03/02/2021
New Year's Resolutions: Tips & Traps
The 1st of January is traditionally the time when people all around the world decide to tackle all the things they’ve been wanting to change about their lives and lifestyles in the past year (or more). This typically manifests as a list of resolutions that they vow to adhere to in the coming year. As the saying goes, ‘New Year, New Me’.
But here’s the problem: the majority of us fail to actually follow through with these changes and/or implement them in the long run. In fact, about 30% of people give up on their resolutions within 2 weeks.
Why is that? Why are are we annually defeated by our New Year’s Resolutions? We know we should exercise more, eat healthier, drink more water, lose weight, cut out junk food, stop smoking, reduce our alcohol intake etc. So why can’t we do it?
Well, I think it’s exactly the same reason why restrictive and regimented diets don’t work on the long term. We try to implement too many drastic lifestyle changes and are quickly overwhelmed by the discomfort of such radical and militant alterations to our lives. We try to do everything at once and imagine that this is possible; a sort of ‘Superman’ complex.
Instead, we should be aiming to implement small changes that increase over time and fit easily into our lives. Think of these as baby-steps which will gradually build up towards a sustainable lifestyle change.
What about setting yourself a small, reasonable goal for each week, or every two weeks, or every month, or however long you need? Then, once you’ve achieved that and made it into a sustainable part of your life, you can keep on with it while adding a new small goal for the next week, two weeks or month.
Some ideas for these weekly/monthly baby-steps are:
• Reduce the sugar in my tea/coffee by 1 teaspoon
• Try to eat vegetables for supper at least every second day
• Replace at least 3 lunches per week with a salad (a salad with a protein like egg or chicken etc.)
• Reduce take-aways or junk food by one time per week
• Reduce smoking by 1 cigarette per day
• Reduce alcohol by one drink per occasion
• Walk briskly for 30 minutes every third day
Doesn’t this sound a whole lot more achievable than going the whole hog right from the start? I think so.
Remember, success is something achievable and sustainable; lifestyle changes which you enjoy and which still make life pleasurable.
Me? This week I’m going to try to be in bed by 9pm every week night. I think I can manage that.