become the change.

01/11/2025

Because Love is not what you expect from a REALationship, it's what you bring to it ...

You canโ€™t build resilience by pushing harder.You build it by understanding yourself.Notice your thoughts.Feel your emoti...
30/10/2025

You canโ€™t build resilience by pushing harder.
You build it by understanding yourself.

Notice your thoughts.
Feel your emotions.
Watch your reactions.

Thatโ€™s your Behavioural Blueprint at work.

Curious what yours reveals about how you handle stress, boundaries, and relationships?
Message me. Letโ€™s uncover your personal blueprint for change.

Fun isnโ€™t optional โ€” itโ€™s biological.Fun isnโ€™t frivolous โ€” itโ€™s a basic need that keeps your system in balance.Play a li...
30/10/2025

Fun isnโ€™t optional โ€” itโ€™s biological.
Fun isnโ€™t frivolous โ€” itโ€™s a basic need that keeps your system in balance.
Play a little today. Itโ€™s how your system resets. Your Blueprint will thank you.

Behind every reaction, defence, or outburst is a deeper longing to feel seen, heard, and valued. In my Behavioural Bluep...
25/10/2025

Behind every reaction, defence, or outburst is a deeper longing to feel seen, heard, and valued. In my Behavioural Blueprint model, disconnection is never the goal, itโ€™s a signal. When we pause to understand the why behind the behaviour, we open the door to awareness, choice, and ultimately, reconnection.
Connect with me to explore your Behavioual Blueprint.

13/10/2025

We donโ€™t argue over what is. We argue over how we see it.
Thatโ€™s why awareness and a REALity Check are key in mediation. When each person can recognise their own perception as just one version of reality, resolution becomes possible.
Conflict shifts the moment perception does.

Why are so many young people feeling lost today?Itโ€™s not about parents failing. Parenting is hard โ€” and when things get ...
18/09/2025

Why are so many young people feeling lost today?

Itโ€™s not about parents failing. Parenting is hard โ€” and when things get tough, control often feels like the only option.

But hereโ€™s the truth: every parent has the capacity to lead.
Leadership in parenting isnโ€™t about being perfect or naturally gifted โ€” itโ€™s about tapping into the leader already inside you.

Real leadership means:
๐Ÿ”น Guiding with clarity
๐Ÿ”น Modeling responsibility
๐Ÿ”น Building strong connections

When parents step into this kind of leadership, kids feel safer, more confident, and more capable of leading themselves.

Ready to tap into the leader within? Iโ€™ll be sharing practical ways to do it through the lens of my Behavioural Blueprint Model.

Help, Iโ€™m a Parent! - Learn how your Behavioural Blueprint can transform your parenting.Hereโ€™s the truth: even young chi...
15/09/2025

Help, Iโ€™m a Parent! - Learn how your Behavioural Blueprint can transform your parenting.

Hereโ€™s the truth: even young children canโ€™t be controlled. Tantrums arenโ€™t misbehaviour โ€” theyโ€™re communication. You canโ€™t control your childโ€™s outburst, but you can control your presence, your leadership, and your response. Thatโ€™s how you raise resilience instead of fear.

In my Behavioural Blueprint model, parenting isnโ€™t about power strugglesโ€”itโ€™s about leadership. When we model calm, connection, and clarity, our children follow.

- Want to break free from constant battles and start leading with confidence?
- Connect with me to learn practical tools that actually work in real life.

True resolution goes beyond agreements โ€” it creates healing, stability, and hope. With Mediation Cape Town, you donโ€™t ju...
27/08/2025

True resolution goes beyond agreements โ€” it creates healing, stability, and hope. With Mediation Cape Town, you donโ€™t just separate, you grow forward.

When you change your perception, you change your past, present & future.Your triggers donโ€™t have to control you. With my...
16/08/2025

When you change your perception, you change your past, present & future.

Your triggers donโ€™t have to control you. With my Behavioural Blueprint Model, you can spot whatโ€™s really happening in the moment, shift from reaction to choice, and start building the relationships and life you actually want.

Curious how this could work for you? Letโ€™s connect โ€” Iโ€™d love to show you how one simple shift can change everything.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life!Let that sink in.WHAT are you going to do about it?๐—œ๐—ณ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ...
12/08/2025

Today is the first day of the rest of your life!
Let that sink in.
WHAT are you going to do about it?

๐—œ๐—ณ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†.

Do you know the one simple shift that can change every relationship you have?Itโ€™s not about changing ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ โ€” itโ€™s about c...
09/08/2025

Do you know the one simple shift that can change every relationship you have?

Itโ€™s not about changing ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ โ€” itโ€™s about changing HOW you show up.

In my ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—•๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜ model, every interaction you have follows three steps:
WHY โ€“ Your needs and motivation
WHAT โ€“ Your actions and words
HOW โ€“ Your habits of connecting or disconnecting

When you understand your ๐—ช๐—›๐—ฌโ€“๐—ช๐—›๐—”๐—งโ€“๐—›๐—ข๐—ช, you take back control of your relationships and create the connections you truly want.

If youโ€™re ready to shift unhelpful patterns and build healthier, more empowering relationships, I can guide you through the process.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.
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Who am I?

The focus of my work revolves around self-discovery and healing which led me to design a model which explores human behaviour and how to create change, because in essence, โ€œChange Begins Withinโ€ and this journey starts with 3 simple little words: Who am I?

My name is Nadia.

Professionally, I am a qualified Counsellor, Coach and Family & Divorce Mediator.

I have been in this field of work for over a decade and have a passion for guiding individuals back to their authentic self. I ventured on a career change into applied psychology at age 42 when I got divorced after a 20 year relationship, and graduated with a Diploma in Counselling & Communication from the South African College of Applied Psychology (SACAP) in 2009.